How Can Families Increase Children's Achievement?

Success and personality, happiness cannot be achieved by chance.

1. You should realistically identify the reasons for your child's failure.

2. Benefit from guidance and counseling services when you feel inadequate in this regard.

3. Don't let your child feel the shame of failure.

4. Encourage him to strive instead.

5. Set the right goals with your child according to their abilities.

6. Make sure your child has a goal so that he or she can have a good place in society.

7. Explain that this goal requires regular and hard work.

8. Be with your child in his efforts to reach the right goals.

9. Set an example for your child to use his time correctly.

10. Do it in moderation as you advise him or her to exercise moderation in traveling or watching television.

11. Speak to your child in a very smooth and complete language.

12. Ask him/her to speak to you in a clear manner.

13. Pay close attention to your speech, language, and views in environments where your child is present.

14. Take great care to be a role model to your child.

15. Find a behavior in your child that you can appreciate every day.

16. Praise him often.

17. Don't always give a monetary reward after success.

18. Make her understand that her success is "a reward in itself."

19. Give age-appropriate „responsibilities“ from a young age.

20. Make them gain the ability to solve their own problems.

21. Check if you are being critical and impatient with the child because of the troubles in your own life.

22. Allow your child to express their feelings and thoughts.

23. Talk to your child very often and regularly.

24. Chat with him.

25. Have him tell you about his own lies and dreams.

26. Do not fulfill his duties and responsibilities.

27. Set a working time together.

28. Turn off the television at that hour, do not accept phone calls, and do not allow him to be involved in anything other than class.

29. At that time, one of the parents can be at home and help the child when necessary.

30. You should not allow your child to enter his room and close the door during working hours.

31. Even if the child does not study, he should be deprived of all other things during that hour.

32. Parents should be determined and patient in applying this method in order to get an effective result.

33. Prepare a room or a corner for the child to study.

34. If he has a younger sibling at home, avoid disturbing your child who is studying.

35. Do not act negatively when comparing him to his siblings or other peers.

36. Your child is in the right environment; Try to be with the right and exemplary people.

37. Always observe your child's behavior, speech, habits and clothing.

38. What kind of person is your child on his way to becoming?

39. How and to what extent can you as a mother and father help him in this regard?

40. Do not pick up your child while studying or reading a book, and do not ask him to do a job.

41. Make her understand that it is in her best interest to make the most of her time.

42. Reward his effort rather than his grades.

43. Make her understand that her efforts will also result in good grades.

44. Take initiatives so that the subjects that are left behind in the lessons are learned immediately.

45. Ensure that he receives additional lessons as needed.

46. ​​You may not understand your child's lessons.

47. But you can provide opportunities to help and support him in understanding his lessons.

48. Your child will understand very well the sacrifices you will make in this regard.

49. Tell your children a lot about your own past, family and stories.

50. The realistic picture we will draw will be useful in maturing your child's personality.

51. Tell your children about your own work, profession and daily work.

52. Share your dreams and hopes with your children.

53. It will help them integrate with their families and enter into solidarity.

54. Your child should understand the importance of family very well.

55. He should know that he is very important in his family.

56. Accordingly, they should be able to understand that they have duties and responsibilities.

57. Make him understand that he has to work hard today to have a good life in the future.

58. Your child should be able to understand from all your actions that the future of everyone in the family is for each other to lead a better life one by one.

59. His future will be your future too.

60. As the parents of your children who will have a happy and successful future, you will also live your old age more comfortably and happily.

61. Exchange information with your child, discuss with him, read interesting things together.

62. Ask him to tell you his thoughts.

63. Talk to your children about everyday events.

64. Get them to perceive events and their consequences accurately and healthily.

65. Guide them well while sharing their feelings and thoughts.

66. Ensure that your child's daily life is conscious and planned.

67. You must make him realize that an unconsidered and unplanned waste of time is harmful.

68. For this, you should know very well where, with whom and what you spend your free time.

69. You should provide your child with space and opportunities in this regard.

70. Encourage them to engage in activities such as sports and art.

71. Get him to get little curiosities.

72. What can you do together?

73. Make sure your child always and regularly reads books that are appropriate for their age. (novel, short story, poem…)

74. Definitely ask him to show you what he has read.

75. Allow time for him to explain his views on the book.

76. Visit her school often, talk to her teachers.

77. When problems arise, try to take immediate action.

78. Do not delay in applying to people and institutions where you can get help for problems that are beyond you.

79. Evaluate your results.

80. Strive to provide the best education and training for your child.

81. All the sacrifices and investments you make on this path will only determine its future.

82. The basis of life is education.

83. Education requires planning and regularity; requires investment.

84. A child's future depends on the importance given to him, the investment made in him, and the environment he is in.

85. Your child can be anything.

86. Only you can enable him to acquire from the best and become one of the best.

87. We should want to do this too.