Beware of manipulative people
Manipulative people are unapologetic. They will make you believe that they treat you that way because it's your fault. They will never admit that they did something wrong. They will try to manipulate you into hating the people they hate and coax you into isolation by making you dependent to them.
They will make you believe that it has always been your fault in the first place and you deserve to be treated that way because things happed due to your own fault. It has always been your fault. They will make you blame yourself without you noticing.
You will feel.as though you deserve every bad thing that happened to you. Theb, they will give you false comforts by pushing you to your limit and make you cry then give you sympathetic lines which will make you comfortable not knowing that it's how they do their job as manipulators. They are active-passive type of communicators. They will be active when they want to and become passive when they want to as well. You have to be the one to always read the atmosphere. You need to go with their mood vecause if you don't, they'll put thw blame on you.
Since you had been isolated, you have no choice but to confide in them not knowing that there is another world outside their created comfort zone. So you better beware of them. They don't really care the way you thought them to because in reality they just don't really care at all. They just want people around them who makes them feel as though they are the best givers of advice. They will give you advice, that but if you don't follow their advice they'll get mad at you for that.
They will use your words and vulnerability against you. They would remind you of your past traumas and such. They will make you feel useless once you stop talking to them. They will.make you feel alone since you can no longer be inside the comfort zone they created.
November 20, 2022