Trust is a big word and most people uphold to it. It doesn't necessarily need a gender to deal with this but most women has trust issues. This is not by choice because nobody has ever wanted to meet someone new and kept on having negative thoughts about someone.
Trust take years to build but a minute to destroy. It takes a single mistake to break a full trust given by a woman. She's not a fool not to notice nor naive not to know. She's too witty and intuitive for her own good. It is sometimes burdensome for she might feel and think that if only she didn't knew your lie, then everything will be okay. But once she takes time to realize and recuperate, those who has broken her heart and trust will feel sorry for themselves.
Trust issues are often seen in women because women are more showy with their emotions than men. Women are created to be more compassionate and they get easily hurt. Unlike men who likes to keep everything to themselves, women has the tendency to blabber about anything that comes to her mind to a few people whom she truly trusts.
Women has the tendency to keep record of every single detail that has happened to her. It might be a few years back but it's still fresh in her mind. For you it might be just one mistake, but for her it's a mistake she can never forget.
Women are good agents and detectives. Once they felt that something isn't right, their intuition starts to kick in which helps them to know the truth from the lie.
Before a woman asks a question she already knows the answer. So if you ever lie to her, it's no surprise that you'll try to justify your actions and your lies, but it has already caused a damaged within her. She was once an easily trusting type of person but when things start to feel the same again, she'll have the recollection of the past that she was cheated for trusting too much.
She might have forgiven you, but her trust for you has been reduced. Not because she has taken you back you can do the same thing and act as if everything is supposed to be forgotten. It might be the case for you but not for her. She remembers every single detail as if it was just yesterday even if it has happened years ago.
Women has trust issues because they have met a lot of people who has broken their trust. They become wary of the people around them and they become cautious for what they do. You might have known them superficially but their depth are too far from your grasp.
Women are fragile and delicate in nature. They have the soft spot for every single or simple thing. But they can be as lethal as the deadliest weapon when they are hurt and they have learned from their past experiences.
Women can be delicate and lethal at the same time. The one who caused them to be like that must have had a good for nothing reason but anything done can't be undone. She might be your prey today but tables can turn any minute. You will surely reap what you sow.
When a woman is hurt emotionally by a cheating partner. She'll start building walls that are too study and too high to breakthrough. It will take a lot of effort, strength, determination and will power to get through it.
A woman is strong enough to defend and protect herself, so once she's been broken she'll come back stronger and better. A woman is never weak and she is always unwavering. She is more than you can ask for.
If she's cheated she will never do the same thing just to get back at you, she'll do it in a her own calssy way. She's wise enough not to trust the wrong people again. She easily learns from her mistakes. She might have bruises and scars but her heart gets tougher whenever has those.
It's never her fault to trust someone and get betrayed. It's never her fault for being a woman and be seen as an object of pleaso. It's never her fault to be seen weak just because she's way too strong to be handled by the true weak people. It's never her fault to love someone deeply and get cheated on, it's his fault for throwing a diamond over a fake crystal.
If ever you have betrayed her, she will never treat you they way you deserve. She will treat you a lot better that you'd start feeling guilty for breaking her trust. She'll make you see how much she's changed and what is the outcome of hurting her. She won't speak that much for what you did to her. Her silence will kill your peace of mind. You might think that you have outsmarted her but you're definitely wrong. She's always two steps ahead of you.
If you can be cunning to pull of breaking her, she'll be able to quickly recover and show you who is the real cunning between the two of you. She can be the nicest person you'll ever know but she can also be your worst nightmare. She might be your rapor and you might feel like you've won, but let me give you a fare warning, she's just starting.
If you're thinking that a woman can't live without a man, you're definitely wrong. A woman can live with or without a man. She's not a fool to be cheated twice and get hurt by the same people and the same situation. She's way too strong for her own good.
She doesn't need someone else to mend her, she can get healed and stand on her feet again. It will take her some time but she'll surely get back on track.
A woman is a woman whom you can never get back down.
Love_16
December 15, 2020
Tuesday
