After reading this article you may think life is not a bed of roses where you live your every day but die once and after that no other option to move back and hold you life again.

Today 20th March 2022, when I woke up early in the morning ( I love to be an early riser) ,there are certain past events that are roaming in my mind. And after a lot of effort I remain failed in removing them and these mind thoughts remain with me whole day .

I Wana get rid of them but fails all time and struggles continues. I think some past events that have got stuck in minds have a deep impact on future and future decisions. People say that live your life and just fulfil YOLO rule ( you only live once) but I think these sentences are just to make others fools . Because I think a thoughtful person knows life is neither easy nor a bed of roses where you life and live whole your life in just doing what they want. Only for the fulfilment of their desires they make fun of others, tease others or may hurt in some cases.

Some worries are never ending but ....

Past regrets and events can destroy people forever if they don't overcome to those. It is right that these worries can engulf a person's thinking power and paralyze him physically and mentally and off course he becomes an emotionally weak person that is not ready to face world.

But the question is can life go with these worries?

The answer is yes, life can move on with worries as they are never ending but one must learn lesson from these tensions and problems and don't let them destroy you if you are dragging them with you.

Life isn't easy, life is so unpredictable and no one can deny that . Sometimes it becomes so fair to people that they are enjoying it and sometimes it becomes so harsh that one may want to die before his death.

I know you are getting bored after reading this article and Don't want to give it a bad and unhealthy mood , I just Wana explain that life experiences either they are good or bad don't let them destroy you , don't allow them to overcome your thinking ,,, only learn a lesson and say it " life is not easy but it is important and you are important to life so move on , no matter how harsh or relax your life is just wait right to come".

In case of dealing with problems and don't give up I felt women are so much better than man ( this is my personal experience, you may agree or disagree with me it's upon to you) as we see them managing all work either she is a working lady or a house wife whole day they are struggling and doing there work despite all the frustrating and hurting taunts of her in law's or any other one.

Every single person have the right to be happy and relaxed and it is every single person's s duty to make ways for others , to remove hurdles from the coming one's life . Think if people starting doing this life will be so easy to live and this earth will represent some sort of heavenly look.

Let's discuss some positive points of tensions and problems coming in your life ...

• Increase tolerance

• Learn how to manage things

• Knowing the reason

• To become strong mentally a AND physically

• To know the important of a healthy and peaceful life

• To know the importance of happiness

• To save you from the worse by giving you good

• To overcome negative thinking

• Be positive and motivate others

I think motivation is good if it is in the right direction, otherwise some motivational speakers can detract you form the right path as they are always say " follow your dreams " ....OK WHO TELL THEM EITHER OUR DREAM IS RIGHT OR NOT....

BEFORE following we must know the right dream that then motivation can do something for you . Otherwise dragging yourself on a path that is not right is just like putting your hand in the honey comb.

Conclusion

I don't wanna drag this topic because some people called this a toxic topic to discuss ( may be it is but I don't think so ), psychological studies proves that happiness is a mental state and this will come to you when you overcome your worries , problems and tensions. Besides all worries you have to move on , move one for yourself, move on for your family members, move on for your children.

Past regrets are never changed but present and future can be better with right decisions and right ways. Some move on and let it be ...

Be happy with a single smile...