Elevation requires Brutal Separation

Even you tried to avoid, sometimes you've gotta go broke,

Even you hold and still fighting for, they will still choose to leave you

Separate ways with the most important person is one of the hardest decision we can made in life.

But if letting go is the only way for you to survive then be it. There's no harm on letting go those people and things that you know that doesn't contribute on your well being.

I've been through a lot and I know you too. Facing challenges every day is actually tiring routine. It seems that you only choose to overcome them in order to survive. It's true that we can't overcome all of those struggles in our life alone. Admit it or not, we need someone else. We need their help and support sometimes. But the sad thing about it is, not everyone would support us the way how we support them. Not everyone will give the same energy that we give to them. Not all people surrounded to you is willing to sacrifice themselves for your sake because honestly, some of them is only a part of your journey but not until the end. It seems that they only the extra in your own story.

If you really want an elevation, maybe it's also the time that you need separation. Does it really hurts being separated on the things and people we used to have before? Maybe yes but as time passes by, we can actually realize that separation is not always about losing but sometimes it's also define winning. Sometimes the main reason why we can't move an inch on the position we have right now is because we are too attached on the person and things to the point that we could never imagine losing them. You are afraid on taking a risk to undergo in an unfamiliar path in front of you. You are tired of knowing new faces that's why you let yourself be stuck on the people who can't appreciate your value. You only just hold on the word that maybe someday, he will realize my value. But when? Until when you are willing to wait for that time? Are you sure that you wait for something or are you just afraid on letting go of them because you are scared of being alone again? But if reality hits you so hard, you will tend to realize that I should not be like this anymore because maybe you are just waiting for nothing. Maybe, you are just wasting your time instead grabbing those open doors in front of you.

Just like what I've said, separation is not always bad. Sometimes, you need to let go everything and everybody for you to find what's the best for you. Maybe bigger things waiting for you but you just blind not recognizing them. Its okay to be separate yourself from those people who burning you down. It's okay to step away to those people who degrading you. It's okay to be prioritize yourself than always being available for them. Separate yourself from all of the negativity and toxic environment. Remove yourself from that in order for you to step on the next level. Don't let yourself be stuck on the place that makes you suffocated at the first place. It's not an act of selfishness. Keep pushing yourself to the authentic and new. If you really want to take ahead in life, be ready for brutal separation. Broken hearts, make mistakes, fail miserably ,close friends that turns into strangers and losing people is actually part of it. But still, if you really want to help others to elevate themselves, you should learn, teach and condition yourself first before fetching and helping them. We must rescue ourselves first before coming back to them.

Greetings!!

Good evening dreamers!! How's life in your area? I do hope that you can still able to make some rest especially if you deal with a hectic schedule today. I'm sorry if I'm article is not that well organize, honestly I don't know if it really make sense. I just feel like I need to write something in order to lessen my nervousness in our upcoming defense this Thursday. Please pray for the successful defense. 🥺 After this week, I believe that I can finally breathe. And sorry if I seldom visit your articles these past few days, I'll make bawi once I finished all of this requirements. Have a good night sleep then.