How Does It Feels Like To Be Sexy?

What do you call sexy? How do you define the word being "sexy."

Social Media defines how it feels like to be sexy and what sexiness is. The society tell us about the meaning of being sexy. Sometimes it matters about what we wear and how people see it while we are wearing of it. They say being sexy means you are able to aroused desire. People say that beauty is defined by the pleasing senses in our sight wh up while being sexy can caused a feeling of excitement.

What comes to your mind when you hear the word sexy?

Do you think about about a very small waist size? A larger hips? A fully perky boobs and huge butt? Having a thin body to wear swimsuit and revealing clothes? These are all how being sexy was seen in the society and in the social media. When you don't have these, you are less sexy or never been sexy at all. Sometimes people are using body-shaming to insult someone and show that they are having a good body compared to that.

Do you think that you need more time to spend in the gym working out and building a good body shape? Eating low amount of foods to have good shape and lose weight or to have a good belly?

These are all what the human mind think about the ideal sexy. It requires a lot of standards to become sexy in the eyes of people. But to tell you, being sexy does not only depend on how you look in your physical appearance or in the outside.

How to become sexy?

Be confident. That's the main key to see yourself in a positive way. Everything around the world depends on how you start thinking. When you start thinking that way, the world also goes that way. Be confident the way you act, talk and most of all the way you think. Never mind the way people look at you. If you are confident on your own, how the other sees you doesn't matter anymore.

Have some self-care. When others doesn't see your value, be the one to see it and appreciate it. Take care of yourself physically, mentally and psychologically. Remember that a right person will love you for who you are and once they see the beauty in you, they also see the sexy version of yourself. Sexy and sexual are different. You can be sexy by being confident and knowing where you stand. Sexiness is a personality traits that comes from the confidence. It's more beautiful to present yourself the way you want it and not because of how the society tells you. In the end, it's not the about the sexiness that matters but how you become the best version of yourself.

Sexy confidence is a self-assurance in yourself to be who you are, and not try too hard to be something else. It also means knowing when to say that you are wrong, and the way you do it. 

Yes, they can make you feel less attractive compared to others. They can give low self-confidence and esteem. But you don't really have to become like them. Just wear the clothes you want to wear and there's nothing wrong of it as long as you're confident of it. Also, don't forget to add smile because a smile makes you a thousand more attractive. Be confident on your own and people will appreciate the confidence you have stored and earned. You are attractive and unique just like the others. You are sexy and beautiful like them regardless your shape. Have some confidence to speak and this will add more attractiveness and sexiness within you. Stop following the definitions of sexy according to society. Remember that life is short and be your own best version you ever seen. Others may not see you beautiful the way you see yourself but always remember this, be confident with your skin.