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Let's Break all the Chain. 21-09-2022 Hello Folks, what's up? Sometimes some moments, some experiences, some out-comings, and some heartbreaks change us. They won't stop us but kill us from inside and take a part of us with them. No, I am not sad or discouraged but something is missing inside me. Maybe it's my heart that's why I am heartless. I know how it feels when you are not the same person that you were 2,3 Years back but that's okay to be not okay sometimes because you had to grow. It is a **demand of time** in one aspect or the other hand "**Growth takes place only when we lose some important part of ourselves"** I know we never want to disclose ourselves in front of people once again and don't even want to trust them back because they break our trust once. Some don't even want to make more friends again, and some of us wanted to leave alone and find peace and happiness in aloneness instead of living in a crowd. That's all okay because we have the right to do so and we act according to the situation. No one has the right to force us and betray us on our backs. After all, this is our life and it depends upon us what is good and what's bad for ourselves. If someone is going through a lot, then he knows how a person can tackle it in one way or the other. **"Pains and suffering are somehow part of our life"** They are always inevitable and give us a lesson in dealing with them instead of ruining us. If you want to reserve, so stay reserved but that does not mean you disrespect people for trying to spend time with you or you can humiliate them coz your previous experience was not good. Never condemn others' kindness if someone is treating you nicely. Every person has a different intention toward you just put a smile on your face when someone is polite to you or if you don't get a good vibe from someone then try to ignore them like a master lol. Spread positivity. Appreciate others. If someone is trying to make you feel good, you should try twice to give him output. Final Thoughts:- Make your boundaries without hurting others. I know no one can deserve the pain they went through but life has its plans. You deserve love and one day you will find it's the way you are looking for a long time. Worry less and smile more coz life is too short for it. The End... Catch me there too. https://noise.app/MeherMah The header image is taken from Unsplash.
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One of my schoolmates calls me almost once every month. It cost nothing because Talktime on mobile phones is unlimited. It gives a good feeling to talk for a few minutes.
Exactly, it feels good when we talk about shit things but still, it makes sense to laugh react like like always. Haha, 😅
Ups and downs are the part of life. Sometimes we learn through it while sometimes its torn us into pieces especially the pressure of carrier, stress standing on your own feet leads you toward in totally different life. But still life goes on no matter how hard it is totay.
Agree, Some experiences are worse but still, they make us especially when we are completely broke.
Pains and suffering, we will never learn if we didn't experience all of that. Its just that, sometimes for some people to change, they will really need to experience the worst before they come to realize that somwthing is wrong with or what.
Exactly, that's why I say without pain and suffering it's hard to grow and growth only takes place when we lost some important characters that are bound to us.
Life is not the same always, pain and sufferings are part of life and it's alright to feel this way because it helps us to know more ourselves!
Exactly, If I can say we are made for pain and suffering then it will not be wrong. Haha
True my friend because there's a trust issues already if they ruin your trust. Me my friend I am really scared to trust again the people who betray me because it's really painful.
Exactly, Trust is one of the most important elements in a relationship. If it's broken once then it's hard to trust again.
Yes really true my friend. It's not healthy anymore, trust is ruin already.
I like that quote about growth. I am not the same some 10 years back. I felt like I was more jollier and more fun than I am now. I guess with age you learn to be more serious with life.