Can I be your friend, I promise never to upset you, I will always do whatever you ask of me, I won't ever oppose your words rather your wish shall be my command. Never will I quarrel with you, our friendship will be smooth always and no trouble.
Is that that friendship?
The answer is no, that is pretence and in friendship nothing like that. Friends quarrel, they break up and make up. Being your friend doesn't mean we must agree always or laugh at every joke, no. We are different individuals that mean our opinions on things may differ and we may disagree on so many things but the bond of friendship will always keep us together even in our differences.
To be in good relationship with your friends you set boundaries, know when to withdraw. Although you are friends but never imply in your friend's personal life uninvited. When your opinion is not needed to respect that decision and stay clear, being friends doesn't mean you must cling.
Make out time to communicate effectively, two must agree before they can work together. You can't maintain a good relationship without communicating effectively, this means you speak and listen when being spoken too, then you contribute if need be. Criticise when necessary but never
Respect your friend and your friendship. There are things you are not suppose to say to people, never use offensive words on your friends, they may forgive you but will never forget your words.
Be transparent, friendship is all about being true to your friend. Let your friend know the real you, a good friend knows almost everything about you.
To the people that always encourage me @Dreamer and @Tunuu I appreciate so much.
Thank you so much!