Consolidating a Self is a dedicated task that is built on the security of knowing ourselves, of knowing who we are in front of different moments or circumstances, and also in front of people. All this, regardless of the opinion of others or the way in which others may appreciate us or what they may think about our acts, actions or motives.
To have personal security is to trust in the Self, it is to feel full and secure and this depends on our own judgment, our character and our being, in this way we consolidate security, which must be centered in reality and in the expectations of our achievements, all this is a purely personal process, an individual evolution.
Our security is based on the identity that we forge, then it will be composed in the balance, in the temperance of our Being with the Self that we wish to maintain, that we wish to develop and express, this identity will define us and can be empathic, reciprocal, grateful, authentic and even manageable. In many cases our security is what gives us the essence of power, of being able to overcome sadness and start again.
Obviously in any circumstance, the main thing to be well, to say that we are full is to have absolute freedom, that which gives us the courage to discern, to act, to give our opinion, since many times we are unwilling prisoners of social status, of absurd rules or of criteria imposed by third parties. .
"We have become automatons living the illusion of being individuals endowed with free will." Erich Fromm
As expressed by the incomparable Eric Fromm in the above quote, many times we transform ourselves, we change without realizing it, and we forget the self and the authentic self. That is why it is our mission, our task to live for harmony, for the good, to have free will to decide in our actions, and we must also assume the consequences of deeds and words with responsibility.
But unfailingly, above all that exists or not in our being, we must enjoy that inner self, keeping the self in dynamic balance with our environment. This is the ultimate key, joy is our best state, especially if it is shared with our loved ones, with those we love and those who love us because in them is our essence and our full life.
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Sharing every achievements in life makes it more blissful and wonderful to celebrate especially with those people who gave you so much of their time and effort to support you all throughout your journey.☺️