A 21-Year-Old's Journey: Embracing Growth and Motivation
As a 21-year-old navigating the maze of life, I find myself at the crossroads of reflection and motivation as the new year unfolds. This juncture offers a unique opportunity to weave the tapestry of my experiences into a narrative of self-discovery and resilience.
In the rearview mirror of the past year, I take pride in my victories, no matter how modest, and acknowledge the hurdles that have molded my strength. Each twist in the plot has contributed to the mosaic of my existence, shaping the woman I am becoming.
Lessons Woven into My Story
Life, my profound teacher, has imparted lessons through triumphs and tribulations. From personal successes to unforeseen challenges, I've embraced each as a stepping stone toward personal growth. My journey unfolds with the threads of wisdom woven into the fabric of my evolving story.
**Intentions for the Year Ahead:**
Standing on the brink of the new year, I opt for intentions over rigid resolutions. Intentions offer the flexibility needed for growth, allowing me to cultivate gratitude, embrace change, and foster resilience. These intentions will be my guiding stars on this unfolding journey.
In a world brimming with challenges, cultivating positivity becomes a powerful choice. Surrounding myself with uplifting thoughts, people, and experiences, I aim to foster an optimistic mindset that sees opportunities in every circumstance. My outlook shapes my reality, and I choose to paint it with vibrant hues of positivity.
Sharing my journey and insights is not just a personal endeavor but a way to inspire those around me. As I uplift others, I simultaneously reinforce my commitment to personal growth. Motivation becomes a reciprocal force, creating a community where collective energy propels us forward.
As the new year beckons with the promise of change, I embrace it with an open heart and a resilient spirit. Change is not to be feared but seen as an opportunity for self-discovery and evolution. My ability to adapt defines my journey, and I approach the unknown with curiosity and courage.
So here I am, a 21-year-old woman, weaving the narrative of my life with the threads of reflection, intention, and motivation. May this year be a chapter of self-discovery and boundless potential, as I journey into the uncharted territory of adulthood. Happy navigating!
Another 3 dollars lost from my readcash. what is the reason?
Hello dear readers.
Welcome to my new blog. You should have already figured about what I'm about to write in today's article. Yes you guessed it right!!! Are you facing same problem, I'm happy to know we are in the same boat. But don't worry you have clicked on the right article to fix it.
It's already mid of this month and my read cash account has stopped gaining spot light. Yes I accept it, I has stopped gaining all those glamorous views. Is it making me worry? Ofcourse dear it is.
I was so busy in my exams I didn't even notice the money that was draining from my account. I just checked my account and $3 flew. Where did it go? Well maybe due to fluctuations this is happening but I don't find it good. Okay so what can I do about it? Well consistency is the answer to it.
Do you know how much is $3 in our country, it's around 600 rupees. Oh God I can buy a pair of flippers with this much haha. Oops! I just wrote this and when I looked at my dashboard another dollar flew. It's $4 till now. Hahaha I should write an article about it everyday you people can then know how much this poor child lost.
Jokes apart, okay so the main reason why I'm having my money go away is really due to
First: Fluctuations in Bitcoin so if it's happening with you too then don't worry it will get fine after some time.
Second: I'm spending less time at this platform. By this I just don't mean that I post less no I do post but what's the main strategy of this application is to keep it running and for that you have to write more and more and also read and comment more. I don't read much here which is why my account isn't gaining popularity too. When you read more your account can be seen by many people and when you don't you just restrain yourself from rest of the writers.
HOW TO FIX IT?
Well the answer is simple. Read atleast 10 article a day. Yes it must be difficult for some people but you can choose type of articles you want to read it's not necessary to just read any article. Develop your interest and read what you want to read. There is a very good trick I have learnt. If I want to know about something instead of Google I visit here.
For example, if you want to know about any movie or something else reviews you can definitely find it here. So I stead of going to websites come here and read from these writers you will do good to them and this will benefit your account too.
Let me know if anything from my article helped you in your read cash growing. Would love to hear from you.
Struggle in hostle life...
Hello my dear readers.
It's been a day or two I haven't wrote to you people. Actually I was feeling very low and there were moments I just wanted to come, sit and talk to you people but I got no time. Also bot is kind of stingy these days not giving me a single cent which made me not write haha lol just joking I want to be consistent and here I am writing my another article.
Life has changed allot from past few days, I have shifted from my apartment to my university's internal hostle. Which happened after allot of struggles at first they didn't want to give me room but then finally I got it. One of my dear Friend helped me allot in settling here, she is a sweet heart to me and a big big THANKU to her.
So the struggles started, I haven't ever ever been to this kinda hostle yes I stayed for a month at a private hostle but that was more like a home. Here I'm sharing a room with 7 other people oh GOD!!! I used to be all alone at my apartment enjoying my Netflix and having great food. Talking about food... Can you imagine what happened with me few days back? Ok so here at hostle you have to pay for food at the start of the month, I payed them and then went to the head of our hostle for approvals she said yes things are pretty good now you can shift into your room and have some rest. I went to room, at dinner time I went to the hall downstairs where everyone was sitting and having their food. We had to show our payment slips and then they will give us tokens to get the food with.
To my surprise when I gave them my slip they said you can't eat today. I said wait what? They said your share isn't included in this food, you will eat fr next month which was a about a day or two to start.
I hadn't at anything and was literally starving. My friend told me it's okay come sit with me I will share my food with you to which I said no it's fine I will order something for myself but still she insisted so I sat with her.
It was my first dinner at hostle, I felt so weird. We started to eat, and could barely finish one roti ( flat bread) together. We actually left half of it because I couldn't eat well there and she was not hungry I guess.
Can you imagine what Happened next?
The on duty mam called my friend and said to her " why did you give her food"? I mean really????? How can you dare to say this I have already paid you didn't give me food which I totally understood but if my friend shared her food with me still we couldn't finish one small roti together it means we didn't even eat food of one person.
I was stunned. My friend told mam we didn't know that she can't eat my share of food we will be careful next time and we went out of the hall.
This was so disappointing. Yes you can starve a person but if someone is sharing you can't stop that person. And what surprised me more was that there was enough of food left in the pots. So what they actually tried to do was to starve me.
I felt like crying.
But I'm not that weak lol
However, I went to the office and told them the entire thing that I have paid , in just staying for few days and if I don't get food for two days what is the point of paying then?
To which the head apologized and made me a slip and told me to have proper lunch and dinner tomorrow.
This was the worst thing I faced at this place.
Here the moral of my this story is, I'm an introvert I barely like to talk to people but when I get close to them you will see me always around them if a person like me can stand at such places then you can too. I always used to stand for others but today it was my time. My stand and I took it.
I knew I have the right to question the faculty and I did it to which they responded in apologetic way and I'm feeling so good that I didn't starve myself for another day or ordered from somewhere else.
Always take your stand. Never shadow yourself in sake of giving respect. Yes you should respect people but always think if there is any injustice happening to you just stand and raise your voice against it.
This was it for today, hopefully will spend good time here and I'm really satisfied with people I have met here they are all darlings.
Time to invest in ADA Cardano?
Hello people...
Crypto world is going day by day these days. There had been some great boosts in the past few years but at same time it also faced a huge loss as in Bitcoin.
Today I will just give you some details on ADA, and why you should invest in it. Firstly, always keep this thing in your mind tht if you are a small invester lime me then never put all your eggs in one basket. There are many other coins and you should equally invest in the coins where you see good future.
ADA is one of the famous coins which started it's journey in $0.03. within just few years the market started to speed up and over 33 billion tokens were issued in just November 2021. At this time Cardano had boosted from $0.03 to $3.10.
Just think about it!!!!!!!
Think about the investments of whales. They must have took big amount from this coin.
These days Cardano has again started to lower it's price but if you are a new invester then don't worry it is a good news for you. It's fluctuating between $0.55 to $0.66 but there are very good chances that it will hit $0.8 in June or maybe $1 who knows.
What are the facts that I'm giving you some strong predictions?
Well many big whales have started taking measurements to buy more Cardano, many famous prediction sites shows that Cardano will touch $1.65 at the end of this year and may hit $10 by 2025.
Now let's talk about what I analyzed from my chart readings.
If you look at the first picture you will see maximum trade done in the purple rectangular lines. The lower edges shows the start of the trade where as upper edge represents the highest point of the trade. Now in picture one if we look at the market, when Cardano just hit $0.7 it started to accelerate and then within few months after it's fluctuations it hit $2 and started to boost more.
Even if you trade in-between these purple lines you can easily get the profit and by end of the Lower edge buy more and invest more in crypto. Haha this just came into my mind.
Okay so these charts shows some strong predictions. Cardano has already hit $0.6 and fortunately it's fluctuating very slowly at this point which means there is a tough competition between the bulls and the bears but if bull are keeping it at this point it mean they are stronger and I future we will be seeing good results.
I have made some investments in this coin at $0.5. let's see how much these predictions are right.
Don't forget to tell me in comment section about your predictions related to various coins
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Dictators and their brutal eras..
Do you know who was the first dictator from history? Many of us know dictatorship came from Greeks and Romans but do you know who was the world's first dictator?
`Julius Caesar` assumed the position of first dictator in the western world. How he got into this dictatorship and what actually is dictatorship is another interesting question.
Dictatorship actually comes into being when their is no balance either in the politics, economical conditions or the constitutional state of a country. A dictator can be tyrrant or a good one depending upon the use of powers he has got... He only wants one thing and that is
OBEDIENCE
NO OPINIONS OF YOURS
NO FREEDOM FOR YOUR WORDS
if my country was under a dictator I swear I would have not even dared to write here on public platform. However, have you ever thought that dictators have actually done some good things to the world's too? If we take some examples Russia was u der dictatorship due to which it got more developed and was in a war for few years and survived if it was any developing country it would have not survied the harsh conditions of war.
As the entire system resolves around one body it is made sure to give prime importance to his words( the dictator)
Now let's talk about some harsh times few countries have seen while their time in dictatorship.
If you hear the word dictator and `Hitler` doesn't sound familiar to you then you doesn't belong to this world. Yes, if you Google it even now this new technology will also say he was the cruelest ruler of all times and a tyranny dictator. He was responsible for Holocaust and second world war. Nearly 500 million people died under his rule and at the end he committed suicide and was found in his bunker in the year 1945.
**Joseph Stalin**
Another dictator from Soviet union interesting part here is that he was a robber before he came into power and after coming into power he ruled over poeple with utmost cruelty. I get goosebumps while writing that under his rule more than 1.5 million women were raped brutally and more than 20 million people were killed mostly families. It's not just the numbers that counts it's the value of lives.
**Pol pot**
This dictator came from Cambodian revolutionary group, his main aim was to destroy Cambodia's oldest civilization and start a new regime. Many people says that he was only one man in entire history who wanted `genocide` in his own homeland. Millions of people died because of him and the worst thing he he used to like to keep the skull of the people he had assassinated his brutality had no boundaries he even order to his army to torn the babies limbs by limbs. He died of some natural disease.
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I am alone...
I'm alone in this world full of people, I feel tears in my heart without bringing them on my cheeks. I'm around the crowd I can see people chatting,laughing, smiling but I am alone.
Sitting on a bench, under a willow tree, as green as u used to be. I see children playing infornt of me but I am alone just like a flower around a bee.
Should I wait? Should I seek hope? Or should I talk to people?
Ohh what a poot introvert can do, in a alone in this world full of happiness.
Words are empty, Reasons are small world is full heart and my heart is heavy. Am I at a fault? Am I being restricted by myself? Oh I'm alone in alone.
A great deal of sadness I carry inside me, with few people I see who sees me. Steps must be taken, hearts must be joined but I'm a lone I'm alone.
I look at a couple, enjoying their coffee her cheeks pink in this cold snow, he dabing her face with a white napkin, as white as my life as soft as their hearts. This is the sweetness, this is the joy, this is what I wanted but oh I'm alone I'm alone.
Is it just me and the flowers? Looking at people forgetting our own world... Or is it just me and the bees always seeking for others sweetness.
What can I say? What can I do?
If I tell you, what would you do?
Oh I'm alone alone...
The time will pass, the seasons will change, leaves will fall new flowers will bloom and so will I be someone around..
For now I'm alone alone.....
Am I happy with my first withdrawal?
Hello beautiful people.
`It's 4th June 2022 and here I am with an experience that I just met.`
Today's conversation will little bit move all the eyes towards me. Let's get into it. My journey at read cash started last month, I just wanted to write and ofcourse earn some good money here. I had always been questioning to myself. Muniba, can there be a talent in you? They say everyone has talent but what about you?
I will start from digital skills, are you great graphic designer and can earn some bucks? No I'm not, a good fashion influencer? No no that's not me, then what skill? A motivational speaker? Oops I can't even stand straight infront of people how am I going to motivate some? So absolutely not!!
Then what are your skills? By the end of February I used to think there isn't anything I can do to get good earning from it and keep myself busy with. Then I started writing at read cash, I actually started liking my articles. But wait, dies that mean I'm gonna earn from here?
For few days I was thinking maybe it's a scam but no it was not, anf guess what I didn't believe it till I withdrew my money from this account a day ago. Can you believe I earned from this place?
My money, my own money !!!!
It wasn't that much just 13 dollars it reached to $17 after I withdrew but I didn't want to take any chance so I withdrew it at 13 dollars. Which makes 2600 in our currency.
If I speak about how I feel and am I satisfied or not then listen people, this money isn't that much but it has brought a light of self confidence in me. Few weeks ago I started buying Ng crypto currency but wasn't that much comfortable I don't know why but since I have took some earning from here it feels like I can do more.
Every person writing here I will say you people deserve so much, and I hope this confidence has come your way too. Don't think about the price, think about the talent you have unleashed in yourself. Doesn't it feels amazing?
Maybe not everyone is as deeply thinker(or maybe an overthinker) as I am but this feels good.
Now, I'm ready for my next crypto coin TRX , I will be buying some but I hope it give me big success there, I have already put some of my money buying ADA, they say it has a bright future apart from people's predictions I also read the charts and studied candles from which I took some great predictions.
I will continue writing at read cash and hope I stick to it for life, the people here are supportive which I love the most about this platform. And I just love both for being so kind to us haha liking our articles and blessing us lol.
This is just the beginning.....
Living dreams...
Hello my dearest readers, today I have brought a question that maybe most of you would know but won't be able to answer... It is.. Do you know what really is "living a dream" ?
Well, what is a dream? Anything that's dilusional it can be something from your real world or maybe something that's very new to you simetimws scary and sometimes good. It sometimes haunts people whereas some people consider it a sign of special religious force.
For me, my dreams had always been something connected with the fairytale. Yes I would say not all my dreams came true, but still some of them makes me more cheery and I feel fortunate.
I will share with you people about some dreams I dreamt about and that I really am living.
There is a famous saying, when you dream and it is fulfilled this is the point where a very huge transition has taken over in your life. My life had also been revolving around my dreams. Yes they say one must not believe in it but I do and I dare to dream more.
In my case there is a bit difference between a dream and a dreaming. The dreams I say are mashaALLAH fulfilled. For instance, having a life free of worries,haha yes I can hear you saying that, ofcourse it's not free of worries but the way I handle worries seems like there aren't any of them.
Good life partner, good food, clothes , luxuries lifestyle everything is fulfilled. And if I say no I haven't any of them then this is the main psychological problem in this world which is why I'm writing this article. People thinks they have nothing they aren't yet at the destination they want, but for me the journey is pretty infact it if perfect and the journey is what matters allot more than the destination.
I read somewhere, you should live the journey as for destination you will always get eager and never reach. So live your dreams, accept them that yes this is what I dreamt for and be kind....
Yesterday when I was coming back home I saw a man in our street, he was wearing torn clothes, grease on his face, black nail underbeds and his dusty untidy hair added more into his condition. For once I stopped and thought he must also have his dreams.
He must be the king in his dreams or maybe the prince. But does it matter if he isn't In real life. No it doesn't. He must be complete. He wasn't sad he was happy, smiling face and literally dancing around. Do you know why was he dancing? Because he was mad.
This is the best part of being mad, you are free of the world not aware of anything or not even realizing what you are doing.
So be like him, be mad, be free, be yourself to dream and think of yourself as a king or queen as it doesn't matter if someone accepts you or not being one. Everyone is superior in his own world so stick to your world and be superior in your own world. Believe me readers, this will bring big change in our lives.
Let go what isn't yours .....
Some thoughts remained hidden in my mind last night, some words still under a veil.
When the thought of in search of more haunted me, I was also faced my thought of not letting go what isn't mine. Have you ever thought? Has this thought also haunted you? Have you ever been familiar with it?
Talking from your behalf, NO. You think of everything as something that belongs to you. That has no connection with anything connected to others. I know my words must be perplexing you. What is she talking about? What thoughts? Is it even about everyone is is it just about some people.
Dead reader, today I felt very overwhelmed by some guests at my home. They came, sat, had some chats and then went. Now you must be thinking Muniba is gone crazy why is she talking about the guests at her home isn't completely opposite to what she was talking about few minutes back. Then let me tell you dear, the way the guests came, sit,ate, had some chat and went is what people thinks their purpose is in this world.
This isn't why we are here dear readers, there must be a reason that you should create for yourself. A reason to be here.
You can't always run after that isn't written for you, same way you can't always stick to that doesn't belongs to you. Let's imagine a toy from your childhood, it belongs to your brother. For how long will you say it's mine? Untill your brother come and says it's mine. The example is very small but think about it deeply. Sometimes in our life we have to give up on such peope, feelings and things that has no ground importance in our lives.
If you make it important one day it will turn out unnecessary. Then stop tiring yourself. Invest in what's near you and is yours. Invest in your family, invest in objects around you, invest in your friends that are loyal.
Can a book be loyal to you? Yes it can be, then keep it. Can a luxurious thing be loyal? No dear no, then let go it. Can a person who doesn't love you but one pretends to be can he be loyal? No dear, get rid of such things and people from your life my lovely reader.
The purpose of me writing here my mind os none other than spreading the words in my reader, smile is what matters. And tell, speak just say what you feel. What you brings joy to your face. Be hopeful, after every night there comes a day and after every day there comes a night.
Let go what doesn't belong to you, as in this is the happiness of your true life.....
Something beyond my thought....
In search of more...
I read somewhere, people who keeps tv screens bigger than their book shelves are stupidest. Talking about me, I have a big screen but not even a single book shelf at my apartment. Maybe this is why my empty mind was thinking about what I'm writing here for you people.
Was sipping a tea and enjoying the rain meanwhile a question came into my mind. Why always we strive for more? Why always we want more? If you look at a picture I have created in my mind, a little boy riding a cycle wants a big cyle with gears on it and big wheels, a man riding on a motor bike wishes for a car a big house although he already has a house but it's too congested for him. A woman wants a dress althougu she had bought one few days back for her party but sti she wishes for more.....
If you look around yourself you will see many such examples, even you can look at yourself. When was the last time you said, "now that's enough" "this is the end" "this is it" "I don't wish for anything else now"
On your last withdrawal from read cash did you say okay this is it what I wanted now I am satisfied? or did you say ok if read cash gives me this amount in a month I wi be satisfied? No dear no, you said I have to make more money now, If I can earn this much I can earn more.
That boy cycling the bicycle also thinks same way, if I can get this bicyle then why not a brand new one with gears? And the story of every person repeats.....
I also have many wishes and today I'm amazed how these thoughts came into my mind, we aren't happy. We are not dear people. It bleeds my heart to tell you that each person is responsible for not being happy. We have ended the happiness in small things reader readers.
Since when have we become so different? I myself don't know how will you know dear reader. Why always in search of more we are putting away what's near us. Things that are adding beauty into our lives. Things that are gifted by God by hands of others.
Can I make you happy? No dear reader no, you have to give up on your wishes, wishes that have no values more than a palm full of sand. Its equalt to nothing dear readers. If you stick to what you have will give you thousand reasons to smile back.
What you strive for will come to you, you don't have to think or struggle. If a car isn't written in his luck God will do so if not then he can't write it in his Fortune. If boy wishes and it's written he will get it if not then it's not written.
Same goes for me and you dear reader, let's stop searching for more. Let's promise to keep close to us what is ours. Let's bring happiness into our lives. Let's be who we were not who what we have turned us Into. Let's be reasons to our own smiles. Let's give some happiness to ourselves. Let's not be the reason to not being happy.
Let's join our hearts and let's think why in search of more?
Just a thought......
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A woman gave birth to a devil...
It was her 20th birthday when she got ready for her birthday party, the plan was to meet with her friends and family and join her other flock to a club.
Ashley will never forget that night. It gave her everything what she wished for (except... The club she entered with her friends), she used to go to bars but this time it was her real time she can now live her life according to her rules, she can be what she wants to be.
(Scene 2)
The door of the club opens Ashley enters with her friends and asked the waiter to give her something that's very wild and popular in their club. The waiter made something special for her as her friends told him she was birthday girl and it had to be his superiority to offer her the best..
She took shots after shots, in Los Angeles this is why a living is called being free of anything and enjoying your life.
Suddenly a guy came to her, as she started a conversation with her which headed in a good way. They both were drunk he offered her to go with him to his place and Ashley being a girl who wanted to experience everything without thinking for a second agreed to him.
They sat at his house near the window in his room, talked for long then went to bed to sleep.
When Ashley woke up in the morning she decided to leave on her way at the door she stopped... He was looking at her, she turned around
We talked allot last night but You didn't tell me your name.
He looked down, raised his head with a different face Ashley had never seen and said,,,
" Have you ever heard of devil? Maybe you have, and I'm bigger than all of them"
She didn't get it and walked through the door.
After sometime Ashley got pregnant, she hasn't been involved with anyone past few months so it was probably the guy from the club. She decided to give birth to the child. When the time of pregnancy started she was feeling usual like other girls are at their pregnancies but after her 6th month something started happening inside her. She used to have periodic pain a kind of splitting spasms. His words whispered in her mind.....
" Devil"
She used to stay up all nights not to see the nightmares, she knew what was inside her she knew what was going to happen she knew who she had been with that night.
At exact 8th month end she gave birth to a boy, she was in hospital bed unconscious when she delivered the boy through surgery as it was difficult for her to deliver it normally.
The doctors were shocked when they saw the baby, he had a physique no one had seen before. A boy, with small ingrown horns and his face had structure which no one could explain .... Thin body with backbone extended outside his spinal cord. Thin face with big eye ball sockets and a dot in-between his both eyes.
Just as if a devil was in his hands....
The doctor couldn't stand there for long he felt a strong shock in his body a fire around his skin quickly handed the child to nurse and left the labour room.
Nurse cleaned the baby, took him to the mother... She was there on her bed, wearing all white and looking pale her purple lips defined how much she had gone through this time giving birth to him... The headnurse told the nurse to take the child away...
***As Ashley was no more alive!!!!***
`This was actually a news a read in a newspaper when I was 14.`
`I don't remember the actual names of the story, all names used are just imaginary.`
`I don't know whether the story was true or wrong I just wanted to share it with my read cash family`
According to some believers that night a Satan came to her in human disguise and spent the night with her so it indeed was a devil's child. While some believers says the news was fake and had no ground reality. I tried to search allot about the girl name and this devil baby born in Las Vegas but found nothing on the Internet.
The perfect dinner...
~~*PERFECT*~~
Hello everyone, hope everyone is doing fine.
I was a bit busy so didn't write for few days. Alhamdulillah all my assignments and presentations have finally come to an end also I'm pretty much satisfied with the efforts I put in my presentations.
Exams are on its way and I have no idea where to start from, all my subjects are pretty good complicated. Let's pray they end well.
So last night I wanted dinner outside going all alone should have been little bit boring because of which I also called my friend if she can join me, she is a year or two elder than me but still we share a good bonding and often go to dinners and shoppings together.
I requested a ride on Uber and picked her up, at first we were confused where to have our meal we wanted to be in budget and have a good taste at the same time. Suddenly a thought came into my mind.... What meal can be more fancy and healthy than a steak? I mean after all it's our girls dinner out why not make it fancy little bit also I wanted to restrain myself from pizza and all other junk food.
We went to this fancy place called Wild wings
to have our steaks, luckily it was 20% off going on their steaks which added more joy to our face. I ordered hell fire beef steak with fried potatoes for myself and she ordered mushroom steak with mashed potatoes. Also told them to add some extra vegetables if they can as a sing of complementary hehe...
We waited for half hour or maybe 20 minutes and enjoyed the pretty ambiance,
Then here our steaks came. Such a delicious smell that burning scenario, the steak looked delicious. After clicking pictures and not wasting much time I jumped into eating the steak.
I took my fork and knife cut the steak nicely and tried it ..... It was done so nicely!!!!!!!!!!! the sauce it had was flavorsome, meat perfectly done neither too crunchy nor less cooked just perfect according to my preferences. My friend was also satisfied with her meal. The waiter asked us if we want some drinks but we refused to it as we wanted to have a healthy meal hence we opted for plain water.
Some of you must have noticed, I said I ordered "HELL FIRE" (name of steak) for myself... Can you imagine the situation I was in after my five to six cuts from the steak. No sweetie you can't oh goshhhh, I was dying of the spice level, they should have named it beyond hell fire not just hell fire. The more I used to chew it the hotter it tasted as you all must know steaks are injected with the sauces so even if you remove the sauce as it's topper it will not work for you.
I continued eating my spiciest steak of my life. I mean why this always happens with me, you people also must be thinking last time she said the Black CURRANT tasted sour and now she is saying the steak was spicy, I'm a spice lover but this was not just spice it was something else.
However, having a big glass of water with each cut from the steak is actually how I finished it meanwhile my friend was laughing at me and enjoying her creamy mushroom steak. I took some mashed potatoes from her steak dish as it felt very soothing to my mouth.
Then after finishing our meal we sat there for a while and I decided to have an ice cream at our way because my mouth was still on fire. I bought myself Cornetto ice cream and we headed to our places.
Now I'm sitting and missing the steak I wish I ordered some other steak for myself, here a piece of advice for you people always ask the waiter about the spice level I know it said hell fire I should have figured out the amount of spice it will carry but still asking them will leave you with no regrets
This is all for now, waiting for my another visit to a steak house for a steak.
Have you ever tried this amazing fruit before?
Hello friends how are you all hope doing great...
Summers are here yayyyy!!!!
When we hear the word "summer" the next word that our mind clicks on is it's variety of fruits. Just saying, who doesn't love winter? But sadly it gives us very few fruits options. In summers I like to have watermelon it keeps my body hydrated other than this plums works great for me and if you are my regular reader then ofcourse you will have some idea from my previous article that mangoes are my favorite.
This summer I experienced a new fruit, I had heard allot about it from people having it but believe me or not I hadn't ever experienced it before. Well after seeing it at the market I just stopped by the cart and told them to pack some from me.
Now interesting thing is that I hadn't ever heard about the actual taste of it. I mean if it's 'sweet' or "sour" but I was sure it's not going to be spicy after all it's a fruit so it can't be "spicy" haha However, judging them from the way they look made me think indeed they are gonna taste very sweet.
The fruit which I'm taking about is
"BLACK CURRANT"
in our locality it's called "FALSA" yes you heard me right it was the first time I was about to taste falsa. On my way home I was just wondering how it's going to taste, will it be like Java plum (jamun) as it's color is familiar or Jujube ( Bair) because of its size well I could have tasted it at the market but no dear I wanted to get home, wash them, sit on my comfy sofa and then try them. So I continued thinking how they are gonna taste.
When I got home i quickly went to washroom washed my hands and face then came back to kitchen to plate the fruit I was experiencing today for a moment I felt like an alien that has just landed on earth and found some falsas now eagerly want to try them hahaha .. I washed them up put the plate on my table sat comfortably, took one Black Currant into my mouth.
SOUR!!!!! SOUR!!!!! SOUR!!!! It's way sour!!!!!!!
I was expecting it to be sweet!!!!! Nooo
I was so disappointed ... you know sometimes when you see something and then expecting taste and it turns to taste differently this is what I call real disappointed, although I don't mind sour fruits actually I love sour mangoes also and other fruits too but today I was expecting something else, something sweet.
With great disappoints I continued eating them but after five to six falsey I'm sorry I couldn't continue eating them.. then I decided to search about them what actually are they as well as what is it's origin. I opened the Google and searched for black currant including it's benefits.
Talking about origin it's a wild fruit mainly found in green forests that's why it's very common in Islamabad (capital of Pakistan) as compared to other cities. Then I checked it's benefits.
I was blown away by it's benefits!!!!
Let me share few with you guys and I don't think so you had ever heard about these before.
It helps strengthening immune system, I mean in this pandemic who won't want their immune system to be strong. Solves stomach problems, if you are having any kind of stomach issue just have few black currants it can do wonders. It's leaf can be used for therapeutic benefits. It helps as anti aging booster. It helps preventing cancer and kills cancerous cells.
These are the reasons which convinced me to have this fruit more. Grind it into juice, sprinkle it on your salad or eat it raw it will leave it's amazing benefits. I know they taste sour but It's very beneficial for your health.
So go buy some for yourself till then I will enjoy mine and meet you in my next article.
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`The article contains my own experiences.`
"STOP RAPING US" topless woman protests at Canes red carpet...
It's a moment of dejection for me to write on this topic but for the sake of our society sometimes we have to unleash some topics and bring light on the matters to present our opinion.
Before starting my article I will give some soft notes to my readers....
First, This article contains my personal point of view.
Second, This article is free of any kind of agenda or propaganda.
Today when I was scrolling my Instagram i saw a video of a woman screaming "`STOP RAPING US`" I didn't properly see it first when I clicked on the screen I saw a girl in black gown on canes red carpet
*( as you all know it's happening right now in France and celebrities from around the world are joining it, some famous artists like Deepika Padukone, Aditi Rao Haideri , bella Hadid and much more has joined this prestigious film festival)*
Then this woman, around 25+ she took some steps at the stairs ,bent down and rested her bag on the floor then suddenly opened her gown and ran towards the media and started shouting and screaming "STOP RAPING US" "STOP RAPING US" Her bare body could be clearly seen in the video that I haven't posted in this article for which I'm truly sorry my heart doesn't allow me to do so.
Now the question that came to my mind was. Why did she do this ? And why she said stop raping us? Was this girl somehow connected to canes red carpet or did she just want people to listen to her story through the media infront of her.
Well she was a Ukrainian girl. During war according to her many hopeless women were being raped and children killed. According to the eyewitnesses her body was painted with Ukrainian flag and "STOP RAPING US" written on her bare body.
The Ukrainian president also made it to media that last night he has received thousand of rape cases *(minors and others were raped by soldiers of opposite country involved in the war) during war and wanted help to support* his country in this regard and give some justice to it's people.
Now according to some people this was just done by the girl to get fame and to earn some bucks while some said no it was just a protest which she did on the canes red carpet. Everyone ofcourse has his or her own opinions and where there is freedom in a country one can put it's opinions regarding an issue.
As far as I'm concerned about my thinking, for me ofcourse it indeed was a protest but somehow I think the way this protest was done didn't go well for me. As per reports and seeing the incident on thing that speedily came into my mind was,
Was it necessary to be naked to convey this message?
Can't we continue our protests with our clothes own and not support this idea?
I mean I being a woman doesn't support going stripeless on red carpet to get justice. There should have been protest but with clothes own and high slogans. The situation going on in Ukraine can't be questioned ofcourse the time they are going through can't be beard but.... can we accept this thing and let our kids watching this kind of protests?
Coming to what I framed in my mind from this Incident, Is I totally disagree with such protests and for me I think this is big time we raise our voice against such protests and deal with problems differently rather than choosing such paths and at the end I will say we must raise awareness against rape. We should teach our children from this day to how to respect women and be kind towards them. No such action will be forgiven my Allah.
That's all for now.....
`Do share your views`
***Article contains my own opinions and interpretations.***
***No plagiarism is present in this article, 100% the article belongs to me presenting my views.***
Assignments are pending and I'm enjoying at the park..
I woke up very late today although I had to go to my university before 2:30 PM to Provost office to apply for the internal hostle. Unfortunately I was late and the madam with whom I had to discuss about the turn in wasn't in her office as its off after 2:30 PM.
Bored from all my assignments and tired of the presentations I decided to spend some time with my husband. So we urgently decided to go to the f9 park but wait, we both can't spend all the time there sitting and looking at others so we planned to take some fresh juices and snacks with ourselves and then enjoy there.
We went to the juice centre in our markaz now here comes the questioning part, which juice should we have? I was in a totally mango juice mood while my husband wanted to have sugar can juice but he wanted me to share mine with him to which I refused haha because I wanted to have all my juice without sharing it with anyone haha after all it's mango juice please don't judge me I have a next level craze about it....
Anyways, at then end we both ordered mango juices for us.
Then we headed towards the f9 park. It is a sector or two from our place and they have turned the entire f9 sector into a park. People come here and sit to enjoy the views and eat with their families in a calm environment.
It was extremely hot outside for a moment I wanted to cancel the plan and go back home as it will be impossible for us to survive in this heat but then I thought it's totally fine giving it a try so we kept moving towards our destination.
Now where to sit in the park? I wanted a place where no one is around to stalk us and give strange looks also my husband wanted a calmer place to sit and enjoy our mango shakes.
After allot of struggle we found this place to sit and spend some time. Just look at the mountains I clicked with a different filter in real everything was green around us.
Then we Sat, talked about some plans we are making for future, my studies, his business and ofcourse my work at read cash haha he always wants to know what Im upto and that's what I like the most about him, he being aware of everything I do.
After finishing our mango shakes we decided to have a walk around the park and also we clicked some pictures ofcourse I ended up looking fat in them but still I'm happy how much we laughed at my pics hahaha
I'm happy we decided to come to the park, there were also Many families sitting and spending good time, the most interesting thing I saw in the park was a man, an old man in his 80s .. He was sitting on a bench under a huge tree, all alone and looking at the other families. It gave me some kind of feeling that it must have been his favourite place with his wife, maybe she is alive or decreased but how alone he was explains she wasn't around him.
Then for a once I thought about my relationship, when I will get old will I be at the same place ? Enjoying with my husband? I don't know but I want everything to be as it is , it's perfect and I want to be like this around him forever laughing at my chubby pictures hahah INSHAALLAH.
Say mashaALLAH...
That's all for now sweeties.
TikTok trends 2022
TikTok has become one of the social media platform where people are investing most of their time and mind. Even now in some colleges of united States there are proper lecture given on how to earn 500 dollars on a single video. Which Unfortunately some people do anything to earn the fame but other comes with a very unique and delicate content which gives them popularity over night.
The TikTok craze started in 2018 and since then number if it's users has increased to billions. As it is one of the easiest way of earning good money and getting famous here everyone is indulged in making it part of their everyday life. There had been many trends on TikTok like the kiki dance trend, face wax challenge, Gorilla Glue Girl and much more. These trends not only became famous but also gave Popularity to TikTok worldwide.
Talking about present day, I was scrolling my feed and saw some trends going on on TikTok and thought to share it with my readers.
****1: #2spooky****
You won't believe it but this trend has 117.7 million hashtag views on TikTok. Which is why it is the top trend on TikTok. In this trend people show some dance moves on the song "Spooky Scary Skeletons" while dressed in a skeleton costume or wearing skeleton makeup on their bodies. This trend got famous as Halloween is around the corner and people can't get over it.
****2: CHAOTIC ENERGY****
Now this one is my favorite, the sound track has a very fast mode so people make different screen plays on the song. It has got 248.8 million views and no wonder it is popular for many reasons most importantly it's humourous. In this trend they act on a situation using their chaotic energy.
****3: DIFFERENT PEOPLE****
This TikTok trend came into fame when the users tried to make some informational, humourous, inspirational and comedic content.The video actually revolves around things people compare but they are somehow different but mostly same. The sound tract is beautiful used in this trend.
****4: Seamless transitions videos****
The next thing that got very trendy on the TikTok was seamless transitions, they can be clothes transitions or room transitions or even people switching and dancing over a song. Few months back I also tried one of the clothes transitions but failed badly so I must say these TikTokers put allot of efforts to make a trending video or even make a simple transition videos.
This was all from my side , I hope you are now aware of some of the interesting TikTok trends trending these days. Check these on the YouTube and try to make a short. Also share your experiences with me if you have ever tried any trend and how it turned for you.
***One last soft note:*** *PLEASE DON'T TRY DANGEROUS STUNTS OR SUCH TRENDS WHICH CAN PUT YOU IN HUGE RISK, RESPECT YOUR LIFE DEAR, DON'T PUT YOUR LIFE IN DANGER FOR FEW FOLLOWERS AND LIKES.*
GOD BLESS YOU...
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Sharing some pictures from my recent trip...
Hello pals.. i hope everyone is doing great at what they (you) are doing and believe me you are doing it perfectly so be free and relax.
Today I decided I will share my last weekend trip with you and will take you to the places through my gallery. So my husband and I decided to have a break from our very busy lives, as he works all day handling his business and I barely get some time to sit peacefully as I have a very busy university schedule going on, exams are near so I'm preparing for them and nothing is more hectic than final exams.
After allot of discussion between me and my husband we finally planned for a trip to the mountains, mainly Galliyath and Murree, we had leave on Thursday night and it has to be a three or four days trip and then we had to be back before Sunday as I had a test to take on Monday.
So first we drove to Murree through Kashmir highway and then Murree expressway
Here some glimpses of the road journey I captured
Then we stayed in Murree for a day, it's environment was very calming. The resort we stayed in was over the top of a mountain so we could see the amazing view from our room
Next evening we decided to travel to Galliyath (one of the famous Galliyath Nathia Gali was in our bucket list). But my husband wasn't pretty sure if we will reach there on time. Unfortunately he got a call for a meeting so he had to attend a meeting on Monday again we had to stretch our schedule further. Anyways, I told him to pull the accelerator INSHAALLAH we will be in Galliyath on the time.
After going through allot of traffic there we were. "The Galliyath"
It was more chill here than in Murree and the place was more prettier. Thankfully there were very less tourists and this is what I enjoyed the most in Galliyath.
We went hiking and witnessed the beauty
MashaALLAH!!
All I saw around me was fresh and green views I can't get enough of it from these pics I clicked.
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`Article is written by me free of plagiarism`
My First mango milk shake of the season...
Who doesn't like mango? Well we all know it's the king of the fruits and here in Pakistan we wait every year for summers to come and bring yellow pretty mangoes for us.
The yellow fresh color of mango attracts me the most then comes it's sweet smell sweeter than honey and fresh than dew.
My day started very busy today specially the political science class was very hectic and when it's extreme heat you can't focus on what the teacher is saying everything feels like an alien to you. It was 3 hour class left us with so much boredom and headache.
As soon as the class ended I rushed to the cafeteria with my pals.
Cafeteria was full of the students as it was 2:30 everyone was having lunch and in such crowded place for once I felt unconscientious as I don't get much oxygen in crowd but I had one thing in my mind. Muniba you are going to have that mango shake anyway!! And here the struggle started.
I went to the juice corner and you can imagine what happens in university at cafeteria counter. Some girls pushing me towards the counter and I pushing them backward, I saw my friends struggling too so I asked them a favour if they can ask for a glass of shake for me too but unluckily she was also not able to get to the person standing at the counter. So I tried harder, somehow I got to the lady at the counter. Told her to bring me a glass of mango shake without sugar.
And here it was, my eyes were shining when I saw the milk shake. My first mango shake of the season, a "**yellow mango shake"** it was I still can't forget how childish I felt at that moment I'm sorry this is my love for mangoes I can't resist talking more about it. All the winters I waited for this time and here it was.
Then I joined my friends and we had the shake together it was really yummy and I have a plan to have another one at the cafeteria when I will go to university.
In this picture I'm enjoying this pretty glass of shake.
So this was my first mango milkshake experience of this year, here sharing some glimpses of my yummy shake
Fun fact, I can have a big jar of mango shake all on my own without any regrets.. hehe
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**The entire article is PLAGIARISM free.**
**Photos are taken with my own cell phone.**
METAVERSE... Future of the world
What actually a Metaverse is?
**METAVERSE is a Greek word taken from two small words meta= beyond and verse= universe so collectively Metaverse is something beyond the universe.**
A metaverse is a network of 3D virtual worlds focused on social connection. In futurism and science fiction, it is often described as a hypothetical iteration of the Internet as a single, universal virtual world that is facilitated by the use of virtual reality and augmented reality headsets.
The future metaverse would be something very similar to our real world in many aspects and even replace some real-world activities (like working or hanging out)
With the metaverse, people will be able to socialize in the virtual world, where they will be able to connect, collaborate, and communicate even if they are not physically present. Yet no one will feel the difference or experience physical separation
Now one must be thinking what metaverse is useful for?
Players:
Well for players, the metaverse is a social space where they can compete while also socializing with their friends. Some teens from Ghana are active in metaverse playing digital games and earning millions of dollars.It has become their major income resource.I know it’s little bit unbelievable but it is future where everyone will be able to connect through virtual world.
**Investors:**
For people who are interested in real estate they have great opportunity in investing in metaverse, one can buy a piece of land and then rent it big to earn from it
MEDIA AND ENTERTAINMENT:
Metaverse will be playing a big role in media platforms. It’s a good news for fans too, people who want to meet celebrities they can finally meet them. I mean if one person is sitting in Pakistan and his favorite celebrity is sitting in some other country he can meet the celeb easily from his room through virtual reality.
But how do we see someone in other country from “our” room?
Well the answer is, it is done through virtual headsets, you just have to wear Oculus Quest 2 Virtual headsets and you will find yourself through them in a meta world which will be log-inned from your personal laptop or computer. Few months back famous singers like Justin Bieber and Ariana grande held live concerts where thousands of people joined them from mostly every corner of the world. The fans experienced amazing live concert from their headsets and felt like just standing near the singers.
People are buying lands in Metaverse, these lands will be the present inside the digital world and some of the famous celebrities like snoop dog has already owned it and it’s worth 400 million dollars.If you buy a land, there will be opposite parties who will want to make it on rent from you and you will be easily earning million of dollars from this digital land.
Now the big answer is, how can we buy this land?
As we buy food, groceries etc with money in our country that money is called rupiya in US it is dollars whereas in Metaverse this currency is know as ***NFT***.
****NFT**** stands for non-fungible token. It’s generally built using the same kind of programming as cryptocurrency, like Bitcoin or Ethereum, but that’s where the similarity ends. Physical money and cryptocurrencies are“fungible,” meaning they can be traded or exchanged for one another. These NFTs are used to buy things in the meta world.
****NEGATIVE POINTS OF METAVERSE:****
Everyone is talking about Metaverse and it’s unbelievable uses these days but no one is talking about the adverse effects it will bring to the society.
First of all, the headsets which we have to use to join the meta world are very heavy, if you use them for few seconds it will give you headache so there must be done some changes in it to lighten it’s weight and function.
Secondly, if this technology gained popularity Everyone will start using it and due to it there will be no more face to face meetings, the natural way of living will be completely changed. People will meet eachother through this artificial world which is why this technology will restrict us to our rooms which is a very negative point of this technology.
Third, many people have done investments in it but nobody knows whether this technology will hit the clouds, maybe it gains success maybe not so it’s too early to start investing on it which means it has no accuracy so again this is a very negative aspect of this technology.
The future will decide whether it is our future or not...
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Sufferings...
Today had been a very hectic day, I had so many things on my to do list but as we know days are so short in these months I barely get some time to do my things and put myself together. For instance, today I had to go to my tailor and bring my clothes which I gave him a year ago. You won't believe it it was last year in June I gave him my few unstitched fabrics and it's June next month , he hasn't stitched them yet. I guess I should change my tailor, he is becoming a headache for me.
Anyways, I was watching movie few hours back when my friend called, she could barely talk. I don't know what the matter was, I tried to comfort her so that she can come to her relaxing zone and then I will ask her what her problem. She is a sweet friend of mine so whenever there is any issue she just calls me and I try to suggest her the best.
After relaxing her I asked her what's happening, are you okay , Is everything alright at your side. She said it's my father, we can't live with him anymore. This wasn't the first time she has said this thing last month she was crying and saying she will leave the house if things didn't work for her.
But this time the matter was big. Actually her actual father died when she was just 10 so her mother married another man, things were pretty good in the beginning he used to treat her like his own daughter but later he started to threat my friend and her mother to bring all the property and the gold they have to him so that he can have a luxurious life.
I mean what a shame to mankind!!
For 9 years she had been suffering this pain, she got no love from her step father as he didn't marry her mother because he loved her but just because he was a greedy man and wanted her wealth.
She continued telling me how cruel her step father has become, usually he just used to say bad words and threaten them but this time he had beaten both of them with a wire. My heart wrenched when I heard her saying this, how can someone do this? And beating his wife infront of a child, I know she is around 18 or 19 but still she isn't ready for such environment.
I couldn't talk after hearing her, she was talking and I was numb hearing about the entire scenario.
I wish I was there to protect them but she doesn't live in my city so I couldn't do anything at that time.
However, I advised her to leave the place where they live as soon as possible. This was the only possible thing I could say to her at that moment and her mom told her that she also wants to leave atleast they will be safe.
After few hours she called back and said that they have left for their uncle's house which is in the same city I asked her if she needs any help but she said I can manage. For me I think this is the best step they took in past 9 years.
Its been hours since they have left I hope so they will be happy at their uncle's house and after finishing their paper work they will settle in their new house which her mother has built.
May Allah protect everyone from hard times and bad people...
To mothers..
Today is the day we celebrate a joy, a joy that beard so much pain to welcome us into this world, a joy that burned it's heart to rest us in peace , a joy that smile when we smile, a joy that brings happiness into our faces.
We are blessed to have you
We are blessed to be owned by you
We are blessed that you became the reason to our presence
We are blessed to be blessed everyday by you
Have you ever wondered how much she strive? To do what makes her children happy , to do what it takes for her children. To how to fight with the entire world?
No!
You don't know
And you can't ever know
Be her to know
Be the person who is strongest
Be the person who wakes up every morning to make you good food
Be the person who takes after you when you are burning in fever
Be the person who cries with you when you are getting an injection
Be a person who's heart melts at a simple smile you pass to her
Then you will know
Then you will know what she is
Then you will know how powerful she is
Then you will know why she is "SHE" and she is a 'MOTHER"
To all dear mothers.... Thank you for everything.
Talking to people who looks 25 years younger than their real age..
*You hear it allot "drink ample water for glowing skin" but today it will be beyond drinking 9 glass of water aday.*
Okay so who doesn't want to look dazzlingly young? ofcourse everyone and you dear reader if you don't agree then unfortunately this article isn't for you because today we will be just talking about looking younger and good.
**"NATURALLY"**
Before jumping into my article I will want you all to know that beauty resides inside, it's not how you look or what you wear. Beauty is how you feel inside and how generously you treat others.
There is a famous saying;
"When inner beauty exceeds the outward beauty - it creates a magical dance in the heart"
Be a beauty that radiate light in it's surrounding with good deeds and good gesture.
Talking about aging, as people start to age their skin start loosing collagen( a type of protein) this collagen helps to keep your skin tight so this is the reason why wrinkles starts to appear around our eyes and on other parts of your body. The question which arise here is how to maintain good skin then?
In the quest of answer to this question I started a mini survey, where I reached some people from my day to day life and read some articles about some celebes who looks really younger than their real age.
After collecting the data and analyzing it I short listed some tricks and remedies that were common in all these people.
**Ice cubes water:**
Yes you heard me right, you must have been seeing this people putting their face in a bowl of ice cubes and water holding it for pretty 15 seconds. This isn't a myth, I'm telling you this really words cold water helps increasing the blood flow in your skin and more blood flow in skin leads to better protection from pollution.
By doing so your skin will look healthy. Some famous celebrities who uses this trick are Katrina Kaif and Anna Hathway.
**Plum extract:**
Now this was something new for me when heard it for the first time. I have seen people putting cucumber pastes, orange paste and have honey on their face but putting plum extract? What good can plum do to your skin?
Well the answer is very exciting, plum contains very rich amount of vitamin C this vitamin when applied on your skin helps in making new cells in your face, as we age our cells ages too so vitamin C is very important to rejuvenate your skin. Simply mash some plum in a bowl add honey and apply it to your skin.
**Sleep on your back:**
When I talked to some women most of them said their sleeping posture had played a vital role in aging them less. I researched on it and was shocked to know that this position really helps in maintaining youthful skin. According to some specialists this position due to wrinkles-inducing friction prevents appearing wrinkles your face and body. Isn't it exciting? Rihanna is among the celebs who does so, doesn't her skin look pretty, young and youthful?
There were also some other preferences people shared their stories about like opting for surgery and laser but In my consideration they are of no use as they cost million of dollars and you will end up looking like someone else.
Rest the choice is yours sweety.
A quick Birthday celebration..
Do you miss your childhood?
Well I miss it allot. All the fancy parties, friends meetups and school fair wells.
This week my sister came to spend few nights with us, I was so excited for her arrival because with her she brings three little reasons to our happy faces. Yes I'm talking about her kids.
My sister has three girls. Named as Aila , Tooba and Momena. Aila is eldest while Momena is her youngest daughter.This morning when I woke up my sister told me it's momena's birthday.
How can I forget that? I told her to plan her birthday party but she refused as last year they had a big blast and now she wanted a simple
"**at home cake cutting ceremony**"
Well, I agreed with her but still I wanted something little bit excitement for my little munchkin. As it was already very late I had to rush to make the arrangements.
I told my Papa to give order for the cake, two pizzas and some other snacks like fritters and chicken rolls. He was also excited about the sweetheart's celebration so quickly placed the order. Then I called my brother to bring party poppers and balloons, pink and white will be the best.
We decided that we will start the decor half hour before cutting the cake so that the balloons won't deflate but my brother had to be on time as blowing the balloons will take good time and sticking them to the wall is the toughest part.
I checked the time I had 2 hours so quickly got ready and made tea for everyone.The famous saying time flies fits here perfectly, when I checked my watch again there were just ten minutes left.
What about the balloons? What about the decor?
Nothing was done and everyone started calling me.
Muniba!!!! Where are the balloons?Didn't you tell your brother to be on time ???
Muniba!!!! What about the decor??
I was getting angry just over two things first my brother wasn't on time and secondly I hate it when people show no patience when it's time to.
Can't one wait for few more seconds? I mean if you want a celebration to be best then the process should matter. The time family spends together to plan the event matters allot on such occasions.
The reality here was that everyone was in huge hurry to "EAT" rather than enjoy, food is something that we eat everyday so relax people enjoy the journey not the destination.
Anyways, finally my brother came. Now here comes the best part I gave 10 balloons to each family member to contribute in the decor haha and this was the funniest moment, they were out of air haha. I had to hurry up so this was the only option left and they popped more balloons than they actually blew. oops!
My lungs started hurting!!!
I have decided I'm going to order the machine with which you can blow the balloons easily ( I don't know what is it called) I have heard allot about it and it's handy too I feel like needing it.
When the balloons were done we decided to make threads of them and hang them on each side of the wall and few balloons at the centre but unfortunately the tape wasn't sticking to the wall so we had to drop that plan and just hang the balloon threads.. ahh it looked splendid!!!!
Now I was relaxed,
The food was here, the decor was done and my little munchkin was ready in her pretty outfit.
We handed her a cake knife to cut the cake, how happy she was. Everyone was so happy seeing her like this and everyone sang her birthday tune with big smiles on their faces.
This is what I wanted !!! This happiness, it's unbeatable!!! It's something people must take few efforts for to make their lives happy.
Today I learned such a big lesson, if "**WE**" want to, "**WE**" can be happy, it all depends upon "**US**".
If "**WE**" want to live a healthy life then "**WE**" should create some moments, moments that are small but will bring smiles on faces.
Everyone in the house was angry at me when the decor wasn't done but when my munchkin was cutting the cake the anger faded frim everyone's face and this was my happiest moment.
I will want my readers to listen to my these words, please do little for yourself and others but do it with your heart, it will bring big change in your life.
Be happy **:)**
**All the words belongs to me.**
**The picture belongs to me and is clicked with my own phone.**
Ended up in hospital...
****10:30 AM 3rd May-2022****
It's raining outside and I'm sitting in veranda enjoying it with cannula in my hand. It's been weeks since it rained last time, I can feel the breeze touching my soul and relaxing my mind.
This morning I decided I will continue reading my books I had started before Ramadan, one of my favorites
"Rumi's Daughter" by Rumi
This novel has so much to offer, I have seen some people who relate to it allot I just love the idea how creative Rumi is of thinking so much beautiful and write in into blank pages and turning them into a hit book.
So I woke up late, had some cereals in my breakfast and went straight to my room to finish the book, after few hours my mum called me for lunch. She had made Okra and served it to us with some fresh yogurt.
(I can compromise over anything but when there's okra and yogurt on my plate together I can't stop eating ) I must say I had very heavy lunch.
After finishing my lunch I went back to my room, and got indulged in my writer's beautiful creation.
Felt something in my stomach,
Wait what was it?
Did I just eat allot is that why I'm uncomfortable in my bed with this heavy tummy?
Maybe yes!!
Forget it I'll be fine.
Another episode of pain with belching, what's happening to me?
I went to washroom, came out and wasn't able to figure out my surroundings properly.
I thought I might be feeling dizzy so I went to bed tried to comfort myself but my dizziness got severe.
Meanwhile, I heard mum coming upstairs, she opened the door to my room.
She was holding a bowl of fruits in her hand which were for me "ofcourse"
As soon as she saw me she figured out I wasn't feeling well, she gave me some tablets. Sat with me on my bed while rubbing my forehead with her soft fingers, a thought came into my mind
Isn't it been so long I haven't slept with mum? Me hugging her all night and she slightly rubbing my forehead to make me fall asleep.
Suddenly I sat straight, ran to the washroom and vomited... (This is the worts part, I hate vomiting it's like my ribs are rupturing, my throat will rupture I can handle everything but when it come to vomiting I go insane)
Now was the moment mum realized she had to take me to the hospital, called our uncle and we went to the doctor.
What are the doctors saying?
Oh it's just food poisoning.
Wait what!!
Did he just say "just food poisoning"???
I ate my favorite food, the food I swear upon how can it harm me?
When my mum was talking to the doctor I was just thinking about my okras, how lovely they looked on my plate when I was having my lunch. I wish I could eat more ...
ANOTHER EPISODE OF VOMIT
Oops!! I guess I have to stop thinking about my okras, and this I also have studied somewhere when you are suffering from food poisoning and think about the food you ate last time it just makes you freak out more.. so I let go my love for my favorite food.
The nurse took me to the ward, and this was the time which scared me the most.
"THE INJECTION"
But thankfully my nurse was very caring, she started telling me about herself and asked some questions from me too, then she told me about a girl who recently recovered and discharged and that the nurse was very attached to her patients because she lost her own child in this hospital.
I was lost in her pain and it made me stopped thinking about the cannula she put in my vein.
**In frame: Me having my first infusion.**
How pretty green veins.. she said.
I smiled back at her, without saying anything.
Then the Senior doctor came and told her to give me five infusions. Five was a very big number for me. I had to finish my book that I left on my bed how can I stay here and take five infusions?
But unfortunately I had to.
It was around 4:00 AM when I came back from hospital. But I was still feeling dizzy and a little bit unconscious too because the doctor said there were some sedatives in the infusions so my mum took me to my room to rest for some time.
I was half asleep when I heard something on the window, the rain drops were dripping on the white window glass. I couldn't get up from my bed so called my mum she came in and brought some fresh juice for me I finished my juices and asked her to take me outside I will just sit in the verandah and write something as I was feeling good now.
Yes you must be thinking I'm crazy but I guess I'm addicted to read cash now, I feel so good when I share my life with you people.
Enjoy the rain with me....
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Eid ... How we celebrate it?
Greetings pals, wishing you a very happy and full of sweetness Eid.
2nd of May - 2022
It's 7:58 by now, brought a bowl of vermicelli with myself to the room to sit and write to you people,
Before telling you how my day went let me ask you people, What is Eid ?
No idea? Okay I will give you a very short briefing on it.
We being Muslims celebrate this festival as a symbol of sacrifice, and it started from Hazrat Ibrahim (PBUH) era and Muslims have continued it from ages.
Before Eid there is a month called "Ramadan" in this month people fast for 30 days, and after 30th Roza (the process of fasting ) comes Eid to celebrate. The reason why Muslims fast in this month is to make the rich and the poor equal, ask for forgiveness from Allah Almighty.
Ramadan is the most important month to we Muslims as it is the month of spiritual cleaning, our minds and souls are freed from the sins and our hearts are filled with Emaan(faith) in Allah.
Eid brings people together, sweets are distributed, feasts are prepared and families gathers to celebrate eid to it's best.
Now I'll share with you how my Eid went today,
I woke up around 4 took shower and got ready, I wore red dress today to celebrate this festival. Yes most of you would be saying why going this much bright haha but I wanted to flaunt my red dress today so sorry I had to....
I made tea for my family and served it with some sweets, we usually start our Eid day with something sweet and tea.
When my brothers came from Eid prayer I greeted Eid with them, then we took some photos so that we can keep these memories in physical form to recall them later, and guess what, being photogenic I got the best clicks haha.
Mom was busy cooking food, today she made us Kabuli palaw(Afghani rice) with beef karhai, i went to her and helped her preparing the dining table.
Let me show you my plate;
Me , my siblings and our parents sat for the lunch, this is actually what Eid is about.
The presence of family, laughter, sharing our plans for today, eating good food together and thanking Allah for giving us this beautiful life, Alhamdulillah.
So today I got an invitation from my sister cousin, she had invited me for the evening tea after finishing my lunch I went to get ready as I have to be there before evening.
Do u know what Eid is incomplete without?
Mehndi and bangles,
So I sat to apply mehndi before leaving for my cousin's place. Well talking about mehndi, won't lie I don't know any A's or B's of it still since last three years I'm trying to learn it, so I applied a very simple yet decent desing on my palm. It left such a pretty orangish color on my hand and wore red bangles to complete my Eid look.
Changed my clothes and told my brother to drop me there.
Her name is Maham, she is of my age every Eid we plan to spend evening together this Eid she had planned BBQ party at her home.
At the entrance I met my Aunt and greeted her Eid, Maham came out of her room and we went upstairs to do some preparations for BBQ party, I took some drinks and sweets with myself to her place some of her friends were also coming so we had to keep everything perfect to make the evening memorable.
Around 6 her friends camel and the real BBQ party started, we played music, exchanged some jokes and enjoyed the evening. The entire house was filled with our joy.. Ahh !!!what a gift it is to have true friends and good family members!!
After finishing the party my brother came to pick me up, I was so tired I couldn't even meet mom when I came back just went to room and had a nap.
This is how first day of Eid went now tomorrow is second day and I have some great plans for tomorrow we celebrate it for three days.
At last I would love to add something,
Today I learnt a very small yet precious thing, last year due to covid many people lost their loved ones, when I found my family and friends near me today I felt so thankful to Allah, may those who lost their loved ones get more happiness in their lives so that these sorrows fades away from their hearts.
Ameen.
A very happy Eid to all of you.
"Screentime for Teens and Adults"
In this hastily going world most of the adults, children, and teens are using screens. For children it is recognized in various places that screen time is fixed but for adults and teens there had been no reasonable timings put forward by anyone in any study, you have to keep in mind that,
***“it’s overuse is harmful”***
and maintain a good time table for using the screen. I’m also addicted to my phone but former few years I have brought many variations in my timetable and now I think everyone should at least attempt to lessen the overuse of technology such as TVs and cell phones.
Reasons why teens and adults spend most of their waking hours on screen :
It is observed in most of the homes that people are connected with the whole world on the internet but they don’t know anything about the circumstances of a person living in his own house.
***Entertainment:***
Everyone loves to entertain themselves and media is the most reachable item to get entertained.
***Distancing from surrounding people:***
Sometimes people want to avoid others around them and want some space, this space is provided to them when they keep themselves involved on social media.
***Dating online:***
Online dating has become a very famous “try must” these days. Social media enables us to meet other singles, we check their accounts, go to their profile pictures, and have an impression about how they are on just one page.
***To gain Popularity:***
Everyone loves to click pretty pictures and post them on Instagram, then wait for the comebacks from their friends and family, even including me. After getting millions of likes you feel like an Instagram model.
***Access to the entire world:***
Internet or social- media gives us access to the world, we can engage with the people we never knew from around the world and we enjoy knowing them.
All these points enhance the use of social media more and more but you never know how harmful it is and how everyone is wasting their lives with these little things by using cell phones most of the waking hours.
Its effects on one's physical and mental health:
It is found that screen time not only affects your mental but physical health too. People wasting time on computers, cellphones or TVs complains about body aches, sitting for a longer time in front of a screen has also effects on your sitting posture.
Trouble in keeping your everyday routine.
It makes you more unfit.
https://bmcpublichealth.biomedcen
Going to bed without screens, 90% of the Americans stated in a survey that they don’t let their children use phones 30 minutes before sleeping time. One shouldn't use a phone before going to bed. What you can do instead of watching the screen, grab a storybook and read it. It won’t only keep your screen time-limited but also improves your vocabulary and make you fall asleep faster.
When you are working on the screen after every 20 minutes look away from it at distant objects for at least 20 seconds.
Avoid eating in front of the screen, it keeps you less focused on the food and this is the reason you eat more which then leads to obesity.
https://www.insider.com/how-does-social-media-affect-teenagers
As you being an adult are addicted to screen time, in the same manner, your children are also addicted to it. It doesn’t matter what the quality of screen time is, whether they are watching cartoons, movies, or playing games. What matters is the quantity they are using screen time.
How to make your children avoid more screen-time:
Give them extra time.
Keep them busy in extracurricular activities.
Make them stick to their time table.
Instead of playing games on phone make them play outdoor games.
Arrange parties for them at home with friends.
Take them to the cinema but only on Sundays.
Children younger than 5 years should use the screen limitedly and for educational purposes only.
https://bmcpublichealth.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/1471-2458-10-324
By reducing the quantify of the screen you use, can be a game-changer in your and your children's lifestyle. It will make you invest this time in any other activities.
Introduction
***Dear reader,***
I will keep my introduction momentary for my audience so that you don't get bore and I get good attention of yours to introduce the very "ME" of myself.
Hello this is Muniba , as it is my Introductory post so far you would have guessed it that I'm a newbie in read cash. I wanted to keep myself hooked to some healthy activity and it was very sweet of @Bibijani01 who suggested me writing articles on this amazing platform called read cash.
So, I will just shade a little light for you on who I am and what do I do to keep life going plus what are my hobbies.
I'm 19 year old university going student doing my International Relations, belong to Bannu which is in Khyber Pakhtunkhwa, Pakistan and a Pashto speaker.
I love to write read articles and it is because of my favourite writer Paulo Ceolho the very famous writer who got huge popularity from his master piece " The Alchemist "who I admire allot for my writing, his books Includes a wide range where one can experience different aspects of life and witness such characters that can play a vital role in changing your life.
He mentions in The Alchemist ;
***"It's the possibility of having a dream come true that makes life interesting"***
Deep to understand yet a very important quote.
Coming towards my dreams and hobbies, from my experiences I have made this quote
***"Dreams keeps changing as you age but hobbies sticks to you at every age"***
My dreams are also changing, when I was in my school I wanted to become a doctor later this dream turned into a nightmare for me after I saw my sister who is a doctor and was so busy in her every day life routine , I changed my mind in higher school and decided I will become a fashion designer but here I am ending up on doing International relations .. pretty crazy isn't it?
But the hobby remains the same, my love for writing has never ended, gardening, mediation, traveling and doing some DIYs which I always end up with huge fail Inspite of which I do more because it is a hobby that keeps me feel good and relaxed.
Now here I will add up some more interesting things that I'm up to these days, the most important one is that I'm a huge food lover which is why I even have even started my food blog where I review different cuisines offered in Pakistan.
I review restaurants, services and even places which some people find very helpful before going out for any date nights or family dinners.Other things that I do to keep myself socially active is working with some small agencies and volunteering. These includes keep " Clean and Green Pakistan " and other small groups of people that invest some of their time and work for the betterment of our country.
This was all I guess I would want my readers to know about me.
Very positive towards to write some amazing content for you people to keep you hooked to my blog posts.
My first article will be published soon...
@Muniba19
