Some don't of life

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1 year ago

We all use a common phrase or word in our daily life. If someone asked us to do something and we can't do that than we said that i can't do this. Similarly if someone asked us about something than sometimes we said i don't know.

These are two common phrases of our life

  • I can't do this

  • I don't know

But besides don't know we have some other don't in our life just like an advice or suggestions.

Here are some basic Don't of our life.

Don't force connection

when someone wants to stay away from you or wants go break the relationship with you but you never want to loss that person and you stay with that person than you start to force the connection that by some and how you both live happily.

In this way might possible that you both live happily but believe me that other person who wants to break-up start to give you pressure that you broke the relationship as fast as possible. I think if someone say that he doesn't want to live with us that we should free that person and Don't force the Connection. Because in this way you never live happy. Than you just live a life that is full of compromise.

Don't be too available

No matter it's in friendship or in a relationship but don't let yourself to too much Available. Much availability may lost your respect. For example if you call your friend daily and he never called you than might possible when you called him or he say ahhhh again a call.

Okay when you visit to someone houy daily than one day he'll be bored from you and when you visit after some days than he greet you warmly. So don't be too kuch Available for anyone fhat you loss your values.

Don't accept same apologize twice

Apologize Is the good thing if someone apologize you than you should forgive that person but if someone did the same mistake again and again and every time apologize you than you shouldn't accept the apology because if you forgive for same mistake than it's become his habit that Everytime he feel free to do a mistake because he knows with his sorry he again become good one. So begoy it makes his habit you shouldn't accept the Same apologize.

Don't despair

If you start to do something and you failed to complete your task than don't despair easily. You shouldn't loss hope and try again and again because one day you'll do that. After many tries you'll be successful in your mission or target.

Don't be afraid to ask questions

If you're not sure about something than ask questions and clear your point because sometimes misunderstanding spoil your life and you ruin badly. Don't be hasitate to ask questions because every question has logical answer but only some people know the answer so you should ask questions from the right person because again it's possible that you ask questions from wrong person and he told you something wrong and things getting wrong more.

Don't delay

Sometimes we feel laziness in ourselves and we delay our works that we do it later but believe me when you delay your task without any proper reason than your task remain in un Done for several days. When a say starts and sun rise up than Sun give us a lesson that I'm rise now so start to do your task or work till sunset. Every morning or every sunrise is a lesson for us if we try to understand that lesson.

Ending thoughts

Sometimes i also feel hasitation to ask questions especially when I've clue about answer but sometimes I feel comfortable to ask questions. Due to my laziness my mostly task are in pending list that they remain there for a long time but now i try to complete them all.

These are some don't which we should avoid to do in our life.

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These are things that we should not do in our life. Especially when it comes to being available every time. I realized that there comes a time that they will abuse you and take advantage of you.

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1 year ago

Yes we should avoid to wrong response of ourselves as self love, care and respect should be our first priority

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1 year ago

These are beautiful tips to get on with our lives. It is expedient that we do not make ourselves too much available because we would surely lose respect and our values. There is need to create a boundary or limit at some point, so that we would always be valued and welcomed anytime we show up.

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1 year ago

Yes as self esteem should be the first important thing in your life

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1 year ago

I enjoyed reading your article. This is a lot of good information about life, love, and friendships. I am looking forward to your next one.

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1 year ago

It's worth to know that you enjoyed my writing as we both have different writing choice

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1 year ago

It is good to be open to learning all sorts of things in this confusing world. Mental health and relationships are extremely important.

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1 year ago

Yes it's the first priority in life

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