With the ongoing COVID-19 pandemic, life has gotten more difficult for most people. I've seen an illustration on facebook which mirrors the reality of life today. We might be on the same ocean but never on the same boat. I give all the credit to the rightful owner for this meaningful illustrations. I've seen it while browsing on facebook and I hope that you go and check it out if you have time because it definitely means a lot in order to understand the situation that each person is currently at.
Paper boat story originally written by Eiver Ky Villegas
Illustrated by Srishti Sharma and Posted on Facebook by Srishtinot
I decided to include this on this article because truly this is what we are facing at the moment. It's important to be kind enough to consider what others are going through. This pandemic has really taken a toll on us. Many people lost their jobs and others are just barely surviving. Truly we will do everything we can in order to survive and provide the needs of our families.
Now is the time when emotional support is needed more than before. I've also watched this dad earlier this morning who lost his 12 year old son when he hung himself due to the stress that has. It's important to have someone to care for you and check on you from time to time but it's also important to check on someone else from time to time.
The dad on the video stated that if it's difficult for adults then how much more would it be for the children. And it somehow made sense to me knowing how kids are just starting to build and know themselves only to be snatched away from them by this ongoing pandemic. Many lives are all the more hindered from getting better.
If this pandemic has been the way for others to have their own businesses and know their passion for plants, this has also caused others to slowly lose themselves into an ocean of thoughts running nonstop on their minds drowning them on the fact that they have nothing to live by anymore the next day.
How to work smart as a dad?
Prioritize yourself.
If you are healthy then you can still work for your family. Always remember that health is wealth. I don't know your current situation but please be rest assured that you have your family and friends to support you. You can also take some time for yourself to breathe.
Be the head.
The head is the main way for a body to move and function right. If the head is unwell the whole body will be unwell as well. Lead your wife and your kids into how your family should be during this pandemic. Spend more.time.with them because no one knows until when can you have them with you.
If you are a single dad who carried out the duty of both the mom and the dad, I salute you for not giving up. I salute you for taking on the responsibility and never forgetting your role as the dad and head of the family.
How to work smart as a mom?
Prioritize yourself.
You also deserve to have a break from tiring housechores and budgeting the little money that you have for the whole family. You can also take some time to pamper yourself by eating what you want, dressing up even if you're just at home, taking a me time and most importantly it's okay to cry when things are way too much for you. It's not a crime to admit that you've had enough or that things had been too difficult for you to handle.
Be the strong support.
A household needs to have light that illuminates it so that the whole family will be enlightened by the things that needs to be done. Focus on what's more important and when you feel so overwhelmed talk it out. There are so many different ways and different people who are more than willing to listen to you. When life is unbearable and you feel like giving up please think about your husband and kids that needs your support.
If you are a single mom, I have a high respect for you. Providing for your family, taking care of the kids, doing the chores and still living with a smile on your face to appease your family that everything is okay. You are already doing great so don't beat yourself up. Be kind with yourself as well.
How to work smart as the child in the family?
Study smart.
Finish your tasks on time and take time to enjoy by doing what you love. Spend less time with your gadgets so you'll be able to finish without rushing. Motivate yourself and be sure to take studying as your training ground for your future. Allow your journey as a student to shape you to who you want to be. Talk to your friends even if it's just virtual. It will definitely help you a lot.
Help the family.
You can always help to make things a lot easier and better for your family. You can do simple housechores such as washing the dishes, cleaning your room, folding the laundry, sweeping the floor and such. Yes I know that studying is difficult and all that but you can still take some time to at least help in your house.
Be kinder to your siblings.
I know that it's natural for you to quarrel with your siblings from time to time but you can somehow lesson it by being more patient and being kinder with own another. You can start building a better relationship since you are on a lockdown together with them. Start being more thoughtful and loving to each other because it's what makes parents even happier than they already are.
If you are a solo child then take time for your parents. The time that we have now can never be taken back so we must use it wisely and treasure every single moment we can share to others especially our families.
If you came from a broken family, I hope and pray that you get healed in die time. May you find the peace that you need. May you be filled with love and forgiveness to your parents. Know that you are forever loved and cherished.
How to work smart as a family?
Pray together.
A family that prays together, stays together. Make it a habit to read the Bible, pray together, and watch the mass together. More than the body, the spirit must be fed well. We know that it's only God whom we can depend on.
Spend time together.
Hands off your gadgets, and just have fun. You can play indoor games or any kind of game as well as keeping each other involve with what happens to each of you. Be more transparent so if one of you is having difficulty, they can help you out. You have your family as your number one support system.
Have a heart to heart talk.
It's one of the best things about having your family with you. It's the time of being more honest with each other rather than just staying locked up on your room with your gadgets. Why not take this time to be more understanding of each other? In that way, you'll be able to comprehend why your siblings or parents act differently. It's also the best time for you to know yourself better with what you want and what you don't want.
Be honest.
I believe that honesty is the best policy. Majority of kids open up to their friends or teachers more than they open up with their family. The reason for that is simply because they feel more assured and comfortable to others than their own families which is a sad thing because families are supposed to be the number one on their list to go to when facing difficulties. Just be honest to one another and everything will definitely be alright.
Love_16
April 11, 2021
Sunday
