Have you ever experienced failure in life?
Friday - October 2, 2020
We know that failure in our lives will not go away. We also know that everyone in this world has experienced failure in life, sometimes we end up losing hope, and sometimes we just say to end our lives because we know that all our problems will be solved when we are lost in this world. But we make mistakes, why don't we stand up or get up to correct that failure, we will not be given a test that we cannot handle. Failure is associated with success.
It serves as a bridge so that we can be more stable and stand on our own two feet. Without failure in our lives, we will not learn and we will continue to be weak. It is also a testament to a person's ability to rise from the sad chapter of his or her life.
When I fail in life, I always think of two things:
1. Look at the importance of your failure in life.
You will not learn in a lifetime if you do not experience failure. It is a proof sign of resilience and strength because he/she is able to overcome sadness and hardship in failure. The person with this behavior still inspires everyone to get up, work hard, and continue to fight the challenges of life.
2. Accept positive and negative reactions or emotions in life.
You have to accept all the trials that come into our lives because you will not be successful for life, nor will you receive failure for life. Accept the negative emotions of sadness in life along with the positive how you will rise again.
During my twenty-three years in this world, I also had some failures in life but also got up and overcome.
I failed to be the 1st honor when I was in High school.
Academics at school were very important to me back then because that's where I make my parents happy every time they go up on stage. Since I was in elementary, I achieved being the 1st honor in class. I maintained that but when I was in high school I failed to reach it again, I only became 2nd honor in class. I always cried when I lost or failed because I was not used to who loses.
I failed in a school contest.
Every year I am involved in essays in writing. Every year I also win, the pleasure of feeling that you make the mentors who taught you smile, and the smile of my parents who always support me but the year came when I failed to win again, the first time I saw that my parents are sad, my mentors and the expectations of those who believe in me are disappointed. It hurts a lot, but that's how sometimes we win, sometimes we lose and we have to accept that because it's probably part of our lives.
I failed to reach my desired score in the entrance exam.
When I take the exam, I have a goal that I should get this score but when I entered a university and took the entrance exam, I still have the same view of life that I want to achieve the score but I failed again. I did not know what was happening to me, mixed emotions with joy, sadness, and fear. HAPPY because I passed the entrance exam but mixed with SADNESS because I did not reach the high score and FEAR because what will my parents say because before I left home they expected not only to pass but you should be the highest in the batch who took the exam.
I failed my first course.
The first course I attended I did not really like, but that was still my choice because that is what my parents wanted. So maybe I failed because I am not happy with this course, it does not spring from my heart and I especially do not like it but in return that is the sadness I see in my parents every day but they can do nothing, I can do nothing but switch to another course. The only thing I learned here is that you can learn from your mistakes and strive to change, or just focus on your failures and not try anything else. You decide what you want to do.
These are just some of the failures I will never forget but until now it still seems like the pain.
Always thank the Lord because he will give us a test that he knows we can overcome. Yes, at first it really hurts but the day will come when you will realize that destiny still has a good plan for us. That failure that you have always cried for now will bring success to your life.
How about you, have you ever experiences FAILURE in life?
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