Dear Marky: Workmates Lover?

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In love with a Cute and Sweet worker even if she is married

Dear Marky,

I already have a husband but I still fall in love with my co-worker. Because he is cute and also sweet. What will I do? - Celeste

Celeste,

If you have a husband, be faithful to him. Don't look at other men because I assure you that you will only make a sin. Therefore, you say you are already in love with him. If you still have conscience stay away. Failure to do so will inevitably lead to disaster. You will even be told bad words by those around you. Maybe you don’t want to be told ‘Slut’, right? Why it hurts. It turns out that you are not the type to be contented with a man.

If you and your spouse live on the same roof and share the same bed, why do you need to be attracted to another man? It would be okay if you admire an actor, singer, or politician but at least you didn't love them because you are in love but because they are handsome or somewhat. However, it is another matter if the man is with you in the office. Certainly not just a simple admiration you feel. You said you are already in love.

What if that guy felt that he is the type of man you want and he criticized your cuteness, would you give up? I think ‘yes’ will be your answer. That is not impossible. I'm sure you can't ignore him because you really like him. Whereas if you have just resisted your feelings, you will never make a mistake again.

So, while it is still early, do the right thing. It is not bad to admire but it is better to just glance at him and do not stare because I assure you that your guilt will begin there. I'm sure you can say that he is sweet because you entertain him. You let him show you are concerned about him.

Do you know the ‘big mess’ you are doing? I am sure your husband will not be happy knowing that you entertained another man. I’m sure he is not dumb that he doesn’t know you have someone else to like. Unless, of course, you're really good at pretending. Is that type when you face him he does not know that you have someone that you really like. That's why, there's no secret is not revealed so I am sure that one day if you did not stop entertaining your co-worker, your husband will surely know that too.

If you have a child with your husband, it would be good if you think of them. It may be that by then your brain has determined what you really like. Hopefully, you are not the type of woman who will just do whatever she wants even if she hurt the people who really love her, because someday you might regret everything you did.

Please remember, no matter how kind a person your husband is when you let go of his patience, I am sure he will give up too. Not only will he be angry, but he will also even hurt. So, do not let that get you to that point. Just now, avoid it if you know you will make a sin.

The girlfriend is in a high position, so the security guard bf has been used

Dear Marky,

I was a security guard and fall in love with an employee I worked for. Her position is high so we can't shout about our relationship. I understand her in case I feel like she is just fooling me. She just always ask to buy things for her. Will I continue this relationship? - Raffy

Raffy,

If you already know that she is just fooling you, why would you continue to have a relationship with her? You are only hurting yourself. Don't be like that. Even if you love a woman, you must also respect yourself. That will only happen if you do not allow her to just spin, use, and play because, in the end, you too will be miserable.

Don’t think that she loves you too. Maybe she’s just flirting with you so she just asks to buy things. Oh my, If you think so, there will be no one but you. If you already feel like she is just using you to get what she wants, do not ignore that feeling. That instinct so you have to listen. You do not even have to fool yourself if you see signs that she is just using you.

If you can love other people, love yourself more. You do not deserve a woman like her no matter how beautiful and sexy she is. Your physical appearance will not always be the basis for choosing a loved one, she must also have good manners and I think, that woman is not like that. Raffy, please listen to me. You do not need a user all you need is someone who will truly love you. So, you better break up with her too.

Even if you say you love her, if she doesn't love you, it doesn't matter. If her only goal is to buy you something, you will suffer. Or, would you like that? I’m sure not, so you better do the right thing. Also, even if you have a relationship, she will not be able to make you proud of anyone.

It may not be because of her higher position but because you are in the same company. It may be because it is forbidden for the company to have a relationship. Or maybe because the relationship she wants to introduce is something she can be more proud of.

He does not love you so do not feel pain. You too will be miserable later. All you have to do is understand your job, don't let it affect your presence. Your family should be the inspiration and not that woman I will be just a distraction to you. There is an advantage to you when others do not know your relationship. And at least you didn't go down without explaining yourself first.

In time you will find the woman destined for you. You will be accepted and truly loved. Your relationship will not give you that now so it is better to accept now that you are not for each other. If you are in pain right now, that is natural. But, the pain you feel will disappear in time so, do not be bored.

I thought of making this series for the broken-hearted to have a chance to release the pain they are feeling. So, if you are frustrated with love, it is better to just say a problem here so that I can advise you. I know it will help a lot then to make the pain you feel okay, in this series I will advise you on what I know and experience but the best way to release the pain is to pray and talk to God about what is best for you.

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