@McAdeleye
Life lessons
Life itself is a lesson on its own. What we see, what we do, our actions and reactions, our thoughts, our plans, our dreams, our hopes, our wishes most times come along with bunches of lessons. So we have to live our lives and always be prepared for anything at any time in our life. To dive into life lessons everyone would surely have something to say. It has been said that there is no glory without a story and no victory without a history. To achieve something in life at times there have to be sacrifice, and at times there might be none. So those who have to make sacrifices should never compare themselves to those who aren't. You live in your own life and run your own race at your own pace in life. When you compare yourself to others then the competition begins. Competition at times makes one strive but most times diminishes one’s self if care is not taken. So my dear friends, try to **LIVE YOUR OWN LIFE AND DO THINGS YOUR OWN WAY.** Most of the time fear stands to be a great enemy to most people making them lose track of their aim and goals. At times if one can get rid of the fear of them there is surely a long way to go. Many would discourage, abuse, backbite, even some would try to pull you down. But standing strong and in good form would keep you on track. Then you have to discover that nothing else is more important than you having to **BE YOURSELF ALWAYS** Talking about people, the word **"people ''** can mean two things: either they stand as "peace" or they stand as **"problem".** Now it's left for you to play your game wisely. Would you allow peace to reign in your life or cause problems in your life? Knowing whom to make friends with and people to invite into your personal life is so important. Then you have to put in mind that **YOU CAN'T PLEASE EVERYONE.**
Image source My dad does tell me in anything you do in life, make sure to put yourself first. Because this life we found ourselves, everyone would surely praise you for your good heart, they would praise you for your hard work, they might appreciate your intelligence, but when you are gone it takes no time for them to forget about you and call upon someone else. https://pixabay.com/photos/rustic-ancient-map-globe-3441673/ So if you live your life trying to please people without taking good care of yourself then you might later regret being a good Samaritan. This is not stingy, but make sure to take good care of yourself first. Because **YOUR HEALTH IS YOUR MOST VALUABLE ASSET.** But in anything you do in life, NEVER FORGET TO PUT GOD FIRST. This is a little word of wisdom from me to you all. Life is so simple, but at times might look complex. It all depends on you and the type of life you have chosen to live in. Have a nice time friends. **IT IS NOT GOODBYE BUT SEE YOU AGAIN 👋👋👋👋 👋👋👋👋👋💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞**
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12 comments
Yes, always be yourself! Do the things that makes you happy. Don't mind those people judging you. You don't need to please everyone!
Well said And I concur you what you have said Your words are highly appreciated
Indeed.. always put God first then yourself next.. Whatever you do, it should always be for yourself not for others..
Thanks so much for your words ma’am m, it’s highly appreciated
Indeed, put God in everything. Do your own thing but make sure that you are not hurting anyone and even yourself. Be you. Stay happy.
You just gave an accurate summary of all the write up
Cheers! Keep writing :)
Life sure has more than enough lesson to teach us, every day we wake up, we are faced with challenges, the best is to learn from the lessons life has though us, braze up, emulate it and bring out our best from it.
Well said That’s just one of the basic fact about life. Thanks for reading through 🤭
It is only those who want to write their death wish or die before time should think about doing that but anyone who plans to live long on this planet earth should never think that because we can never please anybody. I tell myself this, as long as I know my conscience isn't dead just yet even though my friends call me evil stating that I don't know how to hide my feelings, I sure know how to do things in a good way. Why on earth should I live pleasing people, it is the most miserable thing to think or do and anyone doing that is indeed the most miserable person on earth. I had said that to a man who claimed to be a man of God that I am as a person, I expect to please God, myself, and my parents. I put my parents last because in most cases, they would want to live our lives for us and that shouldn't be done. People are people and will always remain people, judgemental, criticism, and the rest of them but then, there are two things involved in this. Trying not to be like what they have said and paying deaf ears to them because they will always do that. Now, this is what I am saying, I have heard and said statements like, I don't care what people say, I do my thing, but over time, I learned that, even though we should pay deaf ears to what they are saying, we should always be conscious of checking our lives and be sure that whatever they are saying, isn't what we are actually doing. Then, if you have checked and cross-checked, and you are sure, you can pay deaf ears to their judgment or critics. You know being yourself and not trying to be competitive in life isn't as easy as said because we live around people, but a conscious step and effort and with God by our side, we can do that. Oh boy, this was a long note 🙆♀️🤦♀️ Thanks for sharing.
A long read indeed. Hahahahah Maybe I call this a post under a post. 😂 By the way i Iove the aspect where you said God , yourself, then parents. It just the reality. Some parents are that way. They won’t want to know the one’s choice but you have blend with theirs And thing aren’t done that way. Thanks for the comment I really appreciate it You just earned a subscriber 😂😂😂😂
I am already blushing ☺️. Thank you so much for that.