May 28, 2022

Life is life, it has its way and most of the time we can' argue about it. It's just what it is, it's either we accept it or put our whole effort and power to change it. These are the words that I am constantly saying to myself in times of difficulty.

We are always looking for a solution or a plan to finish something, we focus on the goal, and when everything becomes so hard and we are failing we become frustrated. There are some that pursue the goal and become challenged by the failure, there are some that lose hope and try to find a new meaning in life, and there are some that choose to rest, build a better foundation of the plan and his or her self and try to strike again. These differ in many aspects and it is not easy what every who you are in the three, but as long as we continue to our life and try to move on every time, and learn our lesson, I think we are fine.

In life, we can't always be prepared

There are many times that we think that we are in control, or that everything is going according to plan. But there is one moment that we put our guard down and everything changes and the moment you noticed it, it is already a disaster, everything is in chaos. What do you do when this moment comes to you? Curse? Quit?

We have different ways of acting on different things that are happening in our life. Sometimes we think it too much and end up with nothing, no result no gain just nothing. Sometimes when I am in the middle of chaos and everything feels hopeless, I will just take a deep breath, make a coffee and have a good break. Overthinking things won't help you, it will just worsen the situation. Okay, sometimes it helps, there are some good outcomes that come out from overthinking, like the more you think the more possibilities you can see, and you can think of the different outcomes of the same situation.

But overthinking is a double-sided sword, a bread with too much cholesterol, or whatever you want to call it, you got the idea. you will benefit from it and at the same time, it can destroy or hurt you.

There are some who after they fail, will think of a new plan and try again, a kind of different approach in the same situation, and there are some that try the same problem or the same situation with the same approach, and every time they are trying, they try a new thing or try to perfect the previous move. It is evident in gaming, we try the same stage with the same approach and perfect every move, and then we fail again only to find out that there are a lot of ways to finish the stage.

We only focus on what we first see or what others do to finish that stage, and we become content with that. We are afraid to try the approach that we are comfortable with first and if it is not working try another way to beat it, always think outside the box and try to be calm.

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