I’m Getting Married
***What is the age recommended for marriage, and I'm so curios to know your answer?"***
This was a dilemma with a friend.. here's what she said "I don't know about marriage and I don't know about kids either, seems like an egotistical pursuit masquerading as something so noble. I do like the idea of doing amazing things with awesome people, maybe I'm just tripping but family just seems average and I don't really see any thing in marriage and commitment"
I understand why some people don't agree with the idea of marriage and having a family and all of that coz I think everyone is entitled to their own desires.. but to me being a firm believer in marriage, was because I was fortunate enough to have both parent for some time although my dad's late now. My mom got married when she was 21 and my dad was 27 and so they got married at a young age. When you see that happen and grow up in that situation seeing them overcome any obstacles together of course you're going to believe in the idea of marriage..
But then she says she has a good family and don't believe in that idea of marriage, here's my opinion... she must have had curiosities about those other things and for her to say nothing can ever lead her into having a long term connection but yet she talked about so much on personal desires.. There's nothing deep and meaningful about those things that was listed, there's nothing deep and meaningful about life itself.. then at the time I was thinking I about it, I actually felt like being in one to have the experience so quickly..
We kinda do what's beneficial to us, you want to see your legacy live on through your kids.. at the same time would anyone say a marriage is a bad thing based on this points. We kept on arguing all day and I was like for every step to be amongst a family we are trying to build some thing that will out live us regardless of how we feel about it at that very moment..
Here's my philosophy, I think that love does exist and it's worth the wait.. of I had gotten love at this age, I wouldn't been ready for it and I wouldn't be able to process it correctly and it currently would have broken me because I am not ready for, we must be in tune with ourselves first before we find a match outside ourselves.. then someone out there sees you and gets attracted to you and you're also going to be aware of the people in tune with you.
So you're getting more opportunities and becoming more observant of those opportunities to be loved and love some one else.. we must keep working on ourselves and this is to everyone out there feeling lonely or having a negative feeling about marriage, keep doing what you do and dont stop working on yourself. This message still speaks for you to take all those love you want to give to somebody else that don't deserve you and give that to yourself instead..
When you do find a partner that is in tune with you and also with themselves, you can enjoy having the best moment together... I ended it all with finding someone who makes you pause for a while, in that process you feel something then I agreed within me that she's never felt something like this before and really don't know what love is yet..
***So I'm asking a general question, "Should love be a scam or a joke?"***
What would you say about her opinion towards having a commitment and connection between two people… she wasn’t accepting all the facts thrown on this argument. It’s personal and if anyone decides something it should be generally tagged to everyone.. when I ask her why exactly did she say something like that, there was no reason from her..
I know I sort of changed the idea of me getting married, so sorry I’m not doing that yet and you may just be the one I’m searching for..
Thank you for reading… I love you all. Two days left for 2021 to be over, I’m more excited for the new year..
***December 29th 2021***
Someone Walked Up To Me And Gave Me A Million Bucks
**My 2022 fantasies just began..can I get an Amen to this…**
The reason why I like to write something like this is because they serve as receipts and as undeniable truths that the best we haven't seen is about to happen and we are getting to place a beyond our wildest dreams.. How I felt that something big was about to happen was pretty much few days back, I didn't know what the thing was and what that feeling was pertaining.. could it be a writing sussess or if there was some sort of opportunity that would present itself to me at that time but I had the feeling and it felt so strong that I had to put this up together. This is to proove that how you construct a building to be is what you'll get at the end of the duration of work.
It wasn't just me reflecting on something that had already happened, it was me saying I feel like this is about to happen and guess what" It was all my forecast into success and one door will lead to another for the coming year, the feeling is strong and I believe everything will work out if you keep trusting the process. This major thing will bring abundance into my life and if you believe speak it into the atmosphere.
I believe that I'm about to make like a lot of money and I don't know where it's going to come from but the logical source would be may be some one walks up to me on the street and blesses me with a million bucks and much more, I do not know.. But what I do know is that it's December 28 at the moment and by the end of posting this, I could already have that money or maybe the process is in progress but I feel it knocking at my door waiting for me to open up..
Maybe you all feel this too but I want to explain how I probably think differently and the sign that's so compelling.. The main thing I do is to start my day or my week and month to give and you know there’s a secret to receiving which is giving.. I was talking with my friend recently and we could relate on how our giving had changed ever since we knew read.cash.. more like I could walk into a restaurant and just leave behind a huge tip, that could be regarded as something else but to me was a thing of joy.. So I feel the urge to give out and maybe that's a sign that I might attain all of that in the coming year..
All of that happens with no apprehension whatsoever and I try to give out more coz my gut tells me about the millions ahead of me, that's literally crazy.. It doesn't necessarily come across as being logical because I don't have that much to give, i'm not rich yet but I feel i'm getting there.. it's all relative, and might be just a fantasy and might just be real.
Take on a leap of faith within yourself, its not that you would tell anybody out there that you are rich.. even if I walk through the valley of the shadow of death I fear no evil" keep believing and elevating your thinking. If you don't confidently speak good things into your life or make a step that will transform what is it you do presently, you will leave that spot you stand in..
If you've sown in 2021, you will reap bountifully in 2022.. you can't change that from happening, so why worry or why do you still weep. As I believe in millions coming over, you could be expecting a job or a visa or a change of apartment, eveyone has a separate desire.. you could even be looking out to grab 1 billion floating in the air.. Nonetheless, its your time and season to enter into your land filled with milk and honey..
*I felt this way when I knew I was dreaming too big,*
Sometimes our expectation’s could cause problems when we’re in a haste to grab them.. Every work you did in the previous year led to you being where you are now and every work you do hence forth will have its wings spread to the new year.. When you walk with that at the back of your mind, you have won.. Be brave, be more into what you do, work hard and allow no room for laziness.. after you’ve become so happy with what is ahead, you can start developing your self to reach the goal..
Thank you for reading… I love you all and may all your wish come true..
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*****December 28th 2021*****
I Have Absolutely Zero Friends
Don't get me wrong but I simply recognise that even though one should be secure within themselves and be comfortable being alone and be comfortable doing by themselves, we're in this earth with people for a reason. If you where meant to spend your entirety alone other people won't exist, I wouldn't have friends here to share my content with, I would have other people share my experiences with, I wouldn't have people to uplift me when I'm at my lowest points and I wouldn't be where I am today.
So while you make friends, maybe quality friends.. friends that will elevate in your life. If you feel like you have trouble approaching people one thing you have to do and you can do is to be yourself..you will be surrounded by a bunch is people that you don't click with and there's nothing worse than being with a lot of people that make you feel lonely when you"re with them. That is the worst feeling, its much better for me to be alone than to be around people that make me feel lonely. Just because I'm alone dosent mean I have to feel lonely but when I feel isolated is one of the worst feeling ever..
I have to learn to be confident is who I am and the principle that I at and for and not that I'm trying to enforce my principle upon every one else but at the same you and I have to be secure within who we are and at the same time maintaining an open mind. I've had some of the most intellectual conversation with my friends and naturally don't even feel compelled to talk to them if I were discriminating based on that but when I put all of that aside I can find authentic connection..
Focus more on the connection with the people you have around you, coz at the end of the day all we really want in friendship is to be understood and that's why we are social by nature.. we need some interactions to maintain our sanity and avoid going crazy sometimes. People need to feel understood and having a validation and so we desire to be around someone..
I was bluffing from the start, I do have friends and I have very few amazing people that I can solidly call my friends.. even right here on read.cash. Put all those internal self obstacles away, your friends will love you just the way you are.. All under the assumption that you didn't do something toxic, but there are times when people need to be cut off and not you being a and friend but you've got to work on yourself to discover what the problem is.. But those kind of people do not belong in your life and when people leave your life is when the universe gives room for more people in your life..
You can have just one friend who means the world to you, that's the prettiest thing ever make sure you keep that person.. I guess I pretty much made a click bait.. I'm going to give you a very good indicator that somebody no longer belong in your life and it's time to cut somebody off.. when all your conversion revolves about your past, then next is when you don't benefit from that person any more and there's no conversion to be built anymore. You're not obligated to put your energy on anybody that don't value you, save it for people that matter..
I had to place some people in my life in some category, people I don’t talk to anymore like from my high school won’t be what I stress on everyday.. Another indicator should be when you’re always the one asking about the person and you’re not even called when bad things happens to you. The love should be reciprocated and not one sided…
I’m grateful for what this community has done and has created for over a year… The friendships built and the trust as well… So I don’t have zero friends, I have 390+ friends..
Thank you for reading, Have a lovely Tuesday… and thanks to everyone that renewed your sponsorship, it means a lot to me.
***December 28th 2021***
2021; My Biggest Growth Year
What if I told you that I got close to having everything I ever wanted and I was still miserable.. I want you all to imagine, if you got everything like literally every single you ever wanted in life whether that be money, success, a relationship with a beautiful girl, think about all of the things that you want or that you think that you want and imagine getting those things and still feeling empty inside.
That is the most depressing feeling you've ever experience in your life and i'm speaking from experience.. you see I've been through depression at the second quarter of the year coz nothing can be worse than the feeling of getting everything that you wanted and still not being content, still not being okay with where you are and who you are.. that is the worst feeling you can ever have.
If you've been following me for quite sometime here, this was my biggest growth year ever, I was close to having my first relationship; you heard this from me, I basically quadrupled the amount I had at the start of the year and I received way more money than I've ever received in my entire life.. don't get me wrong, all of the money made from here was used for a lot of things in every aspect of my life, not to be proud or anything but I still sort of felt that I didn't get to any length...
I know I felt like the universe was completely against me, notwithstanding that was my fault. How could I be deceived into doing what I had agreed with, it was all me and my perception was too reliant of things outside of me. I was looking to external things and it sounds twisted, **How much money do I make?" How I look and how I would fit in with no money?" What will people say of me after spending all my money on things that don't matter?"** Seeing my success on certain areas still made me question everything in my life.. My level of growth would be the moment I stepped into something I have never witnessed before and that became my happiness outside of myself.
There are a lot like me that will learn things on our own, I was one of those people and I admit it.. I was never appreciative and satisfied and grateful for where I was on my journey and then I lost the feeling of joy and happiness.. This year taught me a lesson, my mindset started to feel filled up when I got to start writing on read.cash.. everything changed, the Grace was that I could make myself happy by telling my story. Nobody never knew I had lost all my money and it was a depressing feeling, but fulfilment isn't all about money.. I could visualise my life changing and getting fixed more like healing as I became happy with the new things that came along the way..
I was scared, it made me succumb to a lot of things and when I learnt it the hard way...I started all over and I was able to constantly do what I was doing and I never took anything for granted anymore.. I chased the bag like how every one would pick up a batten and just keep running till we meet the next person and so is that person till another person is visible enough.. It wasn't easy at home either, things got worse and it brought me to tears. The things I never wanted happen, happened to teach me a lesson. If you want to have it all quick, you will loose not just your money but your sanity.. I was scammed, I was talked into what I don't even understand, I trusted people to the point that they took the little I had left on me..
Nobody cares about your insecurities, like everyone is more focused about theirs and if you keep falling out of whatsoever feeling, you have the character in you to calm down. If after you've been hit, let it be growth for you. One thing I realized is I thought people will say to me "This guy is stupid and so easy" but I was only insecure in my head and was limiting myself from breaking out of that.. So everything in 2021 was a stepping stone for me and I got to be better cause I listened and followed instructions.. it's not that I am that rich now or filthy rich with a lot but I am so pleased with where I am now. I was scared, I was depressed, I was lost, I lost the focus.. when I noticed that no one cares and then I acknowledged it, made me better.
For me 2021 will remain the year that made the most savings, it’s going to be a year from my past though that I knew so many things and learned new skills for the people I met online and my close pals.. ***What could yours be?” Do you feel the same about 2021 like I do?”*** These are just the good sides of things, the same year brought challenges like tough ones seriously. The first year I attended an online class 😅, let me not go close into detail to how hilarious that was..
The year is almost over and this is my best and worst part of the year and I hope and pray that 2022 will be better than all my preceding years..
Thank you for reading till this point, you are one of the very few that still appreciate my funny and weird writing.. I’m sure your Boxing Day went great. For me I sent a little token out to some friends, and it made them happy..
Happy new year in advance…
**December 26th 2021**
Christmas Day; Something To Tell
If there's one thing that 20 years on this earth has taught me is that nobody knows anything, nobody knows what they are talking about, nobody knows what they are doing, it's mostly fake it till you eventually make it. But the truth is nobody ever makes it, even after a goal is achieved a new one literally comes up instantly.. the more you learn about life, the more you realize you know absolutely nothing about life.
People can only speak from the scope of their experiences or their observations about life, and those observations are ran through multiple filters that are subconsciously influenced by their experiences thus they may seem biased.. So please do you, be yourself, make this life the way you want to make it, and do what you want to do in life.
Me and a friend went to the movies to see spider man no way home and I had something in my mind then I asked him.. it was a funny question I was like "What if we went inside this room or movue theatre where this movie is to be viewed and we both watched a movie that we paid with our hard earned money and all the movie consisted of was the opening scene and the resolution, no conflict and nothing else what would you do?" He is always a friend that likes to go the extra mile while explaining something to me, and then he paused and laughed and said that movie will be completely terrible.
But I gave him a different meaning to it, We have to learn to embrace the conflicts in our lives. Because without conflict, there's no lessons to be learnt and without those lessons to be learnt there's automatically no growth at all and with no growth there's no expansion. Therefore you'd have no room to accommodate the life that you desire.. For every win in life you have to go through some adversity, not that you have to enjoy the process but learn to embrace it.
We will get there when we get into our purpose, just months ago I was completely lost and lacked the tools I needed internally but in months after all of that I found my why and the passion and confidence to back it up.. Sometime I think about how far I've come since I was 16 and I think about how far I can go 5 years from now when I'm 28.
My dreams are so big and I can't comprehend how huge they are and I don't soend time visualising what my life like in 5 years coz what I've realised is that it's probably so big that I can't fully conjure up the life I'll be living and what I'll be doing and the abundance that will be flowing my way, because at a younger I could never have visualized what I do now and what i have achieved in 6 months from the start of 2021.
Maybe what we actually put out here can also be an impact on somebody else life and it does a transformation from our story and maybe seen how far I've gotten.. what is the source of what you feel, read.cash is a stepping stone to Some thing amazing.. it's limitless the number of opportunity, you don't get to achieve that else where. So for something that has an unlimited potential long term we should never take that for granted. To eveyone that has a big picture of life, without a piece in it it is never complete... so instead of knocking your self over severaly embrace who you are and find more of yourself. Abundance will find you and I because we are the very abundance that we seek. This is my practical analysis, when you fit a puzzle together you don't have a collection of pieces but you have what is formed by the pieces.
There are a lot of great things flying my way recently, be free to do whatever you want.. inspire if you want to, teach if you want to, lead if you want to, success is scary but you'll grow soon to receive everything as long as you crave for it.. I'm no longer trying to become my best self, long story short I am my best self already and my Christmas has been amazing coz I feel at peace knowing fully well of how I feel towards myself.
Today I had to buy a little above my groceries and added cakes and creams.. it’s a day to celebrate and be happy.. so my first course was fried rice and chicken well garnished with wine… for my second snack I grabbed some ice cream along with pizza and my third snack was chocolate and cake… “How was Christmas wherever you are right now in the world?”
There was the presence of family and friends who came to have fun with us, past the timing we talked about opening accounts here on read and noise too. They’ve seen most of my portfolio, it doesn’t look unreal anymore.. now it’s late and i will have something light for dinner while I enjoy some content… I had to feed you all my crazy day of eating..
Thank you for staying with me, I hope you learnt something from this.. the first lesson was based on enjoying the moment and avoid overthinking, the next lesson is accepting that there will be something unique about everything and we become better after we must have passed through them.. The final lesson, avoid carrying a lot of weight… don’t start thinking of 10-20 years from now when you haven’t even started anything presently.. and lastly enjoy Christmas..
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and to everyone not mentioned merry Christmas.. you’re also amazing.
23 And Lonely; Should That Count As Freedom?”
This is what i tell myself "Loneliness is freedom" A lot of people like me want companionship but we don't realize that companionship comes with attachments and with attachments comes with the loss of freedom, the fact that i'm lonely now means I have the opportunity and freedom in the world to do what I want to do and be who I want to be and talk to who I want to talk to and do the things I want to do to live my best life, I must take advantage of that and be grateful...
But right now I literally feel something is missing, and my whole Christmas wouldn't be complete without that thing found.. I guess I'm reacting based on several other things, but in some other aspect I still feel happy and comfortable all by myself.. There's still enough time ahead of me to dwell on something like this or maybe I just need to have the moment right now to be at peace with myself.
But this is how I conquer this with just one question to myself "How am I feeling right now?" A lot of us are so caught up in the way that other people perceive us and we take into account people's opinion about us, and this is how depression starts cause we lose sight of how we feel.. not just that, this is how anxiety starts and this is how negative self talk starts and we become too focused on what people say about us but in reality they aren't thinking about you but their own problem and if it's the other way they don't have anything going on in their lives that they put so much attention in ruining yours..
Some people like me are going to have to learn this the hard way, but when we realize that true joy and happiness is found by changing our believe systems and thought routine and changing the main course.. You and I can have all the time in the world chasing after the crazy sides of ourselves, having everything I desire but it's a decision we would have to make… “Does it worth it?” Do we know what we seek and desire for?” After temporary satisfaction, what next?”
Loneliness isn't a bad thing afterall because we don't have it all doesn't mean we don't live happy, maybe I was feeling too insecure, or just seeing people around me and feeling envious of what they have that I see in the open.. but instead of learning things the hard way why don't I exclude myself from that feeling.. I think I'm running too fast and i need to slow down, I may have all of that but if the main goal of staying in that relationship is to satisfy my personal needs then I don't need to be in anyone..
I really wouldn’t find true love out there because of my intentions, I need validation out there to prove that I can do this and I still would get along. But I need to be confident and much more secure with myself, maybe I just need something comforting and this eve of Christmas feels a lot different to me.. I know a lot of people will tell me that I’m in a paradox and to know if I’m worthy of love. Send your comments in, let me get to know your thoughts towards this..
This is a message to everyone in the same position. If you really wanted Someone, well it's so easy.. you could be in the gym faking like you’re doing a squat or push up.. but we ain't willing to do all of that and the reason is because it's not worth it but under the pressure of listening to what everybody is saying to you.
But most of the time people will just say stuffs and not thinking about the implications or repercussions of what they are saying, they just say it and it feels literally like a conversation and if you try to confront them about that they'll be like "I was joking and I never knew you took it personal" But it already happened..
You know what i just did, I made my loneliness a lesson to others making myself completely elevated and motivated.. this is already a message, the fine boy mentality though.. wanting to get all the attention..
This is where I’ll put a stop to this, everything has its time and season… Merry Christmas dear friends..
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***December 25th 2021***
“What’s your Daily Trend In 2022?” Program Your Mind
*When you're driving down the road, you see some sign post at the sides of the street.. You're not supposed to read the bill boards as you drive. At the corner of your eye you still see them and cautiously your eye picks up on the advertisement, let's say a branding or a product placement.. take for instance you see a restaurant, and two days later you're hungry and you immediately remember and you go there to eat. You really don't see the connection but the people in charge of the marketing see the connection.. it's basic psychology playing out, just like you can be programmed to patronize them is the same way you can program your mind.*
What we feed ourselves with is what we are entitled to, and it become a constant thing in our lives.. So the best way to approach a lifestyle in 2022 is never to go wrong with our decisions. Let your regular and standard way of living be based on appreciating who you are first, you must literally do this all the time. Followed by a new road path, if that's what you want to do daily there must be a plan.
I was having a brief discussion with a friend that recently came back from school, and he said to me "Brother do you know we could be different this coming year, what if we pick up a book and a pen and then draw a map which will guide us through from January to December" He was so concerned and I knew the direction he was headed. The main idea is to avoid mistakes and to walk with a solid direction that will be good after doing them continuously.
To anyone lacking confidence, you are enough, you are deserving of the abundance that is knocking at your door, you are deserving of unconditional love every morning you are some of a kind, you have a unique trait that define your character and the lack of confidence is relative to anyone else in your life.. You can always be you and kick off any form weaknesses that places a huge role in your strength.. If you can expand that light across to the world them you're still living a shadow..
This is just a little composure put together to make you smile, how you can keep maintaining a daily trend is to regain confidence, when you have that in you.. you are bold to take on any task without being afraid, you can shine in your job, in your home and every place you find yourself. We all say some time in the past that we want to be a doctor or a lawyer or a pharmacist but as time goes by feelings change, then the system programmed us to choose from a pool of other courses. And then you never stopped because you became in love with the process.
I know this all sounds weird, if you don't like what you do and it seems forced.. please that's not the place for you in 2022, everything that concerns you is for you to decide and not someone else. When something you do becomes a part of you, it's hard to let go.. So we must start early to do what we love, and let it become a habit. Let your trend start with your habits, don't follow anyone's style become you may regret it at the fourth quarter of the year that you literally struggled for nothing..
Don't do excess of anything, try to balance them. Let light and love guide you to your perfect vision for 2022, don't look back to the trends of 2021 it was bloody.. The times when you exhibited a side of you that you're not for a while week or you have a similar character to an Artiste and that was it for you..
It's one more day till the Christmas celebration and 7 days left to the new year, please program yourself and be ready for another 12 months of being yourself and following your trend the way that makes you happy.
Thank you for reading, God help me as we alternate differently. It takes grace to succeed, we don’t know what’s in the new year but we are ready to work on ourselves.. I still remain your faithful writer.
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/December 23, 2021/
Myth;Cryptocurrencies Are Used For Illegal Activities.. How On Earth Is That Possible
*****It’s not a good idea to commit crimes with cryptocurrency, immediately you have a weak link in your operational security all your history is now exposed. It’s not just traceable and easy to control, it’s much more trivial to trace these things..*****
This is going to debunk most problems that exists, **“How do you see or visualize cryptocurrency generally?”** A figment of what is used only by drug dealers, money launderers and maybe some more criminals. **“Do you believe it’s the greatest scam the world has ever seen or heard of?”** Sure that’s what we all hear and it gets worse. We can confirm this that from years back compared till this point it is a lot less because most people irrespective of the name realize how ridiculous it may be, but there are millions or billions of others who still believe it.
Firstly saying it’s only used by criminals would mean 100 percent of all transactions are illicit but don’t we all know it’s the opposite sides, where not one transaction on the blockchain should be considered as being illicit. Secondly, How will people bank on performing illegal transactions over a network that saves every transactions forever, inevitably the blockchain has been built over for that purpose so it’s not the smartest move or decision to take.
There will be an exposure to whomever it is, planning a coup to this function. You don’t disengage an activity, saying cryptocurrency is illegal is not the problem but trying to believe that all function based programs can be pulled down by just a singular act is more like saying all mobile carriers can be shut down because someone used a cellphone to channel money somewhere. The goal is to change the structure, to make criminal mindset towards incentives less attractive.
Bitcoin and it’s counterpart’s can’t suddenly fade away when it becomes an instrument or a device to engage in the wrong path, it will retain what it is for years to come. It can actually be a force for peace and freedom, and the good sides always outweigh and knock off the bad.. it must depend on what it’s main usage is for and based within a controlled asset, not just for any form of criminal actions. Take note on what aspect all of this really comes into play, on a more comprehensive note I will like to ask everyone **“What have you used your crypto earnings for, right from when you started earning on these two platforms (read.cash and noise.cash) or any other channel?”**
If anyone has what it takes to pull of a breakthrough or a heist within the system, have it in mind that no one gets past a specific barrier. You are being monitored and every activity altered leads back to the main link. The mistake most people fail to understand before now is that, high crypto based project have public ledgers that can be seen and eventually that person will be caught. No transaction is anonymous to a main user, because everything is booked into a public ledger.
There will be many more cryptocurrencies that will exists months and years from today and maybe Bitcoin itself can be used for payment as a store of value.. So basically we can see a lot of public establishments and no one would want to take the back sides.. So therefore, there are still people or group of people who are still using and have made use these opportunities for good and not bad.
For everything good in life, it always has something trying to pull it down or spoil its reputation even when it’s so tight to do so.. Then I practically ask myself “why try so hard to successfully take down a chain when we can just do things normally like everyone else..
Can we all try to perform this thing together and let’s see if we will get caught… this could be me trying to bring everything all up in my head to life…where do we all start from;
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***“let’s say we planned how to divert certain funds of people separately into a wired source and we all agreed to move out a total of $2m. After days of working tirelessly, we had a full team with several jobs allocated.. and after the first one was gone and successfully placed in the right destination we felt pleased with ourselves. And we began moving the second, third and fourth from four individuals respectively.. in our minds there’s no one monitoring but whilst we where about celebrating our victory, we noticed a change in the coding system and all that was moved where traced back to the wired source… it’s not even making sense at all, that this could even be thought of..”*** https://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=https%3A%2F%2Ffossbytes.com%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2F2015%2F07%2Fcyber-criminals-stealing-money.jpg&imgrefurl=https%3A%2F%2Ffossbytes.com%2Fhow-do-cyber-criminals-steal-your-money%2F&tbnid=fptscS-pXBhgWM&vet=12ahUKEwiR7Nu7wPj0AhUS_RoKHZeFBnYQMygAegUIARDBAQ..i&docid=M3W7I-f8mE_25M&w=715&h=551&itg=1&q=cyber%20stealing&hl=en&client=safari&ved=2ahUKEwiR7Nu7wPj0AhUS_RoKHZeFBnYQMygAegUIARDBAQ
I really do hope I have said a few back stories to support my point of view… this isn’t a financial advice whatsoever, pease learn to DYOR if you have to.. we can’t take off the intention of anyone towards a criminal act, but it’s simply a waste of time and energy on what is impossible to do.. There will be rug pull, we can see that happen in recent times but most of these things happen when a system isn’t decentralized… I believe we must conduct a research on where we place our money and bet on..
slp address:
simpleledger:qpwnqc4skmkm8uterwfkzyuyn986dd7qau7fgcgk0p
Smartbch wallet:
0x3c13dC5662d437de2a4102dA3B00A8f57d5e1E20
***December 2021***
“Think Before You Place Your Bet… Love series”
Nobody seems to know what they want out of a situation much less a partner and that's a problem because when a bunch of people coming together and nobody knows what they want, here's what ends up happening; hookup culture, casual dating, you have people walking around with all this trauma that they refuse to heal from, because they have so many options that they really don't know how to spend time with themselves.
They rely solely on the valuation of other people, so what I would say is this.. The first step towards fixing the dating world is for people to figure out what they actually desire.. So this is what I realized within myself as well coz I'm not perfect and why would I commit to any girl if I'm not even sure why I am with them. I want to preference this by saying this "I am not necessary looking for a relationship right now, but if I find a girl that I cannot pass up on I will take that opportunity and I will run with it.” When I mean that is when attraction is in two different direction; understanding and physical attraction..
Both are pretty much equally important, maybe 60/40 percent.. I've not been in so many relationships but I like to prepare my mind towards that and maybe this is what every one needs; connection, control and compatibility.. **How do you get satisfied or satisfaction with who you're with now?"** Connection is probably the most important portion of understanding, it is much more deeper than a common interest..
A connection is some thing only experienced that builds from within after knowing that person for a while.. it is very rare, if you've felt it then you know it happens maybe once in a life time.. Then the rest is solidly on control and compatibility..
My point is that, it is better to have someone that flows with you or have things in common with you, so you wouldn't have to develop those things.. You can have every physical attraction to this person, you'll know where I'm driving towards but there's something that may be missing from you both and you must fix that prior before a lasting commitment..
**What do I want of a partner?"** When I think of a partner i think of somebody that i'm looking to spend the rest of my life with which I know most 23 year olds don't necessarily see things the same way but that's exactly where I'm at in my life coz I see things differently.. I've definitely considered the idea of dating high up in age, so it's basically us having a connection.. yes you read this right 😊
What lessons can I derive with this, build future goals, if you don't know what it takes to be in a relationship stay away for now.. compatibility subdues fear and doubts, of the person you reach out to fulfills everything on here why the wait when you don't have to miss out an opportunity for a life time..
You really don’t need a validation for love to take place, it’s a season of love and time for you to make the approach… One good thing about dating is the process of learning, so many things doesn’t play right at first instances but with the best meet up you feel more relaxed and more open..
This is the third love series… thank you for reading through and I love you all so much..
I’m so grateful to @Bloghound @Eylz2021 for renewing your sponsorship.. God bless you..
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December 2021..
Putting You On To My Favorite Book (2021)
**T**o anyone going through depression right now, I just want to start this writeup by saying you are not alone. I know what it feels like to be depressed or isolating it can feel truly understand you. If you're surrounded by people that have never experienced depression and you don't know who to turn to, well this is for you and I want you to overcome those internal obstacle cause that's what depression is all about.
**D**epression is a void, it is a lack and there something within you that is missing and maybe you're trying to fill that void with superficial or surface level things, a lot of people think that money or success can cure depression, a lot of people think that relationship can cure it.. Your ability to cure your depression is not contingent on anything outside of you, it is solely on you to make that decision for yourself.
**F**irst off, embrace where you are right now and understand that it will get better, you will go in deep and the most darkest place you become so scared of making it alive. But it's a little less scary when you have some type of guidance.
**Y**ou have to be aware that there's a void that needs to be filled up, give up on any baggage that wouldn't allow you grow because when you stagnate that could even lead to depression in itself. When you know you are much capable than where you are right now, it seems to you that you are a big failure,m and you really don't navigate properly. But hold on! What if you are the thing that's missing, and there are a lot of yourself you still need to introduce yourself to..
**E**mbrace yourself, it's fine to say to yourself that you feel depressed coz that's when you know you are and it's time to find acceptance. Then you can start moving to a different direction, the most beneficial direction is to immediately seek help it assistance to break the little feelings left in you.. The best way to solve these problem is to put the problem in a better hand that could solve it and your daily lives can change... You can build love and happiness again, anything you say to people about the reasons for being the way you are remains with that person so please don't be shy or constraint to do that..
**I**nvest in yourself in 2022, because if you don't it's going to be same... happiness is missing, joy is missing from the picture. I had a friend who was at the brink of ending his life at 18, he felt like death was better than life and quite funny though he doesn't know what is after death.. You and I can help in our speech, in our advice and our approach towards these people.
**L**ove yourself, turning your feelings to meaning... You must make room for one to exists, its more like when you worship the human brain experiment conducted proper that worrying cannot dwell when the mind is focused on worship.. This happens when you feel that void with love and you'll be good. It dosent happen overnight, it may take days or weeks to fully get back to the usual coz you love yourself. Once you find yourself, try not to go back. If you can get off this, you can lead some people out too.. The more you do that the better you become as well.
This is ‘**love series’ second edition** and a matter of peace within. Let it be the real you that we see and not someone who is lost in space.. The community cares for you and the world still cares, maybe just few people regardless you'll be fine.
Thank you for staying with me till the end, I believe this has been able to make you smile just a bit and even as you make up your mind to fight through this will be your season to be completely free. Anybody can be faced with this, and even leads to much more dangerous act…. Before you get soaked in, make an impact “**do not allow your situation to define you but be your own high definition..”**
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***December 2021***
The Season Of Love Series
There's one thing I learned from 2021 and that is you have to get to the place where you can address the root because a lot of times we hang and dwell on the surface. What I mean by this is really identifying those pain points in your life and looking at the events that has happened in your life that changed who you where and that's plays a part of who you are today.
When you identify those things and dig up the root, and you get to look at it and you get to see and then you're able to say boldly that this happened to me or I saw this happen and that thought me this or that made me feel this or from that I then did this or I belive this about myself and that led to this and that led to this and then now today I am this.. Are you operating from a place of insecurity, scarcity, fear, self hate, limitations, struggle with your emotions and identity. When you see what shapes you, you can identity where the grind comes from..
Now you can see why you behave this way, maybe you are more pessimistic or more aggressive or more unaware of your self, or more disrespectful or more envious, where it all comes from.
***Why am I with this attitude? Why am I wanting for more and not being me? Why am I this toxic even to my close relation?"***
This year I actually give a lot, even when I don't have that much, but I can't stop myself from doing that.. more like giving too much, but you know how people will expect more after you've given.. what's the root to that, wanting to be loved and appreciated or recognised for being a giver and then maybe I should just give irrespective of what my intentions where..
Where I'm driving towards is for me to stop trying to have the questionable fame and just be me, and if that's how you've started anything constant about you.. check if that is the true intention, are you doing that because you want to or because you want to please others and show off what not.
You would want to be significant, but you've never tapped into your purpose or better living your purpose.. The place you operate from maybe detrimental to your life or hindering your blessings, don't get overwhelmed with what you can get but your happiness. That will eat you up deeply and trust me, there's no progress in that. This coming year should be a revamped you, when you should decide from a stand point to be free, don't do things just to get the glory from friends or family.
You can walk away from all those things, it makes you worried and it's not even good health wise to always seek competition out of nothing. Not saying you shouldn't help when you want to or do several other things out of your jurisdiction, but you will keep doing that with a different mindset which could be dangerous.. Please be yourself, everything will fall in place, do it out of real love.. bless others because you truly feel some thing, don't let it be forced and don't stop being the nicest person the world has ever known even when nobody says it to your face..
We have to learn control, sometimes it shows so much when we do something good that we need to be praised or appreciated.. You may not see all of that happen but deep down you’ve made so many people happy and blessed.. there’s a bigger blessing that awaits a giver and like I will always mention in the past, “A giver is always a receiver” nobody can change that..
`This is a season of Love and we have to show unconditional love to everyone who mean a lot to us and that should extend to not just them but to other as well.. it’s 6 days to Christmas, what gifts do you want to get.. I believe good things still happen and you’re going to be among the few ones to receive good gifts..`
Merry Christmas in advance.. and this is my little gift for the first lucky viewer..
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***December 2021***
How About You Downgrade before you upgrade
Growth is hard and sometimes we’ve got to take a step backwards before we can take it forward.. with each time you get hit hard, I’ll be honest with you, you can’t be less of the expectation but rather go get it grind, sacrifice, go the extra mile type of person.. When you take these steps backwards, before you take steps forward it’s going to hurt and you might have to downgrade. You might have to move in with a friend or a family member because it’s a lesson to be learnt.
If you keep getting in the way of what God is trying to do he’s going to pull back from you coz you’re not letting him in to do what he has to do for you.. you have to forfeit something on your life to let God through, it’s normal to want the blessing without doing nothing at all.. Obedience is sacrifice and if your spirit tells you something do not neglect that. It may just be an act of good that makes ways for you or just a selfless act that gets you to that position..
Some of us struggle, like yesterday I was reflecting on my achievements for the year and was saying to myself that this has been my hardest year in my entire adult life and it is all so that I can catapult next year into the direction in life that I want to be in… then it struck me, what if I’m standing in the way of Lord and I just need to drift away for him to take over… You can’t solve everything in your life, if you believe that 2021 Is a year that you lived under your own protection and no one was standing behind you just hold on 2022 is waiting for you..
Have you felt that you do too much without complete understanding?” And even most times those things are taken for granted.. If you can’t solve everything there’s no need repeating the same steps again and again. Take a step back and allow everything fall in place, and how is that possible; one way is believing, trust in God to make it right. Sometimes your help can be turned into hate, Have you helped a friend before and you don’t what you did but the next minute it turns into something else?”..
In your academics, if you don’t know how to solve anything or how to attempt a difficult question.. you have to believe that God himself can teach you all that you need to know to be distinct from the crowd, when you and I understands this it’s the best for us.. Sometimes God can use anybody to your aid, if you resist and want to fight everything by your strength you will complain till you enter the new year..
Trust God’s word and be obedient when he tells you, don’t act too quickly and don’t stay on one stop for years.. it must have been after you’ve exhausted all your whole money tat you begin to find alternative and God being the best option will hold back. If reading can solve the problem don’t do anything contrary, if coming early can solve the problem stop coming late..
Nobody say the road will be easy, stand tall in the midst of the storm… if you need break through before the New Year, follow the instructional structure.
I really wanted to drop this yesterday but never had the time to… please if you need to help please do, but this is the best time to be fervent in prayers, He has stopped helping because you think you can convince yourself with the little effort you put.. one secret I’m leaving you with is to always seek him first even before you try your own method..
You really have lost what you’re doing a long time ago, but you pretend to everybody that you got it in order.. Your effort and seed is ineffective because you hurt yourself and the people you try to help the more..
Step away for a while and wait on God, I trust God so much.. I don’t neglect him and he shows up, even if he doesn’t that wouldn’t stop me from trusting him even more.. We do too much and we have to step away to be free.
Have a lovely Sunday and stay blessed my friends..
***December 2021***
Myth Bursting, Bitcoin Cash Decentralization Is A Theater
*“Bitcoincash is a network on the block chain where you can run smart contracts, but the problem is it’s highly centralized and their advertising says that it’s decentralized and unstoppable and censorship resistant which unfortunately it’s none of those things. It is highly centralized, it has a network controlled and even though they pretend not to be there’s someone in place to reboot everything. But surprisingly, this is what we expect from a cryptocurrency that was intended never to be at the mercy of anything or any person or need permission to be used and cannot be taken over, co-opted or otherwise captured.*
*You cannot be decentralized without validities, the coin has expanded very quickly and could not handle the big transactions per second and you can’t compare this to several others out there. I’m saying there’s absolutely nothing wrong with Bitcoincash but this is the path that all smart contract coin have to follow.. I’ve seen nothing but excuses and apologies made on behalf of Bitcoincash and from all of the people who I thought knew what decentralization actually meant. There’s no reason newer coins in my opinion should be making mistakes Bitcoin hasn’t made in nearly a decade..”*
**“Do You I Look Like A Clown To You, Unsure Of What I Possess?”**
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*In all of this put together, this is my response to these barbaric and cruel statements, I’m going to speak for myself if no one would..*
Bitcoincash optimized for a secure, permission-less base that can’t be games or cheated like the proof of stake system that can suddenly be ripped apart in a split second.. These are final settlement where the good overtakes any form of contrast, it doesn’t just drop down without having trenches built into the system to resist the impact. Once you have this firm foundation then you can scale upon it, there will be layers of solution built easily on the network to deal with a lot of transactions protected per second.
These things can’t be looked over or neglected over few statement on the recent price margin or the fear of Bitcoincash falling below half its price at the end of quarter 4 or because it could be too fragile to keep moving above every barrier, and here comes the speculation.. Although when a system is centralized, it can be a good system and have a decent performance because there will always be someone in control and also have like a database for operation but the big clause is that it becomes the worst of both worlds, suffering continuous performance issues…
When a decentralized network becomes a theater, it’s so unsure of every detail.. there will be doubts in functionality and the tightness between investors is weak.. the main goal is to burst through this myth and have a conscious awareness of the true reality from the false allegations. You can’t tell me the reason why millions of people globally still make use of Bitcoincash even though such assumptions exists.
It shows truly the future impacts and the real defining attributes, it’s never like the recent happenings on the blockchain with short term outcomes in just few month after Launch.. where you’d see a pull or a massive drop, everyone under that influence counts losses.
**“Is Bitcoincash a dead coin?”** Some people say Yes! and while a few others say No! to this and I don’t see a lot of people talking about bch right now. Here at the end of 2021, it’s still kicking and trading at about $446 and I have some important things to point out in this write up and you need to stay till the end coz you’ll find something spot on for you. Introduced in 2017 BCH was looking like like it had a bright future ahead and back then there wasn’t too many competitors to bitcoin and use cases for crypto but things have changed over the years and people still wonder if we still need crypto’s like BCH around.
Bitcoincash is essentially a duplicate of bitcoin but it’s designed for peer-to- peer payments, faster transactions and lower fees but it seems right now bitcoin’s initial goal has changed and it’s more of a scarce asset which people like to hold and not really used for electronic cash so that’s why we have a fork called Bitcoincash.One good thing I like about BCH is it’s still pushing, it’s still kicking around and has become one of the top mined crypto’s and more developments happening on it invariably becomes trusted due to its qualities.. there are still a few new miners coming to mine BCH..
But one thing though, it didn’t reach its ATH’s like all those other OG Crypto projects. It’s moving similar to the other type of project just made for payment and now it seems everybody wants more and more innovative crypto’s that are doing so much more. That could be the reason why it’s being held down but maybe things will go back to the original simple things, when things where a lot simple in crypto.. The big question “**What do we need to happen in order to see some upside price potential?”**
So from this current level, I would say things are not looking good for Bitcoincash. We can see BCH continue to bleed to the downside and people begin to question these happenings. In order for this change, the value needs to be flipped and move above the average, maybe from there break through so many highlighted factors. And then we can see some form of Bullish potential, maybe in 2022 it can push past 2021 high’s and potentially above the current mark.
*I do hope this was a clear analysis, and you literally just saw the way forward and then we don’t attack with wrong facts… I’m on the opposing ends and this taught me a huge lesson, ‘always do your own research’.. it helps a lot..*
This is my fourth entry for the @SofiaCBCH myth-busting writing competition. And lovely greetings to the amazing Elves once again..
Slp Address: simpleledger:qq5addwprd556jsx4nvsaldcnn7vkrjndy6tmhagpp
SmartBCH address:
0x3c13dC5662d437de2a4102dA3B00A8f57d5e1E20
***December 2021***
“You Have To Realize That You Know What You Know, So Share What You Know”
When you see somebody doing the same thing you're doing, getting different results or different outcomes... and when I say same things you know it's not the same when they've been doing it for 10 years and you just stayed for a year but for you to have been doing it for the same 10 years and they are getting a different result just shows the favour of God.
When you get to a stage in your life, the devil is going to push you over and you will keep falling till you hold onto some thing or have a grip to it.. I have made mistakes that every other person has made but the difference should be change and don't ever keep doing the same thing and pretending to be who i'm not, so when you change you get good result.. Be free to put up your art to the open and don't be scared if there are a thousand of people in the world today who have gone really far, the more you realize that there are still more to show that nobody in the world have seen the better you become.
The problem with a lot people is understanding that God still grants Grace, so you must learn and keep moving.. it's yours and nothing can change that, have you stayed here for so long and you still get scared to be you?" I'm about to share a little bit about authenticity, if you make let's say a post today and you don't see a like dosent mean you will stop... Your present article can lead people back to that same article that was neglected, because now you accept things differently, you show you and your style the way you feel comfortable doing..
Stop discounting your self from what is right, who am I and who's going to listen to me?" So when you question yourself, that maybe right seriously... You know why I said that, because when you do question your self and ability you act more precisely the next time. I had a little experience, I was about to share something publicly to people who where older than me, and I was scared because I wasn’t even close to their age and I don't know if what I say or do is going to be accepted.. That moment passed when I got confident, do not be scared of showing your content to people.. this is a lesson of not seeing yourself less than what you should see..
Invest in yourself, be free to express your gifts to be a blessing to people.. there are three things you should picture, you can never be ignored on the way.. God's going to bring you out and make you better than the crowd that you see. Tap into the next shift, if you’re good at writing, replicating paintings in real form, career options as well, don’t limit the success heights.. I published an article few weeks back and what I wrote was in somebody’s article on the internet, I was surprised to see the exact same line and to be honest I never wanted to remove it initially… inevitable there will be people with similar ideas like you have that shouldn’t stop you from acting towards it..
This is really to encourage us, when we dive into what we love and cherish we open doors to several other things.. if you can write 600-1000 words here what is actually stopping you from publishing your own book if that’s your dream.. it starts from somewhere, you can keep doing that till you’ve reached 10k words that can make up a small journal or book.
Thank you for reading till this point and before I stop writing this, I want to ask about you.. How is everything going with you and if you’re new, do you find here interesting?” Have a great day..
***December 2021***
6 Months On Read.cash; Growth Ain’t Easy
This is one thing as humans we struggle with and one thing I've learnt is that we have to get beyond where everything is good until a day comes when things change... Don't let your present status become who you will be and not just what you are presently.. who you where does not matter when you become. So every step from here has taught me to be grateful of what I've achieved even before I work to be better..
You can't get offended in the midst of change and even before you get to a goal, be satisfied with where you are and what you have achieved over a period of time, coz that's how you push through to keep on getting better.. it's that growth isn't easy, like you can see how hard it is to pass through college you wouldn't see that happen in a silver platter without hard work. When you grow and keep growing, you can't be ashamed of your past it doesn't mean that you where less than but you didn't get to where you wanted to be but that is a part of your story.
You and I will feel left out almost all the time, This is The thing we get offended when we don't meet a demand or when we don't have something close enough to our expectation, but to me this has been a wonderful experience.. I was almost going crazy at some point when nothing was coming in after every efforts but with time I got to understand acceptance and growth timing.
This is what I understand... it will be tough but you can't hold yourself down or beat your self up for the mistake you've made, turn your pain into your praise and that has helped me to be different when I approach certain things in life... Now these are my good moments and really I haven't had a bad one.. my comment section is where I've always gotten my healing and my motivation.. There's no comment I don't read it allow to pass me by, if you listen to the message you Will learn from people's opinion and advice..
Time flies, I made over 300+ friends and that's not even all, my subscribers has been the best moments in my life.. Even when I don't do so much in return I was shown love and it has kept me moving.. I could remember a day in class when I stumbled upon a friend and that was when I was briefed with what to do.. At first I never understood the the process but anytime I had a little issue or problem, Happyboy always help me overcome them and I had two friends I kept bothering Gaftek and Jeremiah..
If I could write a lot, this would be enough to fully break down how my life went on here on read.cash, its not just the process but how I felt accepted by a family that cares... and I want to fully appreciate everyone for the upvotes, it meant a lot to me and even to my growth. There are many opportunities here, I could recall the Halloween event which I took 3rd hosted by an amazing story teller and writer @Theblackdoll .. This was indeed my first ever writing contest that I came close to winning..
It’s been God creating more steps to each way, I have a conviction in my heart that massive number of people will get to know the full impact of Bitcoincash.. the airdrops, the knowledge of smartBCH, the knowledge of Nft these where all I learnt from some users here.. The little things I get from here, I actually apply in my daily life, it’s priceless and when it comes I’m always prepared to grab the true meaning of the message..
When you stay on a platform for a long time, you see series of advancement, you watch things get better, you watch certain testimonies of users that motivates you, you meet birthdays, you meet really a lot.. that’s the reason I wouldn’t stop being here, it’s not just an earning platform but a place of friendship…
Thank you so much for a lovely 6months experience, you all are like family… The wonderful and great sponsors of read and noise God bless you and always enrich the place where this comes out from..
Have a lovely Tuesday..
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*December 2021*
18 Days Later; Self worth, Be Ready To Move On
Be ready to move on whenever you feel disrespected, neglected, lied to or when you notice the other person is not who you thought they where.. Keep your senses and eyes open so that you won’t have to waste days or months or years of your life with someone or a position that’s you don’t get cared for.. keep your standards and values high so that anyone you come across with will know from the start, you love yourself and will not accept anything less than true happiness..
You deserve better, you’re beautiful inside and out know your worth it takes a lot of time to understand a situation and then do something about it.. You’ve got to be there to know how it feels’ that a big lie, if you don’t do anything about your problems now you’re taking it over to the new year.. find happiness in everything that is going on presently, secondly you must have knowledge of the fact that you are you and you must love yourself more..
I talked about this in an article few weeks back and I got so many beautiful comments.. and I hope that you got the message and you never had to be told twice, you understand who you are and that’s the main reason why you should know your worth.. be kind to your self, you’ve been the whole back bone of your relationship but still you are not shown love, it wouldn’t hurt to say to say it, there are a lot of things going on in the world today..
Truly that’s how rejected or left out you’ll feel for the rest of 2021, that ain’t going to happen.. You are empress and empresses and you deserve more than what you get all the time. So please pay attention, nobody is going to be in the best place to give you an advice because they really don’t know why you face and I’m in no good position to tell you to change anything.. Only you can understand because it’s you who face all of this, it’s your decision to make.. Most times those little things we ignore causes depression and grieving..
After everything you’ve done or try to make right, you get ignored sometimes shown the opposite sides of love and you can’t take this anymore.. save yourself the stress and energy, and even if you can’t dismiss the entire relationship or whatever it is please don’t let it bother you.. All I’m after is that you cross the month of December in good health and in the right state of mind.
There’s a recent story someone told a friend and it was about a man with six children and he everything his wife does he so much detest.. and even to the point of beating her mercilessly in front of the kids and now decides that he wants to take a new wife.. She literally didn’t do anything to him and all he sees was a side that only him could see and not anybody else.. She doesn’t want to leave and wants to protect the marriage even though that’s not going to happen..
Where am I driving at with this?” she was still trying to impress him by all means possible neglecting her own health in the process, the more she does that it agitates and makes everything worse than it is.. But what baffles me is that she still wouldn’t stop showing love to this man and I don’t really know the main reason why even if she’s always abused..
This is a recent story and is still happening, it’s so painful to be in that situation but my advice is to just look after yourself much more give yourself credit, motivate yourself, pray and commit it to God if you have to.. don’t let your 18 days later be in the hospital, Or any other worst case scenario. I trust that you will be more of your favorite self, he or she will be surprised how you stay happy in this whole thing..
Thank you for reading… happy new week and stay blessed and productive for the rest of the week.. Be ready to move on if that isn’t the right place for you anymore or talk to people that can help you through the process..
I need your advice for that lady coz I don’t know if I gave her a good advice or not.. but if you have further suggestions kindly drop in the comment section..
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***December 2021***
I’m Protecting My Peace Before The New Year
“You’re going crazy because you feel someone is crazy” that is just an idea to steal somebody else’s peace, and when you do that check yourselves… when you ought to get to know people better, but instead you become a plague and it doesn’t just affect the next in line but you as well. Turning the tables, you never have to listen to words that make you unhappy or make you depressed, if anyone tries to be ‘all knowing’ and sees every thing you do as always being wrong… kindly ignore and keep moving.
How about observing the person you call crazy and if you don't understand it, could be a human with feelings. Nothing is wrong when one chooses to be sensitive to the things around and vocalises it so that it makes him or her look crazy but is just being a transparent human being and has no different of feelings than any other human being has, but its just most people will never say or imagine it this way.. If someone decides to be whoever they want to be and that makes that person happy who are you to say something different..
And so this is a lesson that I learnt, ***“never ever like seriously never speak on somebody else situation until you are standing in their shoes and you can walk the same path like they did. It goes both ways, if someone says what you do don't make sense or always got things to say about you; how about taking up your position or taking up you blog post and watch the person’s survival instinct.”***
The mindset is the problem, do not listen to people based on thirst traps.. don’t go thinking about the problem you don’t have because someone somewhere mentioned you or left a comment. It’s a season of love, don’t loose the spirit to love. Maintain your process, maintain your approach, maintain your thoughts, and even as you step into the new year let your mind be at rest. If you’re easily angered, or get upset so quickly don’t get too close to people that will trigger it.
Anyone that’s going to be a distraction, block immediately one thing that happens when we see negative comments surest like wild fire, it’s always not the disagreeing part but mostly jealousy. When someone disagrees with you, that person should apply rightful thinking to know that you also have to be heard. But when it’s on the basis of jealous, your identity is destroyed, your influence is affected, the numbers of things you achieved better is the most concern..
Let me mention a little story from years back in secondary school, there was this crazy person in my class that always take things personal when he sees you get a mark above him.. This guy will walk with you and even act like he is your close friend but will hate you when you are above him.. He will find ways to make you feel that wasn’t your effort and he was in fact the one that gave it everything.. Most times when I collect my report sheet for the term I just wouldn’t let him see it, I’m trying to maintain a good state of mind as I enter a new session.
Anyone who doesn’t want your happiness feel free to press the block section.. it will save you a lot, you want to be better and you want to be a brand new changes person.. all of this decisions should be made by you alone. Not saying critiques are wrong to take as lessons, you will notice when these things turns into envy and hate. We must learn to love and show real love to people, instead of looking for who to make unhappy why not change the way it is.
What should be your solid word or advice, believe that it’s you and not them.. Its not every friend you have that wants to see you broken, or hurt so choose the holiday friendship you keep. It’s just me though trying so hard not to listen to every negative words around me but think through deeply on what is right for me and the available advantages within my perspective..
Thank you for reading, are you making merry as I am right now?” I’m so happy for the season… I present my virtual gift to you all, something great will be coming up before Christmas so stay tuned..
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***December 2021***
Myth; Bitcoin Can And Will Be Shut Down By Government
This has been completely over emphasized over some couple of months now when we see some unusual changes and it’s either a country accepts it or let go and while some still don’t have a deciding factor yet and it in a ‘maybe’ side of things. They can try to shut it down, well good luck but it’s going to be tough to as many who tries and still trying. You hear a lot of speculations saying bitcoin’s going to be banned and a lot of countries probably working together to make that happen but here’s why it’s going to be tough..
Definitely it’s going to be an effort, but its basically you shutting down the the internet and shutting down what has developed far more than human access and I don’t see why and how a country would continue on that trail or path or stopping everyone who has a portfolio into the system from continuity..
It will always bounce back and cause a lot of problems on the government themselves and the citizens. My country as an example, this was a huge struggle few months back in 2021 and we actually didn’t see the signs but the drift.. there was a limit to every user and a threat from dealing with the new king system, but after few delegations it went back to how it was although everyone is still at the mercy of the government body. There was a new condition of certain usage conditions and it was a big huddle form the bizarre public zone..
Now taking about these different aspects of being able to ban bitcoin and cryptocurrency, you could do it and like the whole the process of shutting down is so impossible and even dumb. A restriction can be placed on the processes of an interchange or cross sale or every other transaction base usage, rather than moving ahead of the dangers which is putting a stop to it.. Truly it’s not just Nigeria, not just America, not just China, not just India but every where that has the node location, it’s just every where and so hard to pull off..
The exchange stopped in some countries and every time that happens it causes a void or vacuum, you really can’t stop people of this age and time we would always find several ways to get into the game just like everyone’s been trying to survive.. there are ways around these things, just recently we where forced out of using the popular social media platform ‘twitter’ and the next best alternative was using a VPN and we still had a good chance to stay connected even much more than before. I know it’s very easy to just screw everything up by putting 70-90% tax on the profits and aggressively pursue tax evaders and more like the contraband’s, but I know one thing about banning and when it’s been enforced people will want it more and prices will shoot up..
If I came after you and your family and you give out roughly 50 percent of what you earned so far and it goes directly to the government to do whatever they want with it, maybe we should prepare ourselves and this could be the beginning of an ending. But reiterating back to the importance of this same digital coin to the economy, it’s vast but when government cease the opportunity to control everything and anything the country owns then the public leave in hiding or be forced in fear to give up years of hard work.
**Why Is Crypto Regulations Doomed To Fail?”**
Government could ban the use of bitcoin even if they can’t take over the system at the technological level, people could keep using bitcoin in that scenario, of course. But it will be like dealing drugs and most people don’t want to deal drugs even if it’s profitable because the dare consequences of being caught outweigh the profit for most of it.
That said, I’m a crypto enthusiast and I believe in it’s medium term growth and potentially a long term success if it’s not banned or constrained by regulations. I prefer to burst the speculations and keep holding the little I can make out of it, things can’t go all out over night it’s still going to take a gradual process. Fingers crossed, I’m believing the new year will change perspective and turn the negative patterns into a solid positive view that all countries of the world see this light..
Adaptation of the cryptocurrency as the main chain of doing a lot within and outside the country become a thing of joy. This is starting to look brighter and I’ve conquered the thoughts you had for some time now, and even though it looks worse now nothing can be altered within the space of the crypto world..
**Moving on into the new year, what to expect and what not…**
If I was asked these questions, I will seek for a proper understanding of what the benefits are and then what has been achieved over the years.. Loosing this opportunity just to have full access to the country’s attention will it solve anything or will it create a void?” But then I wouldn’t have a say but be very optimistic and ready to take on any change..
***I believe I have navigated through the counter purpose of this write up and able to bring a false to that lead write up that says Government can shut down everything.. No they can’t and it’s never possible to do that.*****.**
This is my third and final entry to @SofiaCBCH myth-bursting contest and it’s been a wonderful time making these articles up.. Special thanks to organizers and to the Elves as well..
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Slp Address: simpleledger:qz64pf0r8knl68zcdkyjkeztp56c572dnyt56ynts3
SmartBch address:
0x3c13dC5662d437de2a4102dA3B00A8f57d5e1E20
***December 2021***
Myth bursted; SmartBCH Is Never Slower Than Ethereum.. The Twisted Reality
If you haven’t heard of @SmartBCH then you’re missing out on one of the hottest innovations in the crypto currency space till date and I’m not overthinking this whatsoever, firmly putting up a stance of SmartBCH as being the most consistent over the space of fewer months.. Maybe you all was just as I was back then, you heard about it but you never realized the potentials of such technology or what it could offer.
Well lucky for me I had some friends that where kind enough to alert me to what I was missing out on, and since then I have fully immersed myself into the SmartBCH network. I was blown away by my adventures and what I discovered in my passion and interest has re-ignited to its highest level. This is me telling you the leverage strategy and my experiences and maybe this blows your mind completely as well.
Essentially SmartBCH is ethereum re-created as a side-chain on BitcoinCash, it’s purpose being to increase possible networks and reduce the cost of transactions to a fraction of its ethereum counterpart. In using this, it allows more users on the Defi network while simultaneously enjoying a good user experience. Many people have been excluded due to high fees, with SmartBCH it’s different coz transactions only costing a fraction of a cent and faster loading times as well.
This quality will attract masses of investors and an exit to the usual because a lot will seek to increase the margin and it’s practical, would you go for what isn’t right when the good stuffs is just there readily available. Given that SmartBCH is EVM compatible, much of the infrastructure that has taken years to develop on ethereum have been forked over and In the space of two months I have gotten acquainted with a lot in the SmartBCH eco-system, a few of them are the multiple dex’s 5 of them to be exact, the market place, nft collections and several token projects…
You may decide to respond this way;
***”SmartBCH doesn’t seem decentralized and may not fulfill all it takes, besides it’s not on-par with the establishments already laid down”***
That is not something to be added now but some other time, I’m going to have to limit my replies and alternate about SmartBCH and ethereum in terms of speed..
So far so good, from the advancement in the world of smartBCH I’ve been able to secure some Law NFT punks, and I talked about this in few other articles some days back.. it has become the safest place to be in, and my only encounter from all of this is just the fear of loosing out from the market but notwithstanding it doesn’t cost so much extra fees to secure anything and it’s never slow as long the money required is present in your wallet and you can transact with it.. I got a few punks and as well some Fatcat Nfts, you’d see them in the picture below.. costing a total of 0.3BCH and that’s approximately $168..
There are several ways to concurrently increase the speeds of any form of transaction under the ethereum territory but that’s too cumbersome to walk with every time.. I could remember my first and only time I was caught up on a loading zone and my frustration was not something you’d like to see. I could literally feel feel my hands turning into a lethal weapon to blast off the screen.. but then I had to keep calm and flow with the situation I was in, if I could literally get my hands on some memes that will come in handy right now..
Maybe the speeds are quite the same using coinFlex, that’s a match if you’ve used the two I really think there’s no difference… although there are several other bridges used now that saves a lot of time and money as well.. moving to the recent updates with Eth there’s has been an improvement, it still has a more pronounced flaws compared to SmartBCH..
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If you’re a bch holder, you may not be familiar with the concepts, but you want to learn real fast now that it’s available and an opportunity you wouldn’t want to miss. In the usual banking system, if lucky you can be paid about 0.5-1 percent yearly… that’s for the privilege of letting them hold your money and doing as they please. But in this form of access liquidity, you lock your funds in a smart contract and get easily rewarded.
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It’s amazing to see a lot of people earning so much with comfort and ease, and this is even still an early stage of the smart world. And fine it’s not really up to it’s capacity or the capacity of ethereum but I know it will surpass the current level at which the eth system is presently. It’s my analysis and I wish this would be further looked into, just for it’s possibilities and future optimism of what the overall system can likely do and achieve..
Comparatively you can never go wrong with @SmartBCH and I’m a part of this growing process, newer updates increases the loading times three times more and I can place a net on 2022 being the most perfect year for us all… Before I put a stop to this here are a few set up steps;
It’s so easy to have a fair share of this and do you really want to know where and how we can literally find all of these good things mentioned.. Firstly you need to start with having meta mask application on your phone, after setting up some essentials which includes taking note of your seed phrases, the next step is to launch smartBCH; and input as it is in this screen shot..
This is my second entry for the @SofiaCBCH myth-busting writing competition. And lovely greetings to the amazing Elves once again and the main body of all this together…
Slp Address:
simpleledger:qq2ln2343whttksnmlsrfrxs8huwh5h2lunpwu55na
SmartBCH address:
0x3c13dC5662d437de2a4102dA3B00A8f57d5e1E20
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***December 2021***
Myth; Blocks Must Be Kept Full To Have A Working “Fee Market” To Secure The Chain
This idea that bigger blocks causes centralization of cryptocurrency and the argument for that is basically when people start to use any form of cryptocurrency there are more transactions and these transactions have to be validated by everybody running a full node. These transactions are stored forever in the blockchain… the more the transactions there are the bigger the blocks are every minute and it increases some burdens for each person running a full node..
Part of this philosophy is that it’s a good idea for everyone to run a full mode and if this gets more expensive, with some sort of tendencies for fewer people running the node. It sounds very obvious bigger blocks do increase the cost of running a node but however, there are a still lot of other effects here for bitcoin itself..
There are market decentralization and let’s look at this like the market and the economy itself is decentralized, so when I talk about the market I’m talking on the fact that we can participate in trading with other people.. The market is decentralized because we are all aware that no one runs everything, the doings are distributed over a lot of people around the world.. so the market is decentralized in the sense that there’s no one person that just owns the economy and nonetheless it doesn’t have a central point of failure.
Bitcoin is decentralized in the same way and if we let these series of blocks get bigger, it is not at all threatening to the market decentralization of bitcoin. In fact it’s a sign that the decentralization is improving because the sole reason why a block could get bigger is because more people are using it and more transactions are being sent around, that’s the more reason why the blocks are bigger which also shows that there are more people in the economy and as well running businesses, more mining power and more people doing a lot in the economy..
It success as a transaction system and that’s the more reason why the block gets bigger, what this means is because more people have reasons to run a node. Years ago Back to 2013 or 2014 there was this idea that because the economy is growing there will be more reason to run a node even if it’s more expensive and this is some of the points that makes me believe that bigger blocks do not actually centralize bitcoin or any other chain and it’s probably the other way around..
”Greater adoption causes better decentralization” and the facts that the blocks are bigger and makes the cost of mining a node to be higher it’s not that important of a factor all other factors are actually more important. In a nut shell, I’m not concerned that bigger blocks cause further centralization but helps in the decentralization of bitcoin for example. And this form of market means that more people are involved in critical functions where, not everyone runs the node..
There’s a constrain in the minimum confirmation times because new informations cannot propagate or circulate across networks faster than the speed of light, tons and tons of information are broadcast and there are no limits to the bandwidth of transactions.. But because everyone live all over the globe, information has to be transmitted across and if it bounces off it’s due to lower bound of networks and this has to be secured properly to avoid loss of dominance and a huge drop in the chain network..
It’s about helping one way to secure another and this puts a lot in place to encourage an acceptable **fee market**.
For a secure approach we have to consider certain alterations, the rapid changes in the adoption technology for various use cases… people coming into the eco-system will have a blockchain overview which will create an optimistic guide of a secured platform… There’s need to put up a regulation on fee protection and for each block protection, a lot of things have to come into play..
We check how blockchain security have advanced from time to time… these are constant changes that must be monitored, I can proudly say that from far back till this moment there are changes that have been done periodically to ensure the suitability of investors..
**Authorized identities allowed to perform and audit various data**
In relation to the full requirements, it must be firm in protection of various data within the chain. Regardless of how big and how resourceful the block size is, it is even much more safer to alternate around it.. This isn’t just a myth but for a fact, the quick response and reinforcements built in place to prevent cyber passage, automatic dysfunctional system is tight and still proactive till date.. For each level of trust in the affairs of the block raises the tension to how the system can remain as it is.
**The Confidentiality In Protecting The Chain**
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Cryptocurrency fee transaction list, crypto fee transaction comparison and many others are additional to what must be done to have a secure approach… there’s more trust in the system and many more people will be attracted from the globe… I wouldn’t trust my line of a ton of fee market cause that would be relying on the myth, so this isn’t profitable and a proper to guide the chain network system..
I believe with these few words there can be proper allocation of time and efforts to keep this fired up and going smoothly like it used to…
This is my entry for the @SofiaCBCH myth-busting writing competition. And lovely greetings to the amazing elves..
Slp address:
simpleledger:qz9jy5a4hd73gsgweur7pc8n3sa48keqavprhs43qx
SmartBCH address:
0x3c13dC5662d437de2a4102dA3B00A8f57d5e1E20
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**December 2021**
“Who Should Love First?”
**This comes down to who should pay on the first dinner date?” Who should help out in chores?” Can both parties switch jobs and still be fine?” Who should make certain sacrifices for the other?” Would you want your man or your woman to provide and as well manage the household?”** **Do you feel like you grind a lot and you get upset that your partner isn’t doing the same thing you do or as much energy you put into what you do?”**
This isn’t a matter of who is loving the more or who is doing much better than the other but a complete understanding, you could be doing what you do and be comfortable with it… That's just how it’s supposed to be and it’s either you accept it or be different, meanwhile if you swapped jobs I’m sure nobody will tell you to rethink before doing that.. Let’s get things straight, a woman who takes care of the house and tells you not to do anything at all will you still hate on her and probably even work again with all of that.. These are things that ruin a relationship, you should see your partner as someone that still does a lot just as you do.
That may sound wrong to some of us here, but you feel you’re doing the most and maybe he or she doesn’t love you to show that balance… maybe this title is all up in my head, I know of a man who works like crazy on a daily basis and anytime he comes back home and his wife tells him to help out with some chores a flares up immediately and sometimes lashing out curses but unknown to him that his wife works more hours than he does.. 3 hours more difference precisely and that’s quite a lot..
I think communication would have solved a lot of things, and it went on for weeks up until he realized that he wasn’t even doing all the hard work himself that his wife was also a solid back bone to the home.. Love shouldn’t be based on the number of work you do and that means you show more affection, that mindset though. We should all see ourselves as people who wants the best for each other and if time permits do some additional things to what was already built..
This isn’t just about job difference’s, it spreads across to other things.. the best solution and way out is to find the real cause of the argument or quarrel and put yourself in that situation “what would you do?”..
Back to the dinner date, this is the era when ladies can earn even much more than men would and nothing stops either parties from doing what’s right.. although there’s a clause you can still split the bill and everyone is happy.. is not like he buys you a whole lot and you don’t seem to contribute to anything, or she spends on you and you don’t reciprocate even though little..
**“what’s your take in this?”**
We must see things differently and not just on one direction cause that’s when we act blindly towards the people that mean a lot to us.. observe before you react and then mend if you’ve acted wrongly..
One thing we must not do is listen to peoples wrong suggestions, they will come like they want to help but only make things worse than it is.. nothing stops the men from assisting their ladies and nothing stops the ladies from helping out as well..
**Can both of you switch jobs and it’s all good?”**
You know what will end this and will it be nice if you do that?” That’s a question you must ask yourself, it’s nobody’s fault that you feel you work harder but you overthink every single thing… if you feel you need to talk anybody, feel free to because acts like this only makes the union less stronger… Maybe take it on for 24hours nothing will tell you to drop the feeling and when you must have washed some kids clothings and maybe some of your woman’s attire your mood will change…
This is where I will stop for now, if this was misleading sorry to get you upset.. I love you all and want things to get better..
Thank you for reading…
**December 2021**
My SmartBCH Adventure; It Keeps Getting Better
The huge potential that smartBCH adds is really difficult for people to understand, just how many doors this opens up and it’s a side chain because whatever happens on smartBCH doesn’t affect the main chain… You won’t see draw backs or roll backs and it’s just really amazing. This is crazy and it’s running a lot on the smartBCH platform and you can see how much it’s grown from few months back till this moment… it’s just another ace in the hole from bitcoinCash.
Immediately you know about smartBCH, it’s has a staying power attached to it and even if it’s now the way you imagine it to be there are a lot more opportunities.. You can dominate In several ways, there are NFTs, staking, farming, liquidity, minting, airdrops and so many others.. There are over 40+ tokens on the smartBCH network and 5 dex all together, benswap mistswap, muesliswap, Tangoswap and 1bch.. I’m always super hyped when something new happens with the smartBCH ecosystem.
I love having a more pronounced vision and if you don’t see it believe me I do, so this is my adventure..
*It wasn’t a surprise that a very special friend found me and I was in deep need of friendship, maybe I was too silent and constraint to approach this person… I never knew our bond would be this tight right now that I can’t do without checking up. We made lots of things work together and not just that we grew from nothing to something under the space of one month, I was blindly disrespectful but when I was dealt with severally and all I had was bleeding red I was comforted… Could you already tell who that friendly person is, let me tell you a bit more…*
*Started with just one bridge and now has more in addition to that, easy access to your capital anytime you need it, growth and stability, more icing on the cake quite a number of tokens growing at a rapid rate, easily accessible and a user friendly app.. nothing beats having a friend that has a complete package, we’ve never separated till this day.. let me tell you a brief report of how we met..*
I got to know of Eben 3 months ago that was early September and I felt left out coz something that was worth nothing flew to the skies at $3 for one in minutes… like I was shocked on the twist and there was a lot of testimonies in almost all the blogging platforms, few people got lucky to be among the investors.. That became an eye opener for me, and I didn’t hesitate to ask a friend for help in setting up metamask for the smartBCH network..
I began stacking up lots of coins and giving myself hope that all of this will make me a huge profit, but every slight drop in the market I move in to swap back maybe I wasn’t ready to withstand the pressure or I never understood the idea of making profit.. The first two tokens that I made good profit from was Eben and $CAT, it was a surprise for me.. I made over $80 in the month of November after swapping back to sbch.
I had some losses, from MILK, JOY and few more other tokens… but an interesting thing I did last month was to put 5$ each in all the token on smartBCH and leave it for 24hours, it was a crazy idea but at the end of the day I made some profit from doing that but I wouldn’t advice anyone to try the same thing.. Just my playful sides..
Law punks where on sale last month for a cheap price, I looked beyond all of that and found worth long term.. it motivated me to to buy some which both was a total of 0.23bch. Immediately I got them I started staking, my Law nft experience has been amazing.
It may not be the best today but I have hope and that cancels doubts and equals actualization.. I didn’t stop there but got some cat NFTs as well, I was shocked when a friend checked the rarity and we saw a non existent one among the 4..
There’s more to this journey and this time it’s from pre-sales of 1bch token.. 0.1bch was committed and everyone got 5000 1bch, let’s just say I had ups and downs during my 3months ride on the smartBCH network but really the good sides always out number the bad..
I failed to get Konra when it dipped and that was my worst mistake, now it’s currently at $19.56 the extra fees to get one also increased with an addition of 1$. But what gave me more joy was the new moon moon moon moon launch, I bought at $232 price which I took a risk of swapping 0.25bch and when it got to $385 I quickly swapped again using mistswap dex.. that was almost $70 gain under 24 hours, the first of its kind.
It’s so easy to have a fair share of this and do you really want to know where and how we can literally find all these mentioned.. firstly you need to start with having meta mask on your phone after setting up which includes taking note of your seed phrases, the next step is to launch smartBCH;
**My aspirations for the coming week into 2022**
There will be much more in the books for the new year, and maybe less rug pulls.. coz as we know it so many where at loss with few coins like Eros and the likes of it.. so I strongly believe in smartBCH..
Total money invested into smartBCH so far is 0.45bch, this could change soon as I would be getting some more smart tokens..
This is my entry to the smartbch competition and I hope you’ve learnt something great from this.. #SmartBCH #BitcoinCash
Discord: https://discord.gg/j9met8DHDj
***December 2021***
If I don’t appreciate these wonderful people then I’m really ungrateful… I got a sponsorship notification of @Jane and this was huge I had gladness in my heart all through the day and I’m saying thank you to an icon and to a very beautiful and loving lady.. God bless you so much for all you do, this season will b the best for you..
And I want to thank my new sponsor @PVMihalache I’m so grateful to receive this wonderful gift from you sir.. Thank you for believing in me and trusting this whole process.. God bless you…
And to all my sponsors thank you so much… i love you all 💞
Be Two Steps Away From The Temptation
Be proactive in everything you do and even in your relationship for example, don't get uncomfortable about coming together and creating a plan or action on how you're going to stay strong together and what to do to make a relationship strong.. Likewise where you work or in your school, if you don’t plan ahead you will meet with so many distractions.. and it takes the grace of God to be focused and to do things right..
You have to go over certain things in life, that is a level at which you fought through a lot.. because when you look far back you where much more younger and maybe dummer, if you really had that opportunity now I’m fully sure that you will never fail it or fail to grab it. There should be a lesson learnt from all of that, you will be more flexible and more able to work on your approach now coz those things that happened gave you an insight..
Have you been set up before in your company where you work or in firm you serve and you’re always needed to tell a lie and for you to secure your job, you’ve got to do as instructed.. or have you been driven by so many things during work hours that led to that.
There are stories of employers having an affair with an inmate or an employee. When you come to a realization that those things don’t last too long before it leaks to that whole thing backfired and then you are mentally and psychologically affected.. what you feel you can achieve under doing the wrong things, you must think deep and trust me nothing hides forever or stays hidden., something can trigger that crucial experience..
There are things that we can avoid now that we will be grateful we did, and in any form of environment you are let your integrity speak for you.. there will be a lot coming your way, when you resist one a much more difficult and challenging one happens again.. I don’t want to stress this too much, whenever we find ourselves neatly falling look for an escape..
This works a lot for me, if I find myself mixed in a place where things are about to go wild, I observe around me what could create a distraction or I could create my own distraction. Do not tarnish your image or constantly doing things that you shouldn’t do, this also leads straight to our personal lives.. there are addictions that we fight so much with to overcome and even till this moment you still don’t know how to exit that lifestyle.. this will be very applicable to you..
**“what happens when you overcome?”**
It could go completely south, you may loose your job in the process you may loose colleagues and you may loose close friends but the upsides are the self satisfaction and the inner peace you get from doing what is right.. They expect you to loose your sanity but you never lost any of that rather you you fought your way out of it…
The first thing you need to change if the kind of people you walk with and seek advice from.. If you see the intent of their heart it will be a shock to you. You must be able to tell when you are almost comforting to it and then seek for a narrow escape. You see a lot go wrong, and you blame it directly on the government, because they loot money you join the same pattern to do the same..
Do not follow the crowd, be steps ahead of what’s coming and be ready to accept what’s right…
Thank you for having the time to check this, I’m happy you came through.. Did you get the MMMM token circulating yesterday?” It was so good to be true as that literally almost met Bitcoincash…
Happy Tuesday.
***December 2021***
“How Do You Understand What’s Real?”
There are a lot of things going on in the world today and most times if we are not mentally or physically inclined we fall directly into it, we hardly ever know the outcomes right from the start until it happens… it takes a lot of time, hard work, planning and dedication, we become too drained because it’s an endless routine with no progress.. **“What goals do we set for ourselves? What style of living do we imitate so quickly? Do we understand the practical requirements?”**
In this world we live in, distractions are everywhere.. you’ve been working for several months or years to bring an idea to light and when you get so close to breaking out, you act upon what you see and leave that idea and goal hanging to pursue something different.. most of the things we see may not even be through hard work, it could be something else that brought about it so why bother yourself on certain areas that is bigger than you..
Find what’s real, authentic and genuine and make sure you work with the ideal level of character.. you can’t be trying to develop a phone company and then you spend all day researching about groceries or you can’t be trying to make a first class degree and you’re only good when it comes to playing soccer.. If you can’t equal the strength or the approach then I guess you can find other patterns and start all over in search of what’s best for you..
We must demonstrate compatibility, we must seek for what is right and then go for it.. If you don’t love where you are now there are so many other areas where you can shine. This also goes through with our service to God, we can’t serve two masters; demonstrate holiness, demonstrate faithfulness, demonstrate peace… Your mission should always aim towards the last days.. besides this, please cultivate a good habit to understand your environment and the things that you must do to make it right..
Although there could be a clause with this, you could actually be doing the right things but not making any form of progress and that’s when perseverance and patience comes in.. the three ways to fully understand the situation; identify suitable requirements, preparation and positioning then lastly through prayer.. You must not forget to do these little things, you will make so much progress because you are prepared to take on any form of drift if any arises..
Whenever you notice the twist and inconsistent movements, check your input always.. you may be outweighed or out of proportion, I really pray and wish that we do not miss out of anything even though it’s so tough now or it looks stagnant.. Do not be weary there’s still time to fully understand the process and move into your lane, commit time and efforts to be better..
Thank you for reading and I wish you all a productive week..
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***December 2021***
Special Kind Of People Online Dates, Do you Believe That?”
Few Introverts, too busy for relationship or looking for convenience, or desperately in need of someone... it makes it easier seriously, and you'll be surprised with the number of people that still do this.. It's a lot out there, the viscous, the manipulators, the genuine ones, a lot of individuals with different identities and motives..
So let me hear your stories, “have you falling too deeply with your online date?”... or was it a set up just to get something out of you, or just to sleep around without trying to know you better or having a decent communication with you. It goes both ways trust me, but you have to notice the obvious red flags..
We live in a very condescending world and it's all over the place with a lot of ulterior motives, and when you have a real communication with this person you will discover so many things that doesn't fit right. The benefit of online dating is with the buffet of people that you could see through whatever means you use, and for you to depict who is literally telling the truth from the pool you have to make some really lengthy observations and patterns..
**“Do you still believe in the realities of online dating and do you believe a relationship can achieve a long term goal from this form of link or union?”**.. its about the understanding, if you could make sure that you keep the communication and you maintain a constant voice or video calling or whatever be the case then that could really be it for you.. you can get to know each other very well but when you really love this person and you fantasize all day without getting the facts, just know your heart is in the mud already...
Personally for me I could never trust a lady I met off a dating app because behind my mind I'm always going to wonder if she still uses it or not.. So whenever we have a misunderstanding would you go back to searching for other dates online?”. would you consider me as being desperate then use me and dump me the next minute, these are things that go on up in my head... So I don't bother myself with that, if you aren't comfortable with meeting someone online then you don't need to go into it...
**“What where you experience with your first online date, and was he or she perfect with the approach and with making you feel comfortable?”**.. For real when you date online be ready to see a lot of character because you may never know who is coming online to stay right there with you..
But really you can meet a bad person online or offline, what you must focus on is discerning who is real from fake regardless of the platform... so a clear understanding of the ways in which you can tell when someone is lying is really needed..
“What kind of people have you met online?"
During your dates, what did you observe about this person?"
Have you been through ten in person dates and you still haven't gotten comfortable with this person, if you still need to give that a try then why not? But you should have a connection before closing up with this person..
I wouldn’t judge anyone on how you choose to be with whom you love or how you intend meeting, for you to claim he or she is special what where the basis for saying thy statement?” Have you studied this person closely and gone through maybe records, or ask questions or chatted not just through messages but seen the persons face.. past life, present life, future goals, your aspirations together, favorites and non favorites.
let me stop here cause I’m really trying to go deeper with my thoughts.. I was close to taking a nap when this topic came to me and I want you opinion too.. I could be wrong and a bit too intense likewise taking the wrong sides with this…
Have a lovely Sunday my dear friends…
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***December 2021***
Find Your Balance And Be Comfortable With It
This is your life and you can get accustomed to a whole lot of things, you can live a life or a give a good life without you being a millionaire or having a mindset of making all the money in the world before you give yourselves or your kids or your family a good life.. If you cant help out now what makes you think when you get to being the richest person on earth that you'll be any better...
You will never know the impacts of your work, it doesn't matter how comfortable you are right now but the little satisfaction should get you through... there's a way God can turn around your life that will make you noticed immediately and unexpectedly everyone wants to know you and your art or your work..
You don't need to get too attached to what you see, as long as you are happy and you create a residual income or a passive income or a multiple streams of income then that should be enough to sustain you all the time.. what if you needed to be closer to your kids or your family for a reason and they are all really happy with you then why aren't you happy with what you do... to be a bread winner isn't as easy as the name implies because it takes all your time and it takes your attention too but you have keep your state of mind under control and move with care...
In one way, you feel you just don't do the most, but what if you’re creating a balance that is very suitable for you and your home.. Relating this to your home, if you've got children they would have to come first and if you've got other priorities they have to come first too.. You have to be in control of your schedule and don't make it look that bad that you then neglect the most important things in your life...
There are a lot of people here that go through a lot and still find time to blog, its not easy to maintain that balance.. but it's really for you to have an establishment because nothing lasts forever, so there's a feeling in our body's to start other things... but even if you do want to have this extra jobs, nothing must disrupt the usual. No one should suffer in your home because of what you do and your health should be affected in the process of having a lot of work to do..
You have the mindset that you have to go out and work and be gone all the time and be over worked and out 14 hours a week, but if you're that person that sets things in place you don't need a million to make a better home or a better life.. work within your capacity coz there will be several opportunities coming to you and you don’t have to ruin everything because of greed..
I'm not saying you shouldn't work or do any thing you do that brings in money, but build a balance.. learn to create time for yourself and family, create time for your kids and spouses, create time for the people that mean a lot to you or basically your loved ones, create time for God too and yes! you heard that right..
I get it that you when see people that earn 7 figures you equally want to be like them, its very attainable although may take so long but even while hoping and waiting don't neglect everything around you in pursuit for fame and glory...
There’s a step by step method to everything in life, one blessing or achievement before another.. if you run too fast there’s a tendency for you to loose your life in the process, your family and friends… Aspire great things, it will come through and even though you don’t have a family of your own to look out for how about yourself and your parents… The get rich quick platforms also known as ‘ponzi’ is an example of wanting to get money quickly as possible and in the process millions of money wasted…
Thank you all for reading, it’s just a little friendly advise to be careful and also be strategic in your goals and dreams… God bless you..
Happy weekend
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***December 2021***
To Be Loved
This is a message to everyone, please do it right the first time and I want you to understand how you can get pushed to the edge and when you think about it, as people we try to get away with everything we can get away with without trying to change our lives.
You did the first time, no one said anything about it. Then you did it again the second and third you still haven't been told the right thing you did and within you are satisfied, you still believe he or she whom you date is happy.. Then you try the same thing for the fifth and the sixth time, that's when it creates something deep that you might not get away with..
***So if you noticed these things, does love still exists as you think? " What will be your honest opinion or advice to anyone under this spell? "***
**Inconsistency or Abuse**
You owe no loyalty to abusive people, I’m telling you right now that's the time you got to get out and that's where a lot of questions get asked due to a turn of domestic violence in the country's of the world... You get beat by your partners, your lovers or your spouses and its a bad deal and these set of people always get a sweet talk from the people they relate with but to me please quit is the word..
Get somewhere safe, maybe your friends place, your parents apartment, exit and do not wait next year but now in december plan it and do it right away.. To be loved doesn't invalidate your right to live, you accept too many injustice.. Its far too difficult to do, but when its consistent please remember that I love you and I want what's best for you, so find that place of support and go..
You’ve seen too many post here to give you the support and strength you need to pull out of all of that, don’t just read through every article but get the true meaning.. It could just be a solid message alerting you to make some changes. This happens both ways, don't be surprised really.. my neighbor suffers at the hands of his wife, I really feel bad every single time and he hasn’t seen a clear picture and an alert yet. I’m going to try to talk to him coz he looks younger, and also relatable too don’t want to cause any problems 😅..
**Exploding Just Everything**
There have to be repeated discussion, how do you set this straight?”.. Have a proper communication, you should connect..
How can you be with your partner or any other person meaning a lot to you and you can't make a proper discussion of you and your needs and even your individual truth then that's crazy... Do you really understand what love is, you can try to fix it but when someone pounces on you with words then that's hard...
Have a honest discussion, this is your life too... You've been neglected so many times, you start a goal and your man or lady just leaves you hanging..how can love reign in that place.. This is a union and in your head you feel its heading somewhere..
This happened recently at my friends house.. Young people who literally don’t understand what being in a relationship entails, had a serious argument and if we weren’t present at that scene something bad would have happened..
*This is where I’m going to stop for now, there are many more affiliation to this but I think you get the clear picture… Begging to be loved everyday of the 365 days in 2021, really!! that’s a lot to put up with.. Tell your story, there are people who still care for you all the time and if you aren’t happy they are not as well..*
Thank you for reading… if you’ve gotten this far right here, trust me you already get the message. Take good care of yourselves..
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***December 2021***
1 bch earned in November Alone
Never would have thought this will be possible, I'm not sharing this to brag in any way, doing this for you to know thats it's all possible for you as well... and this will be a short one.. Firstly I gave myself a challenge to make above 30 articles in November but I could only pull through 29, I’m happy I did coz there was so much to do and I was trying to fully come out of a lot of things..
For readcash from all my articles total was $220, and from noise that was $320 which is a total of $540.. then the rest was from $CAT, Eben, staking Law punk NFTs, 1bch presale and from airdrops. I really wished to place this in a chart but I didn’t get the chance to… You all be asking how I made that noise, I created an account two months back on noise and it’s the best decision I made, cos my former account wasn’t earning anymore.. although right now because of a lot coming out due a lot of new opportunities, I don’t have them all together in one place.. I also like to be versatile in the smartbch world as well.
These are a little bit of my NFTs of punks and Fatcat..
Thanks to a wonderful user here @HappyBoy who helped me get these NFTs, I really started to feel the importance with these nfts and luckily I got the double knife CAT which is a rare one.. from harvesting my law punk I have gotten 65 Law in less than two weeks and I’m crazy happy about it, I also levels up with 40Law..
That aside, I want to appreciate my sponsors, all my readers and all the upvotes.. this mean a lot to me and wouldn’t have gone this far without you all.. I still have like a lot to renew which I plan to double this month cause I skipped November, please forgive me for now doing that right on time..
I added only 15 new sponsorships last month, but I plan to make that 30 because this is month of love and I love you all and we must also all make it an habit to do that as well..
I’m not really good at giving these updates, just wanted to share what I did with what came in.. could be beneficial to someone.. November was a glorious month and I really didn’t want it to end, but I hope for a better and brighter December which already started great… recently started posting on hive blog and trying to build my account over there, big shout out to @Amazing-grace for his full support.. you could join me over there as well here https://peakd.com/@kinggozie/posts
I payed up my school fees and a part of my rent with almost half of what came in and really if I don’t show my appreciation then this whole thing wouldn’t be complete.. I’m grateful to be here, noise and read changed my life and what more could I wish for than to be loved by a lot of friends.. You all have become my family as well… then a special appreciation goes to Sir **Marcdemesel**… With complete understanding of BCH and the main goal, this goes to you..
What’s coming up this month, The bch meeting will be held soon and also as a group and forum we’re planning a lot ahead to tell others who aren’t aware, the importance and acceptance of the digital eco system… we are growing in number, 5months running over hundred member shows growth.. to the team, a big shout to you..
Happy new month to everyone, and this is my prayer… *“God keeps us through and this year will not be our last but we will step into 2022 gracefully.. everything you and I wish for, even before the year runs out God will bring them all to past.. welcome to a new month of favour, of love and of good health…”*
Thank you for reading… and please stay safe. Hope you’ve made some really good decorations for Christmas.. Take good care of yourselves…
***December 2021***
“Can I Let Go Of November?”
Love isnt real, love isn't what it is but when you understand what love is, that's when you understand that love is what you need in the month of december. Remember what you've heard that in order to love someone you first have to love yourself, so what does it mean to fully love yourself.. to fully love yourself mean you're working on your mind, body and spirit that means that you have confidence, humility, ambition and goals because you love yourself.. So if you love your self it means you're able to be more open to the people around you..
Imagine when you're operating from, seriously you can build any thing but when you operate from the opposite sides which greed and envy its always difficult to start and even complete anything pure that will be long standing.. For you to start and build with stability this is where you're going to get to.. it's not really loving intimately but when you love yourself you can accept people coming into your life hence forth.
Be more kind, and you shouldn't be scared with what December has to offer but rather go into it with confidence and never settle for less.. Remember that you've got an ambition, so when you want to break through it may not be the same self or body but knowing the person you chose.
Do I have a reason to put in my absolute best?" You have to use wisdom and discretion, do not just say I want to put my best and make things more complicated than it is.. if you need to seek God first please do, if you need to take a step forward, please do.. only you can make the decision for you..
Do I have to keep giving myself false hope?" A lot of people already gave up on bitcoincash reaching its all time high in December because of what happened in November, remember what's important.. you feel that you don't have anything to hope for because everything you've done song at have been shallow. This is a fresh start for you and I and what you have to do right now is the negative mindset or money mindset or crypto mindset take them all aside..
Show love, think better, and build self confidence... December creeped on but we don't want it that way but fully into it.. November is gone and gone for good.
Few more minutes to december… love you all and wish you a happy new month… you will receive much more this season and it will be your best month ever…
Take good care of yourself..
***November 2021***
@King_Gozie
