Facts Parents Are Not Yet Ready For

We all love our parents. But not all the time, what they say and do for us is rights. Sometimes, we argue and stuff but the point of an argument is justify what is right and not to disrespect.

Here are some facts parents are not ready to hear and know

ANSWERING QUESTION IS NOT TALKING BACK

I actually hate it when I see parents say that we, kids, talk back when we answer their intimidating questions. We are only answering since you need to know the truth, not the lies. Because if we don't, then its a burden inside of us. You make an assumption of us and build an image since you don't know what happened because you're anger got all over you. I don't blame kids who are not that open to their parents. They are afraid that if they do, it will be just a disrespect towards them.

CLOSING OUR DOOR DOESN'T MEAN HIDING

When we don't open up or speak up about something, doesn't mean we are hiding it to you. Some secrets are not meant to be said. Not because you are afraid to what they will do or say to you, but because they will not understand or at least try to understand it since its a personal perspective. Parents should stop making assumptions about their kids, unless they are really doing something wrong. Not all instincts are rights. And not all wrongs are meant to be told.

COMPARISON IS NOT GOOD

Parents should never compare their kid to another kid. It brings the self-confidence down to the limit that you have build it again for a long time. The fact that parents are finding something from you and want you to be greater than other kids is disrespectful not only to the kid, but you as parents. You didn't raise your standards towards living, you lowered your perspective to you kid nd what he can do. When your kid do something he consider as amazing, even if you think it's not yet his best, try to uplift his spirit. That way, he can do better.

NOT ALL OLDERS SHOULD BE RESPECTED

Not because that old man or old lady is already in the age above us, means that we should already respect them. Respect is gained not by age or success or fame or standard of living, it is given when the same respect is given to you. Personally, I don't like people whose eyes are only shining on a high-profile person, because if I was a beggar, then those eyes will frown to the point of disgust. I have seen olders who don't have manners and makes their age a sign that they should be the first priority despite their bad actions.

EVERYTHING STARTS WITH YOU

Kids are not 100% responsible if they become stubborn in life. You have to teach kids with the things they have to know if they don't have everything, not give everything to them to satisfy their needs. If you give them and milk them up but at the same time, take your frustration towards them, they will find satisfaction towards the material things you give and not love.

What is your biggest argument on your parents?