Few Funny Reasons People Dislike You

You'll be amazed to know the silly reasons why someone won't be fond of you. Ever walked into a place and there's somebody there giving you attitude, though I should admit that is more rampant among females than it is in males. You begin to hear words like "from the first day I saw her my heart couldn't just accept her", "don't know why but he/she's a bad person. Been amazed at how people look to justify their actions when clearly it's a wrong deed. There is no reason to dislike someone who hasn't offended you, even those who gets offended should look forward to forgiveness, and those who weren't offended should grow up.

I feel it's absurd, but its very normal and more and more people keep doing this, there should be a thoughtful reason behind your actions, we shouldn't be to full of ourselves to feel we can hate and dislike another, why go through such extent with someone who innocently is living his own life. Shortly I'll be sharing few reasons I've either heard of experienced as few of the reasons why people dislike another. With each reasons we see how unnecessary it is to dislike someone, disliking someone without justful cause. Let's talk on some reasons.

# Because Their Freind or Family Dislike You.

In high school and colleges, where people work in cliques, you're prone to find this rampant there, you've had a fall out with someone and so all his or her friends are automatically enemies with all your friends, isn't that insane, they act as though life begins and ends in the school., do they forget that years later someone among those people hated would be of help or would be needing help, imagine you both not being able to assist each other because of some high school childishness. Let those who have issues settle their issues, you remain neutral cause you care more about your future and you understand the essence of association and how everyone is a potential aid for tomorrow.

Its harder in homes however, cause if it were your parents or siblings disliking someone you may have no choice but to disengage from that person, you really don't want to go against family, its not a beautiful experience, however let your conscience remain pure, you don't need to hate and withdraw from someone depending on how severe the dislike is and who in the home is really having the issue, best you can limit the talks and pleasantries but still have nothing against such person, because you may not be aware when they settle their differences, but there you are still shutting the door behind an innocent person.

# Cause You Appear As A Potential Threat

On this I can relate a little, Envy is a normal feeling, only that with the right mind work we can feel much better and secured. We would get tired of feeling bad as soon as someone walks into the room or gets employed into same place, office or territory that you once dominated cause the person seems like a threat to you. For example a more good looking guy can be employed to a firm and there we are feeling like he would take away all attention, even if he does it isn't enough reason to feel bad about it and not do you. When we feel no hate we can still be happy and be ourselves and our true self is magical enough to attract.

# Look Like Someone Who Did Bad

Resemblances is one thing we can not undo, no one can say he made his face to be the way it is, for me to look like someone is not my fault and I can't be held responsible to the other person's carelessness, thereby it is wrong to stereotype everyone who has that kind of face or behavior pattern or even body built as the same. Anyone could remind you of someone else, it doesn't mean they would act like that person. People are different, even identical twins may not have same pattern. So when you're hurt by someone, that's dislike or aggression shouldn't be transferred to a lookalike.

# Having Nothing To Offer

I guess Suitors are prone to this category, when looking to get a girl and her parents suddenly dislikes the suitor cause he is not financially as wealthy as they hope for their daughter. Even the society do this a lot too, giving preferential treatment to the rich and the broke is treated as scrap, all these are nonsense, which I had a better word to use but I don't, nonsense it is. Life has thought us never to write anybody off, we understand the place of money being necessary, you can choose to decline but not to the extent of hate. Never dislike anyone cause you feel he or she has nothing to offer now, when they do you'll become an hypocrite when you suddenly grow fond of them.

I guess it's good to self reflect at times, especially when someone gets you into a sudden mood of dislike, search deeper within and if peradventure its nothing but insecurities, dislike base on friendship cliques, dislike base on striking resemblances, dislike base on financial reasons, then we can do better than that, come off it and make peace, be of good cheer, we don't need to be friends but we don't need to dislike neither.

These are a few of the funny reasons someone can dislike you for. Which have you experienced.

Thanks. Love you all. ✌