@Mhizutty 14 February 2022 more from that month

World Love Day Happy Valentine's day guys!! I hope you got to show love to the people who deserve it in your life? Well not only the people who deserve it should be loved or shown love, everyone and anyone can be loved. It all depends on the lovee to decide who they want to extend their warmth of love towards. It's quite funny how most people think today is a day to show love only to the people they are romantically involved with. Anything beyond their girlfriends, boyfriends, wives or husbands do not concern them at all. Well I don't know how the day went for you, but on my end I've seen alot of packages both live and online as people are all over the place flaunting their gifts of either boxes of chocolate or flowers and cards and more. It fells nice to be celebrated by someone, makes one feel on top of the world. Do you hold this day special or it is just another day to you? This is a question that I asked a few people and many of them being females definitely tagged today as a special day to show love, mainly because conventionally females receive the love while guys give it. This makes me wonder what every other day is? Does this mean that love cannot be shown tommorow or next? Well...don't get me wrong as I'm not against taking one day out to celebrate the special people in your life, it's blissful infact. But what I don't like is the seeming over importance that is beginning to make the whole activity seem not nice. Frankly we should expect everything that falls into the hands of society to experience a drastic turnaround from the original concept because society is made of different people who add their different flavours that end up ruining the dish often times instead of spicing it up. Infact, it is the very quest to spice things up that make them over reach and do the worst. Valentine's day is not left out from this saga of wanting to impress. It's now beyond showing love if you ask me, I think it's now a competition. Everyone is struggling to make sure they get a surprise so that they can announce on social media and be among the winning team as they like to think. And the folks who don't get anything are willing to pose as if they do! You'd agree with me that things are getting out of hand. These days, getting a surprise is no longer the problem, they want a specific surprise that follows a specific trend. Tell me, how is it surprising when you're following a trend? I mean it's expected that you'd either bring flowers or a box of chocolates and deliver it using a courier. To me, this is just lame! What's even more annoying is that relationships would end today just because either party did not give a gift to the other. I'm still baffled by this and it makes me wonder what the other gifts in the same relationship have been for. We get and give gifts every other day that isn't Valentine's, so why must today's own be so significant that your relationship is worth breaking for? I guess like someone told me, I would never know until I'm there and it's happening to me. Who knows I might do same or not! Funny enough, the day like every other day is almost coming to an end and I'm sure a lot of people would start to think if all the rigours they went through to make their special someone happy was worth it. Well if you're in this boat, nothing we do for the people we love are ever too much. You know why? It's because they deserve it! Who best to stress yourself for it not them? For the single people who always say that Valentine's is coming and has come and they are there without anyone to show love to, I think this is false. Love mustn't be romantic all the time. You can go out of your way to extend the arms of love to a neutral friend who deserves it. Come to think about it, what happened to family? A lot of us spend on our girlfriends and boyfriends but have never gotten our parents anything apart from their birthdays. They can and should be loved too. Without them there'd be no you! **Author's Epilogue** It might be too late to show somebody some love if you haven't but Valentine's may end today, tomorrow is still a day that you can keep the love flag flying. Make someone's day special if you haven't, I'm sure there are multiple people in your life who deserve it. We often miss it because we want to do big things all the time, I put it to you today, little things mean alot. **Thanks for reading and Happy Valentine's to you❤️** **Mhizutty the voice of truth 🎵🎶🎵**