Humans And Lies
The regular human is by all means stubborn and wanting to do that which he or she is mandated not to do. The moment you tell a person to resist from an action, that's the exact moment is mind is being drawn closer to that action, we would have realized that most of the things we do aren't as exciting as we thought it would be, what makes it so thrilling is knowing that we are doing something sneaky and wrong, almost like an adventure, no wonder we get bored easily when there are no one to stop us anymore, however we can't always afford for them to learn their lessons, we often don't have that time to spare.
In our relationship with someone, anyone, could be a spouse, business associate, family, friend, there are flexibility to what and how long our tolerance can last, for some roles are more sensitive than others and so what could be bearable for one may not be accepted in another or permit me to say "should not be accepted in another. A quick example is your sister lying to you or betraying you, what can you do, it's most likely that you understand why she did what she did, even when she's wrong, the chances of forgiving her is very high, even when she's unapologetic, it has been in your mind to let it all go, you care more for her than your ego, but a man you're in business with, one you want to entrust your money with?
Most likely that is the end of the alliance, whatever business you both may be thinking of doing could as well just end cause you've realized this man is not trustworthy and you can't guarantee the safety of your money's worth return. Many employees don't get the chance to apologize nor get back their job after a mess up, it's off you go, it really doesn't matter if they are repentant or not, most business owners have learnt never to mixed business with emotions so they just do the right thing for the sake of their business sustenance.
However people operate differently, especially since there is a mandate from our lord Jesus to forgive 70 x 7, and another in a prayer from that say, "Forgive our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us", with this true believers which are rapidly increasing in numbers by the day are learning the act of a second chance and forgiving, and luckily this can include bosses of companies, spouse, friends, siblings, so after you must have hurt them, there they are again trying to forgive and welcome you again, all this truly makes the world a better place, well until the person forgiven does same thing all over again.
You see there lies the issue, the fact that someone can be forgiving and does the same thing over again and expects you to be good again, I really don't know how people turn a blind eye to this after hurting them consistently, I believe they should get an award to that effect, cause personally I feel it's high time you adjust and draw far away, if someone can hurt you after an apology for over three times, there is no guarantee that they won't hurt you more bitterly soon, just hope their next line of action is recoverable, because it hurts more to see that someone you've constantly forgiving is putting you in a bad position you can't get up from, mind you humans can be heartless.
Many don't want to accept and its understandable, but even the good book says the heart of a man is desperately wicked, some sweet relationship has ended so badly, it would have been best they didn't cross path, and this is often because they can coexist even while they both hate each other. Some mood comes and go, but when the wrong mood comes it often leaves more devastating than the repairs the good mood brings. It's also caused from being able to coexist when you're yet lying to his or her face, that's one good ability we possess as humans also, the capacity to lie and still sleep next to each other, unapologetic, not concern.
Well all I'm saying is do right, I feel it's a distinct ability to be wrong and not care staying wrong especially when it hurts another, its simply magical, it should be cautiously countered by good, by the intentional act to be good. Humans are naturally attracted to doing bad, I mean is a dark world already, and wrong is celebrated as though its right, however we are aware of good and bad, and wrong and right likewise, so it then becomes our responsibility to choose, as we know there is an eternal benefit to our actions, as much as there is an eternal consequences to our wrong actions, so we are heading somewhere at the end of the day, so do right.
Good we find forgiving people, we may not find also, that notwithstanding its best we uphold integrity and truth as though it's our identity, this way we can preserve useful relationships and avoid having to constantly apologize and be mistrusted. Once again be good, there is good in being good. Thank you for reading through today, stay magical.