How do you know if someone may be a toxic person?
A toxic person is more accurately described as an individual who regularly display behaviors that are negative, unhealthy and debilitating to a different person.
HERE SOME TYPES OF A TOXIC PEOPLE.
THE JEALOUS TYPE
Jealousy can be toxic very easily, but it's important to remember that these are some normal personal relationships. Sometimes a little jealousy doesn't toxic anyone.
Will it be toxic when people begin to imagine potential situations and real demands in reality?
This is detrimental in any relationship as it can cause people to lie and can easily lead to control and ownership of their behavior.
THE MANIPULATIVE TYPE
Do they always asking favors? Get angry once you say no or attempt to bribe you with belongings you enjoy to try to to things for them in return? These are sure signs they're trying to control you.
Manipulation is typically reflective of selfishness. people that routinely exhibit manipulative behavior are only searching for his or her personal gain, disregarding the emotions of others, almost like narcissism this will cause an enormous amount of mistreatment and disrespect.
THE USER
Do you know someone who tends to be friends with others just to use them as a resource and fail to create an genuine relationship?
In school, do you remember those who only contacted you when they needed help with homework and never spoke or asked how you were doing?
This behavior is toxic because they can wear you down, apparently only taking life for their own benefit. You deserve to be valued for who you are, not just what you can do for someone else.
PEOPLE WHO DISREGARD YOUR VALUES
Do they always look down on what you stand for? Did they make your beliefs seem inappropriate? Are they constantly trying to model you after their habits?
The people who do these things can cause you to ignore or neglect your values and become too much of a controller in doing so, you should not have any personal or professional relationship that you who are you and what do you represent.
PEOPLE WHO SET ULTIMATUMS
Ultimatums are forms of control and manipulation because they can make you feel that your entire relationship with a certain person depends on their fulfillment.
This can make you feel under pressure and create your thoughts and values in the window. The ultimatum is processed as a threat and thus the factors of love and empathy in a relationship are eliminated, they leave you feeling suffocated.
Any relationship that forces you or feels pressurized is toxic and you can lose confidence because of it.
PEOPLE WHO HAVE AN OVERLY COMPETITIVE MINDSET
Have you heard of people calling one?
It seems that they only listen to you to respond with the best.
This behavior is toxic because it can make you feel that your enthusiasm and accomplishments are not enough.
In any relationship, celebrating and caring is important, and the people who constantly compete with you can make you feel less healthy and less valuable.
PEOPLE WHO CAN'T CONTROL EMOTIONAL OUTBURSTS
Are you going to walk on an egg strip around someone because you don't know how they are reacting to you? Do other people live around him because he can kill anywhere and anytime without anyone advancing?
Repeated emotional attacks are toxic because they can reduce your well-being. This projector transmits to others who prey on themselves in the process.
The truth is that the ups and downs of the movement are a reflection of its own unresolved insecurity.
Have you ever experienced such behavior? Do you think the signs are sufficient criteria to identify toxic people around you? Let me know in the comments. Thank you for reading!
humans are complicated creatures. 🕺 sometimes we are driven by emotion.
also sometimes we have to interact with the so called "toxic" people which can be a friend, classmate, relative, co-worker, or someone completely unrelated. 😵
but what is truly important is how we "React" to the actions of such people.
we should be careful not to be infected by their mindset. 😅👍