If you are a little aware and keep in mind some common issues, it is possible to make the relationship successful by continuing regular communication.
A report published on a relationship website explains what should and should not be done to make a 'distance' relationship work.
Things to do: Long-term thinking
You may be worried about how long your relationship will last. In the case of a normal relationship you can leave the matter out of your mind, in the case of a long distance relationship it is important to discuss the matter with your partner.
The ‘long-distance’ relationship is a bit different than the normal one, so you have to think a little differently and discuss it with your partner.
Andrea Miranda, an entrepreneur from New York, said she has a long-term relationship with Richie, a native of Seville, Spain.
A "long-distance" relationship is like a long-term game that is different than a normal relationship. Long-term and ‘long-distance’ relationships are usually with people who want to be together in the future. ” He commented.
What not to do: Extra communication
Nina, an actor living in New York, worked with Jillian's partner, Nina, as a teacher in Sarasota, Florida, and at the time, Jillian felt that over-communication was a big problem.
According to him, “Spending too much time in communication can make it more emotional which is a lot of challenge to balance the conversation. The two of them need to find time to spend intimate time. ”
Things to do: The type of communication should always be the same
Charles of Orlando, Florida, and Brooklyn, New York, and his partner, Jack, have a long-distance relationship. They let us know about their communication.
“Communication is very important. We communicate almost the same way all the time. Long-distance communication is real, if it's not right, then there's really nothing left. ”
What not to do: Rely on social media
Don’t rely too much on social media. It can confuse you. Because accurate information is not available through it. There is no point in posting pictures or 'stories' to make others jealous.
"It simply came to our notice then. But in the case of adults, it has no effect, ”said Andrea.
Nina and Jillian said, “Transparency is needed in such a relationship. By being transparent to each other, one can stay much more connected. Communication is the key. That doesn't mean you have to be weak. Say ‘I feel bad and I miss you’.
This clarity brings each other closer. So keep your integrity and take it for granted without paying too much attention to your partner's social media activities. ”
Things to do: Plan for a date night
Dating planning is a good way to keep the relationship working. Daily or weekly contacts as well as occasional ‘dates’ can be planned where two people can watch the same movie or play games together.
Nina and Jillian spend their special 'Date Nights' differently. They play online games together or spend time reading poems and stories to each other at bedtime. Which cannot be done
According to Andrea, it’s not right to think that everything will be like your deadline. Maybe you want to spend your whole life with him. But take enough time before fixing it. The right person will find the right time for you and also find a way to stay with you.
Things to do: Go for a walk from time to time
Charles and Jack knew from the beginning that they would be together. We are introduced by ‘mutual’ friends. But we haven't started dating for a long time. But we often went to see each other.
We used to talk all day. I was able to go to New York for work and we would meet whenever time allowed.
“We need to plan and meet with each other. Daily may not be seen live. So plan and have a good time with each other. The two can go somewhere new together, create new memories or experience together. ”
According to Andrea, if someone is not interested in you, he will not agree to plan with you.
What not to do: Forget about keeping healthy boundaries
Relationships can often cause too much interest. That is why it is not right to have no boundaries between ourselves. There is nothing wrong with letting your partner know that you are right or wrong. But it should have a certain limit. This boundary line will help avoid problems in the future.
Andrea said, “It is not right to give an SMS to your partner like crazy all the time. If the feeling is true, you can feel it on your own.
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