Valentine and sex.

Like the story always goes,that he that found love found a good thing but this is not usually the truth to some extent as those who claim to love so many times do it out of peer pressure and maybe wanting to have that feeling that they belong without really knowing the value and tbt the reasons why they should stick to their so called lover of there life. In the olden days when the people living had a greater respect for love and held it in high esteem,this was so difficulty to come across then as the Valentine's message is clearly a product of the west or rather of the whitemen whom most often times there ways of life have being a bit out of the norm for the average african man. In those days when our ancestors still held tight to the culture and traditional beliefs of our people,you hardly heard anything about love and when you did,it was a genuine one,those who are eagerly ready to die for the one they claim they love and it's no longer obtainable in today's society where a woman professes love to multiply number of men and men on the other hand still go ahead to do same. Seems like the word love in the contemporary african countries is lost or rather is a scam,an avenue through which selfish and self centered people carry out there evil atrocities. Love is no longer feasible in today's africa, though it still exist but its existence is already a threath and on a daily it is going down as the average african man is so engrossed in looking for ways to better or make better his life and that of the people closer to him (his family)as the government of his country has failed him and then the ladies having been through a lot and because the african society raises women in such a way that their life has meaning and can only have meaning of their is a man in the ladies life as the are raised to be dependent on the man or guy who provides her with all her needs.

Now going back to the issue of Valentine,so many persons have failed to understand the reason behind this celebration,some have taken it upon themselves as a day to commit all sorts of atrocities and things not generally good to the ear except in the ears of their accomplices as accomplice as the case maybe. Now valentine is a day set aside to have fun with people who have nothing of their own, specifically those in mother Less babies homes,the aged,the down with too many sickness or disease,the downtrodden,the prisoners,those who are afflicted with one thing or the other,but here in Africa it has been turned into a day where the body is being traded which in most cases leads to regret and depression. So many ladies do go to have abortion after this celebration thereby killing thier babies and sometimes leading to their own death. You begin to see babies littered nine months from today on the streets,refused bin and some are kept where before they would be seen by the naked eyes they are already dead. People claim that this is a show of love but the same people are yet to understand the meaning of love,they claim it's a show of love but once the discover one abnormality in the side of their partner they move away with high speed. Now compare this unforseen love to the life our great grand fathers lived,a life where a lady is a virgin until at a rile age she is betrothed to a man who would in turn accept her as his wife,then the issue and campaign about infidelity was not much then or it was to the lowest minimum if there was something of such. But in today's world people who preach this same love and other things are yet the ones who go about destroying everything,they are the ones who go about breaking the heart of people and so many other evil vices.

To those in dire need of the truth,those in africa who are really after true love,don't you think its high time we returned to the ways of our fore fathers,as there life revolved around love, cheating as rampant as it is in today's world wasn't like that,people held steadfastness to their lovers which is reverse today. Is this not the right time to move back to our culture and traditional beliefs Africa?