Improve our ill mindset.

December 4-2021.

hi my dear family,how are you. I am fine. In fact, today I will give you some tips to protect ourselves from our mental illness.

let's start the topic.

Improve our ill mindset.

Whenever we see someone doing something wrong. That's when we blame him. I don't have time to understand what he did wrong and why. What is the reason behind making a mistake?I don't think anything of these.I think everything around us will be perfect for us.But we forget that it is never possible for all these things to be perfect.Because we start this journey by perfecting ourselves.We try to see our own mistakes. In today's article, I will write about some of the habits that make us feel inferior as a human being.It is because of these mistakes that we have not been able to develop ourselves as perfect human beings.

One of our habits is to judge the other very easily.We may not be good at anything. Or we have no knowledge about it.Even then, we make judgments about those things.If that were the case, we would try to correct him by catching his mistake.In such a school, children from different places come to study.But if the school rules that they are not only admitting good students, no one will take the bad ones.Then we will all say that a judgmental has been made inside the school.What will happen in case some students we will stay away from developing so it is not right.Similarly, when you see a person around you doing wrong, try to correct him and explain to him the right thing to do.It may be that you don't like the way a man looks at his clothes, but it turns out that he is much wiser than you.From this it is understood that it is never right to judge someone by his outward appearance.One thing you should all do is don't judge the book by it's cover.Judgmental behavior must be stopped from today.

Then we make the next mistake which makes our nature worse.We often do not see the good in others.Seeing the success of others is jealous.But why this thing? Whoever I am is only for myself.Just like where you are, you are in this position only because of your hard work.Everyone's journey is different.So when someone is doing a good job, appreciate him and appreciate his work.Unnecessary jealousy is the name of making one's mind and mind small.Don't be jealous of him, try to learn the good things from him and apply them in your life.Try to develop yourself with that time without wasting time with violence.

Then what we do is we always compare ourselves with someone else.Nowadays in the world of WhatsApp, Facebook and Instagram, when I see a good picture of a friend, I try to put myself in that position.Then we think to ourselves how much this friend of mine is enjoying while I can't.We can see these pictures now through Facebook and Instagram. So we must do these things on Facebook WhatsApp for a certain amount of time.Always keep it different, don't compare yourself with anyone.

Then whatever I say, don't blame fate.We grew up hearing a word from childhood. If fate does not help, then there is nothing to do.When we hear this, we become totally dependent on fate.Let me tell you - it's not my business.You forget that we are trying to create our own destiny, our own future, so we will not stop because there is no destiny.We wait for the opportunity but never try to create the opportunity ourselves so that failure surrounds us.When you come to this place, you have to understand, make your own place, even if no one gives you a chance, try to snatch it.So keep trying to create opportunities for yourself.Don't blame fate, don't rely on fate.

There are also some of us who are more interested in the life of others.What people are eating, what people are wearing, what people are saying, these are the things that go around all day.So much interest in other people's lives that if he had a little bit of his own life, his own life would be better.In the end, this is what I would say, refrain from such work.You have no interest in the life interest of others. Think about your own life.

The ones I have been discussing for so long, these are the habits seen in the mind.I tried to write something in line with real life, maybe you will like it.

Thanks for staying with me for so long.

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@Mazekin💕