Say sorry even when you're not wrong.

In a hundred of thousands of words are there that has been created one of the hardest words in there to say are the word "sorry". There's actually a lot of ways to say "I'm sorry to someone" for there are lot of phrase that has the same meaning with it. I apologise, I beg your pardon and there's a lot of word out there that has the same weight as it is.

Even though there's a lot of ways to say I'm sorry, a lot of people can't still say it, especially when they're in quarrels with someone else. Everyone knows what are the reason why people doesn't want to say it. One is that, they believe that they're on the right side, thinking like this will only make them think that there is no need to apologise and the other person should do it to them. The another thing is the guilt, people doesn't apologize even when they know they're wrong because they're guilty to what they have done and they know that if they say sorry they should take the full responsibility of it. But for me is that, the main reason why people doesn't wanted to apologised is that they have this ego in their head that can't be beaten by anyone else. They think that saying sorry will make them weak and they don't wanted to be like this.

But saying sorry doesn't portray of how weak you are. As for me, I think that having the ability to say sorry to someone is actually a great thing to do. If a person can say sorry to someone then he is actually strong. Here's why:

One scenario is that, let's imagine you're walking in a busy street and it is actually crowded in there. While walking you accidentally bumb to someone else. You then turn and stare at each other for like 5 seconds. And that 5 seconds of stare will gonna heat up the things. What do you think will happen if you two don't apologize instantly? First is that, you'll be shouting to each other for a long period of time. You can't control your mind and mouth at this moment and might say foul words to each other. If things get worse, you two might physically just each other. Things will turn into brawl and the last thing will gonna happen is that you'll both be in jail for making a scene in a busy street. If only you just let your kind at peace and maintain your cool. you both then realized what's the situation is. It is an accident and no one wants it to happen in the first place. Even if the other doesn't think of it. When you start your words with an apology then he will gonna cool his mind too. A worse scenario can be prevent to happen.

Let's now went to the most common fight that is happening in almost everyday. And that is the loves quarrel. I know everyone who has a partner here understand this situation. Even if you don't wanted to, a small fight will always gonna start from a single thing or mistake. Sometimes the small mistake that upset your partner are tends to be ignore. They just let things slide but it is actually hurting your partner seriously. And this will build up by a lot of mistake until you both are having a serious fight that you both don't even know where it started. You both then say s lot of things to other partners, even if you're explaining your side will make things worse because they will think of it the other way. You will keep on hurting each other emotionally even if you truly love that person truthfully. That's why, for men out there, it is our duty to fix things like this. We don't need to fight a lot, when things get heat up, then cool of for a minute and hug your partner. Saying I'm sorry, is the best thing to do. We must understand the situation and their feelings. People just wanted to be feel listened too. A love's quarrel is not about whether who is right or who is wrong, it is about how are you going to deal with the current situation.

The reason we have two ears and one mouth, a big brain in top of our body is that. We must listen more to what other is saying. We must listened to their feelings than talk more. We must understand the situation first than saying a lot of things. Our brains is in top of our body is because we must priorities thinking first about what is happening, analyzing before doing an action. And even if we know we are not wrong it is still important to say I'm sorry to the other person.