Woman's World

"If you never been told how you gotta be

What you gotta wear, how you gotta speak

If you never shouted to be heard, you ain't lived in a woman's world"

• Woman's World by Litte Mix

I'm actually sick and tired of hearing comments and phrases that is about how weak women are. Like how in the world can you say that when we carry all what we should not?

Giving birth is the second most painful thing to happen in the person. The first one is actually being burned alive.

Men don't have to deal with that. Pregnancy and giving birth is only made and done by women. Men don't have to suffer.

Menstruation is one of the hardest things to deal with ever since then. You always get flustered about bleeding. You are afraid to get a drop of blood going into your skirt or short while you are outside. You deal with diarrhea at some point. And you deal with these ones for a week. Then you hear your boyfriends or other men that even thought they don't experience periods, they are sick and tired when they have to deal with their girls. So how much if you actually experience it yourself? You'll be dead by now, is that it?

I experience having periods at a very young age. Trust me, I don't know a thing or two about menstruation. It is so much difficult when you don't have an adult girl like your sister or mother at your side during those times. I think it is very much hard for girls who don't have those two.

Even though, I haven't experience pregnancy, I have seen women dealing with it, specifically my mother. Having another living thing in your womb is already a difficult one. Even though that thing right inside is a blessing, the journey is not always fun. You get a lot of stress, not just from being pregnant but the surrounding and environment you live on. The food you eat will always be the biggest influence to the one you carry.

But the other day, I heard my mom's friend whom her husband cheated on her during her pregnancy who is the one pregnant. Like how do boys swallow that kind of mistake? Is there a devil inside of you? If you're experiencing lust and want to get it out, please wait after months, up until your wife gets okay. Stupid men.

Cheating when done once is already the end of it. Because if you really love the woman, you won't find another.

Think twice when you are about to say that women are weak. You don't know what they have to deal with every day.

You men, are respected when you put food on the plate. Women are struggling to get respect even though they take care of you and your kids, wash the dishes and clothes, clean the house, deal with assignments after assignments, lose her make-up due to lack of time for herself, then to just be called a not-so-good mother.

Have you ever wonder how it's like to be a girl?

You are judged when you walk down the streets wearing a strip clothes. But then you hear somebody say that you can't find a man because you don't know how to style and fix yourself.

You are judged when you speak up to the public. But then you hear from the crowd that you fail because you don't know how to fight for your self.

You are judged when you are the victim when in fact people can't put fingers on the criminal.