Intimidation

Are you intimidated currently, are you tired of the feeling, do you want to put an end to it? If yes then stay with me, I'll be sharing more light on how to stop this intimidation from continuing. No one likes the feeling of being intimidated, its limits us to few abilities, the instigation of fear is an infringement to our rights are humans, this are outrightly wrong. Intimidation from all levels are wrong and we must see to it that it's stopped. Someone who has been initimated for the longest time coming would have adapted to the habit of being shy, or being afraid to express himself as freely as he or she normally should.

I'd suggest we start by attending to all forms of intimidation around us before we can deal with those very sensitive intimidation. For example a lady in a very rough neighborhood, always being intimidated by the rugged guys around, yet she works in a place where her boss also does the same, what does she do. One is more sensitive than the other, as she could easily do away with the guys on the area, but she doesn't want to lose her job so she's more careful at work. I'd suggest she firstly deals with the street guys then she can grow confidence to know that intimidation can end, then push forward to confront boss.

By confront it doesn't applies only to fight or the use of force, there are other better ways of ending intimidation that doesn't spread tension. Firstly a good study of the predator is key. Understanding his or her nature would assist you in drafting the best possible solution to the situation. Some persons sadly would never back down after a peaceful appeal, some persons needs a dialogue, some persons need force, some persons need only to be threatened, while some others only need you to be friends with them, so different people with different response. In all we are set to put an end into intimidation.

Another area of intimidation we don't talk about most times are the "Show Off" intimidation. Where someone is making you feel less because they got somethings more than you and they constantly rob it on your face. This kind of intimidation is bad cause it goes deeper than physical bruise, it hurts your emotions and if not taken lightly it can turn someone into a bad person. This kind of oppression can get someone seeking for revenge so bad that he or she wouldn't mind staining his or her hands trying to get the revenge done. However we should note this that this kind of intimidation can be easily stoped, or let me say less cared about.

Indeed it can easily be stopped cause it's all on you, it's all a mind game, moreover you can't meet the person to tell him or her to stop oppressing you with what they have, in fact you don't want them to know you're angry cause it'll give them the victory already. More reason why you can see someone just walk out of the room and the other person who has been acting tough throughout the conversation breaks down to tears. Obviously has been enduring the hurt, possibly acting up with smiles to make the oppressors feel like it's not getting to them, but as soon as they feel safe they let it all out either with curses or tears., we don't like any forms of intimidation.

So it's all on us to correct, some oppression we can deal with, just by making up our minds to not care about it, making it matter less in our minds, for example your ex going on to date someone else and you're seeing their updates on how the relationship is going smooth, much better than it was while they were with you, what can you do then, nothing, unless you're capable of spoiling their happiness the best you can do is hope you would get better and watch. Its painful right, so why not stop keeping tab on them and get busy with more important stuffs, not easy at first I know but over time you can care less for them for real.

The world should be actively against all forms of oppression, and all sectors should not tolerate it, everyone should enjoy the privacy of expressing their full potential and abilities without the fear of someone else tormenting them. Schools should fight hard against bully cause I feel that's the root cause If not the home, boys who were once Bullies or were bullied and nothing happened to make them see wrong in the act could actually grow up to keep bullying, they went free and enjoyed tormenting, so they would like to continue, only this time they would be intimidating on another level on a different scale, maybe as an horrible boss, wicked neighbor or even abusive patner.

We can do better, to shun intimidation, anywhere you see it even when it's not done against you, still shun it, speak out and educate people on the need to stop it. Everyone is equal under the law, everyone is subject to the law that's the best way to maintain law and order in a country, so including the president and the army general, they all must abide under the law, so they no one feels they can intimidate another and go free, its wrong and policies should be implemented to stop it. People have so much to offer to this world but one of the greatest hindrance has been fear, one of the ways to fight against fear is to build a society free from intimidation, at least to the minimum level possible.

Keep spreading peace and love, live life to the fullest. Thanks for reading through this article, God bless you all.