There are Things we can't Control
Good things come for those who wait- Line from Adventure Time
June 5, 2022
We can say that most of our life and our time circles around one thing. We, humans, focus on one thing, it just differs from person to person. It does not matter if we focus on our passion, career, family, money, or friends. The important thing is that we are moving forward and not backward, it is okay to look back at different occasions in our life.
When we are sad or under heavy pressure, we can look back and focus on memories that have a positive impact on our life. Memories that will light up our day and make us feel better. Sometimes we look back just to live in our memory and come back to reality and hope that it will happen again.
We wake up hoping to taste it again, which will never happen because it is in the past, our life is designed to keep moving forward. Fast or slow the important part is that we continue our life. There are times that we become so tired of everything and choose to stop and take a rest.
Before we take a rest we will say that we are so tired of doing things over and over again, tired of doing things that we don't want to do. But when are take our rest and take a deep breath, we can go back on track and ready to move on again. Until we become tired and take a rest again, and until our goal is reached. And in the end, I hope that we give a hand to those that are struggling to climb the endless ladder. I think these simple good deeds that we do will later become a cycle and it will make the world a better place for all of us.
In the journey of our life when we focus on something, there are doors that still open for us, it is up to us to take a look at what's inside. We can try to walk inside it and experience it ourselves what it's like to live there, and there an option to leave when we want to. It is up to us.
As I said in my introduction, we humans focus on different things as we move forward. That is the good thing about humans, we can prosper on one thing if we put a lot of effort in. Along the way when we are chasing our dreams or the thing we focus on so much, we can meet different people and problems.
People that will help us, guide us, and people that will try to stop us or slow us. it is up to us how we handle those situations. Some of us become discouraged when we meet people that did not support their ideas, and there are some who become a challenge and work even harder to prove that they are right.
In terms of problems, it is always there. We can treat it like a normal problem or we can turn the table and make it our advantage. The outcome of almost everything we do, for example, our feelings and emotion are dictated by how we react and act at the moment.
It is always like that...
This We can't Control
But there is the thing we can't control, like simply the weather. When we stress ourselves because we want to change something but we know we can't change it, the result is we lose. We can't control it but we can wait for it to change itself. It is like we can force a flower to bloom during summer when the bloom season of the flower is in December.
We can't change something that is not designed for us to change. It is not simple as that, but you will learn it as the day goes by that you are facing something and you will remember these lines.
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