Fighting For Happiness

Oh yes it's a Magical world we live in, but this magics aren't all good and fun like how the circus shows us to be, it's still a world of good and evil, so good happens and bad too happens, well I need tell you who dominates, I'll take it you know about that already, so how then do we stay happy, how then do we ensure to constantly experience this magic of happiness, it's no one's duty to make you happy, although from time to time we elect our president, hoping his or her decision would make our world happier, I guess over the years we've learnt how not to trust in them.

It's no one's responsibility to get you happy, absolutely no one, it's your job, waiting on someone to do it for you would surely lead to greater hurt, more reason why we should be happy and have learnt to be consciously happy before we meet and engage with someone, so we don't pressure that person into thinking he or she is doing somethings wrong when clearly, its we who should have done so for ourselves to ourselves. One major reason why we don't fight for happiness is cause we don't know the need to be happy. What are the advantages of happiness.

Why do we need to maintain happiness through our lives, though its almost impossible to be happy all through, life is filled with experiences, some good and few bads, its would be easy to shine through the good, as the happiness flows effortlessly, however what do we do during the bad? Its really not easy to smile when it's bad, trying to smile when it's bad would be really annoying if you haven't learnt on why you need to smile, when we know why our happiness is important, then we can give it a try in the test of time.

There is so much we can be when we are our best self, not necessarily saying laughing or joyful is your best self, our best self is from our state of mind, how ready and eventful is our mind at that point in time, but the time of unhappiness comes with a lot of clogs, they becloud our mind with overthinking, sadness, anger and the likes, and this hindrances would surely not help at that point in time, should an opportunity pass at such time, it would take God grace to notice it, Couple with strength to grasp it, unlike when you're already happy and open minded.

Another major reason why we've got to be intentional about our happiness is owing to the fact that we can create a more comfortable world around us, being happy means talking happy, acting happy, playing happy all these would in turn be served to someone who would receive it and be happy too, and it goes round and round thereby creating a more convenient world, but in reverse case being unhappy means talking angry, acting bad and these would also be recieved and reciprocated, in turn making a non conducive environment.

There are a million and one benefit to happiness, yes there are few benefits to unhappiness, if not God wouldn't make it in us, almost like saying anger is all bad, if we don't get angry at times we can never stop some wrong from reoccurring, same with unhappiness which I feel is the generic name for anger and sadness. Staying happy is beneficial, even health wise, haven't you seen where you start to glow and it's nothing other than your joy from within, that constant smile works on your Expression thereby making you more attractive, even the heart race better 😁.

Its magical, happiness is magical, unfortunately so is unhappiness, you would be amazed to see the things you can do when you're happy likewise when you're sad, you wouldn't believe it is the same calm and reserved you doing all that, it's like entering an avatar state or in chemistry it's like entering an excited state. That's why we also need to be careful at both ends. Happiness is key, people say its free, however we have to go for it, do what makes you happy and stay happy.

Happiness is free, True love is free, notice how I used true, cause some love can be bought but true love is free, maybe I'll write on that soon. All good things basically has been given freely to us from God, however if we can go get it, it would seem as though those who has it did their through crooked means, meanwhile it's free all along, a man has to approach his woman, if not she remains waiting or maybe taken. Same with happiness, do what makes you happy, stay conscious of the mind state and be happy.

Happiness is one key to staying valuable in this magical world of ours.