Do you need a better relationship?
Everybody wants a better relationship because whenever a relationship is broken your life becomes broken as well. But a ton of people have terrible relationships and they dont know why and they are always constantly fighting and always in the argument mode thinking the other person isnt sufficient, isnt coming through for them, isnt happy for them, isnt more suppostive enough.
And so you have these people who have good people in their lives but their relationships are broken. Relationships can turn out bad with families, friends, partners, or a significant order which the mind is driven into making hasty decisions.
Nurturing a relationship, improving a relationship, having a better relationship with friends, partners or anybody should always be your optimum goal. And if you want those moments to last longer there are some certain ideas that can help you do that;
1 Know the goals of the person you are in a relationship with
If you dont know their goals, you can never be their great lover, great supporter or the great family member. You have to ask these questions such as What is the main goal?, What sort of career does the person have?, How do you plan on starting that career?, Is the relationship going to be short or long term?. "You have to really get into people's goals to understand their heart." If you want to be that great person to someone you have to re-engage and ask the question, what do you want at this stage of your life?.
Check the level and position you are right now, have some personal development. Moreover peoples goals change, you have to have the conversation with the important people in your life, about what your goals are and equally theirs, it is very vital to not just be at the surface level in a relationship. If you dont support other people's dream how do you intend to have a deep relationship with them. If you dont make your dreams known to people how can you be satisfied, how can you become you best you.
2 Be Honest
What are your real thoughts, your dreams and what do you want at each stage of your life with all the people around you. Is going through it all alone making a relationship healthy?, No it isnt. Always be honest about your goals.
3 Know your partners fears
Always try to know the state of your partners, your family, your kids or that significant order. If you dont know what people are scared of do you really know them?. You have to make sure they find that comfort, that certainty or stability with you. You can help each other grow, if you are in a relationship where you cant help them grow, or who cant help you grow it gets exhausting separation come in. The nights you dont respond, or you dont come back or dont reply first they have this fear due to reasons of uncertainty about certain insecurity, always know your partners fears.
4 Create Magical Experiences
Relationships are always great in the beginning. But because you really stopped creating experiences there is no glow or growth anymore , as time goes on the magic that was once so present can slowly start to fade. But according to experts, it doesn't have to. A relationship can only spark all the time if there are experiences that dosent limit your physical contact to just sex alone. Try re-creating scenes, that rekindles your relationship all the time.
Partners most especially should always feel the need to change their comfort styles doing so can help you connect well with your partner. How well do you want your relationship to last meanwhile if there is no reason for a relationship to last you shouldn't be in one.
A scenario of two people in a relationship, one of them was always bring his Game into the relationship, but his partner dosent give as much interest or bringing has much game to it... It felt as if she wasnt fully interested again, I was there to give the advice, he being the smart one coming to seek advice from me, I have to try to help out even though i knew within me it was going to be hard. After listening to my advice he went back to really find out what he's partners interest is, and what makes her happy. Relationships are stronger when there is concrete undestanding.
5 Love to a fault
Sometimes you just feel nothing all at once at some point, sometimes you find yourself smiling, at times you just love a person all the while wanting to hate them. Dont always expect perfectionalism when it comes to relationships with you partner, family, kids and the list goes on. There are times when things change, could be behavioural, could be that feeling, could be anything just make sure you keep finding that spot to love and remember it.
I would love to continue writing this later.
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