How to be Loved by Everyone

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3 years ago

Becoming a person who is loved by everyone is the dream of all human beings who live in society. Personal loved ones will find it easy to coexist with other people. It doesn't matter if life is difficult or the conditions are miserable, but if we have become people who are loved by everyone, everything that is felt will have no impact. This is because of the attention we will always get.

Being an identical person full of love for others does not appear suddenly. It's not like Aladdin who asks for help from Jin in the middle of the desert to ask for treasure and the throne. Becoming a person full of love requires a long process until the struggle is carried out with real consistency. It will not be easily obtained with just a few 'lies' pretending to do good, or only at certain moments.

Becoming loved by others can be done with the right steps. Among them are, like to help others, sincere in doing everything, friendly at the right time, clever in attitude, and smiling.

Helpful

Those who like to help others who are in need will leave an unforgettable impression on those they help. She will talk about your kindness to others so that other people feel the goodness you have given them, the person who has told your kindness. The accumulation of it all will certainly have an impact on you, namely, you are loved by other people indirectly and without you guessing.

Sincere

Sincere in doing everything is the same as investing in goodness for ourselves. With sincerity that we invest in the end, we will reap, as part of the results of our sincerity to do everything. One of the results we will reap is being loved by others. So that we can become a person who is loved by those around us.

Friendly

Being a friendly person is certainly very liked by other people. However, it will be different if you are friendly at the wrong time, for example in a serious condition and you need firmness, you are friendly. Then it makes you not liked by others. But you should be friendly at the right time, for example, if you are walking in a public place, then meet someone you know or ask something, then greet it with a friendly attitude. This friendly attitude is needed especially by public servants, so that the public, who are the people, feel well protected.

Be good act

Be smart to act. Those who are good at manners prove to be more attractive than those who are rich, beautiful but not good at carrying themselves. Those who are good at behaving will know some of the right situations to show behavior playfully. Those who have this attitude are people who are loved by others.

Smile

And the last one is always smiling. Smile is the cheapest worship we can do. As long as we can smile, smile. Perhaps the smile we give can make others happy and lighten the burden. So that later we will also become the person who is loved by others.

How? easy right, to be a person who is loved by everyone? Anyone can do it including you, as long as you follow the right steps as I mentioned above. That's all my post today, hopefully, we can all become people who are loved by everyone. Thanks for reading and greetings

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I wish we can be loved by all Luna, but there will always be people that don't love us just as we also cannot love everyone no matter how we try :) But you are right, those you mentioned above can help and makes one have that kind of a pleasant personality.

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3 years ago

Yes you're right. at least, there will be more people who like it than don't like it if you have a pleasant personality

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3 years ago

Yeah, its true, we cannot be loved by all. Its impossible. But I prefer a world where everyone loves everybody else than a world where there's just hatred. So we might as well work on loving everyone and being loved in return. Nice article. <3

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3 years ago

I also want a life without hatred. However, it feels very utopian. There are many things that make people hate each other

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3 years ago

Maybe we should be a real person who can love by others, not for all the things you can do. Being loved by everyone was great but sometimes when you're feeling would not happy from what you've done the essence of being the love of everyone would be a burden to you. So be honest to yourself that the perfect things you should do if they loved you by who you are or what attitude you'd make that great. Nice article I enjoy reading it😊

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3 years ago

Yes you're right. To be loved by others must start from being honest with yourself. thank you @MommySwag

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3 years ago

Your welcome @Lunaq1999 I had fun reading your article and I learned from it. Thank you for the great article of yours. ❀

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3 years ago

Good writing. But the reality is people forget the good behaviours.

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3 years ago

Yes that's correct. Maybe they don't want to be loved so they don't care about kindness

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3 years ago

Not even Jesus was loved by everyone. There is one old Croatian saying: "Nije se rodio tko je svima ugodio", means, a man to be on good terms with everyone was never born. We may give our best, but relationships including friendships require reciprocity of both parties involved. πŸ˜‹

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3 years ago

OK, I can accept that. but if we become the people I mentioned above, there will be more people who love than hate

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3 years ago

"Hate" is a code word for antipathy, which is uncontrollable and created by the subconscious mind. It's a part of the natural self-defense mechanism. If someone hates us, it may mean that we are representing a danger or threat to their subconscious system. Sometimes, the fault is not ours, but yes, you're right, the better we become, the more loveable we are. However, before we ask other people to like and love us, we must come to good terms with ourselves. Nobody can make us happy if we are not happy with ourselves.

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3 years ago

before we ask other people to like and love us, we must come to good terms with ourselves. Nobody can make us happy if we are not happy with ourselves.

okay, I'm full agree about this. thank you very much

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