How healthy is your relationship, how to understand? Many good or risky. let's see.

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2 years ago

Hey hi, Mazekin in came among you again. How are you? How is your day? I really hope all ok. I'm fine too. And I am among you because I am well.

Let's start today's article without exaggerating.

At the beginning of the relationship there is a lot of share, a lot of care, a lot of profit, a lot of nothing.From the beginning of the relationship, the feelings of love are like a dream.So much love, so much love, so much faith, so much care, so much priority goes down day by day.There was a time when extra quarrels broke out in those places, Miss Understanding.Suspicion of one another, of ignoring, also comes in about many other things.In fact, how do we understand the position of our relationship, what is its health, I will actually try to talk a little about that. Stay together.If you have these questions. If you also want to understand the state of your relationship. Then you can read this article of mine.Maybe you can get a little solution from here, which will work for the future of your relationship. I will say a few points. You can combine these with your life. Then maybe you can figure out the solution yourself.

If you are in a relationship with someone then you will have a lot more attention towards him. You will always be interested to know about him. About his family, about his personal life, about his career, you will always have an extra interest in him.In this way the other person and you will express this interest. If your relationship is healthy.Repeatedly knocking, repeatedly reminding you of the small things you want to see, these may be a Hindi relationship description, it may have been too much at the beginning of your relationship, but day by day it seems to be taking away, then you will understand that there is going to be a problem about you.Now you have to see if your interest is still there or if this place has become neglected.If you see that the previous interest is no more, then you must understand that your relationship is no longer so healthy.

Then comes another point.Going beyond all the work of the world, the man who cared so much for you. Now that man has all the work of the world.

Now it is very difficult to find his own.I can do everything just by watching movies and chatting. I just can't give you time. The previous caring feeling towards you is gone.You are an optional person to him now.If you see ego in the middle of your relationship, then it will have a really bad effect on you.In any case, it may seem like, why should I do it first, why not. In fact, it's the ego. And that's what ends our relationship.

This time I will talk about Understanding Versus Complain.In fact, a relationship is only healthy when one tries to understand the other. Understands each other's words in any situation.But when the complaint comes instead of understanding, then the relationship doesn't work well anymore.Then it makes the relationship a week.When you see the two understand each other better from the beginning of the relationship. But now the complaints have gone to those places. Then you really have to think about this issue.Instead of trying to recover, they wallow in their sadness and thus, experience more failure.Then you will understand that the health of your relationship is at risk.

Let me make another point.Trust and Doubt.If you look at it as a house, then faith is a pillar.And trust is very important in shipping relationships. If you look at one thing, there is more doubt about you than belief. It is not a good relationship.But I think there will be doubts. Because it is somehow an expression of love. But the two will have to come to an agreement again. Then your relationship will work in a healthy way.But this tendency of suspicion becomes excessive. Cross the limit. Then it can be taken in a better way.

Then I will say Respect Verses Insult.If you want to carry on a healthy relationship, or if you want to understand the state of your relationship, then you must look at this thing. How is the respect among you. If you see it has decreased a lot. Then you will understand that the future of your relationship is absolutely bad. Insult has taken its place in respect. And that is the worst part.

We want a relationship to last a lifetime. Relationships are not for one day. So you can take note of these things to keep our relationship healthy or to understand how healthy your relationship is, which I am sharing from some of my personal experiences.

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I don't understand mine anymore hahaha..I am getting crazy, just kidding.

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2 years ago

Falling in love is easy, but staying in love is difficult. It's quite hard to maintain a relationship because challenges do come up sometimes, but the important thing is for the couple involved to be able to understand each other enough to remain in the relationship

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2 years ago

Very interesting content. Particularly I have been without any relationship for a long time. But I am interested in the subject because I have also written articles about relationships, the toxic ones and the ones that are carried by social networks. I enjoyed reading your post. Greetings to you.

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2 years ago

Thanks for reading mate.

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2 years ago

We want love to last a lifetime. To achieve this, it must be watered every day, like roses, so that it does not wilt.

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2 years ago

Oh dear 100% right. thanks mate.

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2 years ago

Understanding each other and showing interest on one another's personal feelings will increase the love. This is helpful for creating a special bond in your relationship.

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2 years ago

I love how you put emphasis on "understanding and respect" this is where I see many people having issues with their relationships, they are hard as it is, but a relationship without understanding, trust and respect will break off like twigs.. great post dear

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2 years ago

Yeah this is must important. thanks mate.

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2 years ago

Being in a relationship is not easy. Your lucky if both partners really respect each other. Pero may lalaki talagang ayw tumanggap ng pgkakamali kya hndi healthy ang relationship ko tlga pero dahil sa mga anak ko, need ko mg adjust. Gnyan nmn mga ina gagawin ang lahat para sa mga anak diba.

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2 years ago

Thanks dear for feedback.

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2 years ago

Yeah exactly right in the beginning of every relationship everything is going well, but as the relationship getting older the people are bored from each other, just quarrel, fight and then break-up😿, that's why I say stay single stay happy 😹

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2 years ago

Thanks for reading mate. Relationships need to have some things in this case.

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2 years ago

I like how you explain the important of understanding.. in a relationship we should also learn how to listen to each other so both of you can understand the problem and you can solve it to save the relationship

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2 years ago

I know you understand my words. Thanks.

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2 years ago