Cheating is a Choice

Will Smith got cheated on.

After being so loyal to his wife in whom he had kids who became legends in their own industries, Will Smith got cheated on. Jada and Will had been married for years yet a single plate of cheating slightly broke the relationship and made a barrier between the lies and the truths.

When you were a kid, you are thought to be as honest as you can be. You manage to pass exams and quizzes without having to look at any kind of cheats. But at some point in your school days, you are tempted to make one of the biggest mistakes in learning. Cheating never happen by force, you do it because you wanted to. Take-down notes and files are given to students so they can study hard and never cheat into any form of questions in papers. Yet, students still cheat. But you want to know why straight A students cheat even though they have bigger advantage than the rest of us? It’s because grades are more valued than skills and knowledge given to students. The school system was never fair. I have failed at some of my classes because the teacher and the lessons are not appropriate to things that should fit in your head. They gave you an exam without even asking if you really understand the lesson or without even asking themselves as teachers if they did their job properly.

Why do couples end their relationship because of marriage? Couples don’t last together because one lie is enough to question all truths.

You will wonder, after he or she cheated, if everything your partner said and did is really what she wants to say and do or just an escape goat to the mistake.

My father cheated. Multiple times.

This time, it’s over.

Yes, break up hurts but have you even saw your father living with another woman.

You can’t teach a person not to cheat. He is old enough to know it. We develop the sense and knowledge of what is right and what is wrong when we enter the age of ten. A mistake is never done because of the victims fault. So don’t ever say that you did it because of another person. Unless, it’s a matter of life and death, which I think will never happen by the way.

This is why I’m not afraid to get in into any kind of relationship. It’s because I already experience the most painful one. Maybe I will cry but get over it after a day.

People take advantage of most things in life. We all do actually. We just forget about it for one second then remember it for another second. We make mistakes by choice. We do things by choice. We learn skills we want by choice. We live by choice.

We are never forced to do things, unless death is at knocking your door. But still depends if you are going to open the door or just let it knock for a day.

If you want to be successful in life, then don’t cheat on your way up.