An Open Note to the Parents of today's Generation!
Article # 32
June 16, 2022
Yesterday, when I was on the way back home, I saw two kids quarreling with each other. The older one was beating the younger one with his belt. I ran towards them and asked them, not to fight and go back to their homes. But they were not willing to give up. Then, I thought I should promise them some candies, maybe they stop fighting and it worked. As Yesterday was a hectic day, so after having dinner and all the stuff, I wrote an article here & then slept.
Today, when I came back home after work, I saw the mother of one kid sitting in our house. she said to me, why did you hit my kid? I got surprised due to her question. I thought, there must be some misunderstanding, I should clear with her, I replied, there was nothing like that. your kid was beating the neighbor's kid, I asked both of them to stop fighting and I promised them if they stopped fighting I will bring them some candies, and today I am having candies in my bag for them. She started arguing with them, she said you are lying, I know my kid never lies, you beat my kid just for the sake of other kids.
Then I called the mother of another kid, she came to my home, I told her the whole situation and I felt she was embarrassed. She asked her kid to say sorry to me, the kid also justified how I realized them not to fight with each other and she also thanked me saying you stopped there just to treat my son.
This whole incident was very shocking for me. I stopped there because they were my neighbors, but........anyways
Nowadays, parents are not accepting their kid's mistakes, they blame others for the sake of their kids, just like this aunt who said you are lying and my son (who is just 6 years old) is right. I am feeling sorry for that mother too. Her kid knows, my mother is never going to accept my mistake, I can do anything, and these kids become victims of bad habits later on.
Unfortunately, parents also play a part in kids spoiling.
(Disclaimer: This article is written by me and free of plagiarism. These are my thoughts. You have the right to disagree with me.)
Thank you for spending your precious moments here!
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Yes you said right. Few days ago I saw a picture, it was giving this message: At our times when we used to get bad grades our parents used to blame us and ask us why did you score this much in this subject and we were questioned. But in today's world something else is happening, parents go to the teachers and ask them why you gave these less grades to our kid. I mean your child is the one to answer you should ask him or her why isn't she preparing good or if there is any other problem. This is making our kids do worst things because they know at the end our parents will be on our side no matter what . Please don't make them like this.