We live in a world were everyone can share their thoughts and do anything about you which can lead to bullying and we all know that bullying is not something to be executed especially by children.
Bullying is an action or verbal where in an individual do something or say something unpleasant to a certain person to make fun of her or him. Bullying can be done in groups and its not cool.
Where it can happen?
Well there's no paticular setting for this action to be executed , anywhere can be seen this , even now that we are in the midst of pandemic. It can happen to my place or there , in my country or in your country.
School setting
Cases like this can happen in schools were children are involved usually students being a bully. What is the purpose of schools , schools are where you can learn many things , you can aquire unique knowledges, you can also learn right manners,
right attitudes, how to be a kind human and yet this kind of things happen .
Sometimes even the teacher who teach good morals are responsible in this kind of action but not all teachers , some of them. Its not a good influence when a teacher did something like this especially in front of his students.
A bully can do various things to an individual , especially when they are rich or have some relatives in the politics and especially when they have relatives in schools.
They can write something unpleasant on a paper then stick it in your back.
They can stick a gum to your chair before you can sit.
They can call you by unpleasant name calling some aliases.
They can punch you , kick you , slap you.
They can put something in your bag, a stones , trash or even a poop.
Those are just the examples of what can happen to you in school if a bully will try to set his or her eyes on you.
Ways on how to overcome bullying in schools
Well schools is suppose to be a friendly environment and it can only achieve when everyone will join hands to stop this kind of action. Never say that bullying is inevitable to happen because it can be prevented for it not to happen in the first place . Here are some:
By conducting seminars to students
-as early as prep school or first grade management should be conducting something like this one in every schools to spread the awareness about the bad effects of bullying to someone , students can be knowledgeable enough on what are the disadvantages when you do bullying.
You can also encourage those at the positions to promote a friendly environment. This can be an eye opener to every single soul in school. By doing this it can also lessen the cases of bullying in schools.
Parents should also do their part.
-At early age of their children parents should teach them that bullying is not a good thing to execute , that its not good to make fun of others , by doing this you are tuning in the minds of your children to not take a chance to do something like bullying .
Also by doing this at early age , your teaching them to respect every single individual out there. If their children commited bullying , for example in school, they should always remind them that jt is bad , they should not tolerate such actions .
Being a parent , you have a big influence to your child from the beginning so take cautions on what you are teaching to your sons and daughters because that will reflect when they will grow up.
It can be LETHAL
Bullying is an action that if its not prevented and to be stop ,the outcome can be fatal and I guaranteed you that you will not like it if this kind of thing will continue to exist.
Bullying can lead to deppression, wherein the individual are being push into a dark corner of the world , thinking that he or she is different from other human beings out there.
He or she can loose self confidence, he or she may not believe her/himself anymore.
Loosing self worth , anybody who experience this kind of treatment will loose its will to live anymore . He or she will question its existence in this unfair world.
Worst case scenario it can lead to suicide , how many have died already because of bullying .Just think about it, nobody wants or wishes to be treated like you are not belong to the society you are living in.
Any kinds of bullying is not beneficial to the society , it should not exist. Cyber bullying or physical or verbal bullying.
Disclaimer
These are just my thoughts about bullying so suggestions and opinions are welcome . Just comment on what is your thought about this topic.
So ask yourself , Are you concerned about this issue? are you aware of this one?
Closing Thought
👉Believe in yourself
In this world we live in there's so many challenges we have to face and sometimes we are being demotivated by this challenges , sometimes we cry and worst being depressed why these are happening to me , thats a question for yourself but we have to strengthen our resolve when something like this will happen to your life . You need to believe in yourself because nobody else will do but you , you, alone. I experienced something like this so I know well the feeling.
So cheer up buddy , no one can stop you.
Bakit pa kasi umiiral yang bullying yan sa mundo😅 di talaga umiiral ang tao pag walng mga bully sa paligid😅