Is it a Year of Break-ups?

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2 years ago
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You might be seeing a lot of news of celebrity couples breaking up. One after another, these couples are announcing their break-ups and, in turn, breaking their fans' hearts.

You might think it may be the season of break-ups, and you may be right. This year was predicted to be the year of break-ups by feng shui experts. Now, we could see it coming true.

And you might also be thinking that relationships are not really worth it. You might be dismissing it more negatively now, thinking nothing really lasts forever. Even the long-time couples get separated. Even that sweet couple that you were envious of ended their relationship in the worst possible way. Even the couples you thought would last because of their endearing posts on social media threw away their relationship quickly.

It may be upsetting for some of you to see that relationships do not last long. You might be thinking that forming these bonds is not even worth it if they won't last. And you would not want yourself to commit to something that would not even save you.

Your worries are valid. It will be worrying if you're not worried at all. Love is a strange feeling. But, love is not something you should be afraid of. Relationships may be fragile and shaky, but they are worth keeping and pouring your love on, especially with the right persons.

Relationships are not thorns you should be avoiding. They are like plants worth taking care of. It just really depends on you and the other person. It is in both of you how you will make it grow. Relationships grow when love is poured. So, you just have to love each other in the right way. Like how plants become healthy when watered daily, relationships should always be filled with love every day without fail.

Feeling that love is easy. Showing it may not be a little hard. But, showing that love for a long time consistently may be much harder. That's the secret of keeping relationships. It is not enough to feel it but to show it. Words and actions, when both are given out of love – they make relationships strong.

Showing love is not hard if it is for the right person and from the right 'you'. No one knows how to love perfectly, but when you want to enter into a relationship, you should be willing to learn and improve along the way. Loving would not be hard if it is the real love you are feeling. Loving would not be hard if it is the right person. So, choose well. Choose a person who loves, respects, and trusts you all throughout. And choose to be a person who does the same.

Yet, some things just don't work out. Relationships can be a strong bond, but some are fragile. Some easily break with one mistake, one simple wrong. Like all those break-ups you keep hearing these days.

All these break-ups do not mean love is not true. These break-ups actually mean love – love yourself and love for the one you broke up to. It is true that relationships last when we always show our love, but that does not mean you should not stop. Relationships should make you grow. Gone are the days when people think that they should stay in a relationship even if it is not worth it anymore.

Some bonds become toxic over time, so people leave. That's not wrong. Leaving in a relationship may be the best for you, and that's self-love. You should choose to be happy. When it is not healthy for you anymore, take a stand and leave. Love should not be a prison for you. It may also be better for the other person too. On the other hand, some fall out of love. It just happens. It may be difficult but we should accept that things do not always go as expected. Let go of a relationship that does not make the both of you happy anymore.

Break-ups are not bad. Love is not scary. Life will not be the same if you choose to be afraid. You can be alone if that's better for you, but you should not close your heart. These break-ups you see may be too many, but there are more relationships that last. Be free.

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nakaka sad naman talaga na nag sabayan ang mga break ups but meron din naman nag tie the know na talaga after being in a relationship for so long.. but it doesn't mean we shouldn't believe in love anymore...love will always be present

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2 years ago

I personally believe that breakups are God's way of keeping us away from the wring person. Chaka, sabi nila, wala rw talaga yan sa tagal ng panahon. Pag di talaga kayo, di tala mapipilit.

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2 years ago

Having break ups it doesn't mean ur no longer to love again. Take it as opportunity that u will look after yourself again and u will love yourself again.🤗

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Break ups are not bad if the relationship is already toxic, there's no reason anymore to stay if both of you fell out of love. Sometimes it's better to tell the truth that you fell out of love rather than staying or find another partner that may cause commotion. It's better to end the relationship rather than fooling out yourself.

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2 years ago

Yes Julez I agree with you, love it is should be the mutual feelings to each partner. It should be the real love. When it comes to break up, there are a lot of reasons why is it happen but always be in a good decision. If it is toxic already, leave and it is your right but if there still a chance to settle, go for it since it you will regret at the end.

Always be wise when it comes to decision making since it's really important. Your life will be dependent on the decision you have. The other one always choose a good partner to be in your life.

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