Why we end up making mistake in entering a relationship?

Is this a lesson that we always need to learn? Why we end up again this way, just like what happen before? A lot of countries have the DIVORCE LAW to separate. How about PHILIPPINES? You end up being imprisoned, some other people just stays to sacrifice.

Why we loved and unloved someone? Starts with affection and enjoying each other company. Making your heart to stay and decide to be with that someone as you think it is forever. Making you sacrifice and do all the things that you haven't ever done before. You've change all your fashion, routine and sometimes avoiding some peers because your in a relationship. Then one day, you'll be waking up with tears. Because after all that you've done, still you are hurt. Different feeling because you're hurt with the someone you have loved. Is that the chance that you will unloved a person? No! Because you will still giving a chance. Not just only a chance for that someone, but also a chance for yourself because you have given a lot, because you have spend all your life, all your time and all your energy. That's why your still giving a chance for the relationship, to survive what you've had, to revive what you have started, to continue the decision you have made before because you expect that the relationship will last forever, not forever but until your still alive.

Is this also the feeling you have when your on the stage that you already want to let go?

But still you can't? Because your thinking how to start again. How your family will react. How gossips will come around and how will your life goes again. Will you stay single? Will you love someone again? A lot of things will enter your mind and as your tears fall you will get tired. Until you get overthink everything. And how you wish that you shouldn't entered this kind of relationship anymore.

Why? Did it not made you happy?

Yes, it marks a lot of happines in life. And that's the remaining reason of staying. What's left is all the memories that your remeniscing. Because your expecting to repeat itself. At the back of your mind you wish that everything you have loved before come back again and stays the same. Yes! That someone is still there but you didn't know why they changed ( a lot ) sometimes it comes to the point that you never know him/her anymore. Your sleeping beside that someone in a bed without feelings anymore.

Time go by, your used to be with that someone casually. Casual? Your together but never show affection to each other.

Some people tell that it is usual. Sweetness will fade. Laughters will gone You will talk about serious matters only. Seen each other normally. No special occasions and no appreciation.

No one wished this kind of relationship. Because even we're old enough we still want to be happy. No one deserves to be end up this way. That's why we need to be strong. MISTAKES are part of life. We need to accept ot even we made mistakes so many times. Mistakes may bring you down, but in the end it will lift you up, this is a recipe for you to be strong enough to face the world again after everything you been through.

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@Kisses22 posted 3 years ago

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