Read If you need a "Confidence Boost"

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3 years ago

Today is about 'You'.

Let me start by letting you know the definition of confidence.

Confidence is your believe, your ability and power to figure things out. Often times you cheat yourself because you think confidence is doing everything in the world or having all the success, we then ask our self: When?.

If you going to change your life, you need to right now adopt more of a confident mindset and say this "I dont have to know everything in the world or be the most successful person" what I need to do is 'Believe in myself' on the ability to figure things out and that I can achieve that dream if all I need is right there. That is where it would then begin.

Confidence basically means coming together to get your sence of worth, your sence of capability and your believes for your future.

Key words to note Worth, Ability and Future.

"If you don't believe you will have anything or dont believe in your ability, you lose the confidence to change your future."

Realisation

Most people lack confidence, but they allow their self feel that credit and how hard it was to overcome the things they faced or even just to survive.

Once you start acknowledging and having awareness to the struggles that you have had in your life and you still standing, you still here, you still want to learn and help people, to love and build, give your self credit for that.

Using this platform as an example. Give your self confidence for being here on ReadCash, I could remember the article I wrote 2weeks back and I know how I have improved and grown and getting better each day.

Have that confidence to keep going and keep working towards the things which is very important by doing so you overcome a lot of struggle.

Give yourself credit any time you overcome anything, or any challenges of life. You overcame failure, you overcame people making jest of you, you overcame that health problem.

When these things happen to you, you get discouraged and you know for sure that you still alive, and you still to get better, and you still got more ideas coming.

You have worked each day to get there, most people would have quit but here you are still showing up, still writing, still getting better. Good for you give yourself credit, it all starts with giving yourself that care knowing fully well of the obstacles you overcame and the ones you about to overcome.

I was going through some comments of some well known writers on Readcash, and someone in the comment section wasn't happy with the reward system on this platform: my advise is do not let it bother you just keep doing what you do, your work will soon be recognized.

Most people are good at things but dont recognise that they are actually good at it because sometimes you are always waiting to be the best in the world.

"The little things you are good at, give yourself credit for it."

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Aspiration

Let your dream energize you everyday. You may mess up each day, and if you dont align yourself with future possibilities, your confidence level goes down to zero.

"Visualize your goal and dreams and see yourself doing it and also making a difference."

Measures

Work towards that goal, do not stop the plan you have. Figure out the next level of action that will raise you upto a success level, that will give you that inspiration or that bold action you need to make you better.

"Challenge yourself to move outside your comfort zone."

Re-orientation

Certain thoughts run through your mind each day, If I change my mind or I do this new thing I might lose something I like, or I care for or I adore.

If I make a big change in my life I might lose my job, my relationship, my spouse or that connection or even a benefit.

An Example is when you are in a job and you seriously want to come out of it to a better one or you are pursuing a new school because you dont like the present one so you lose confidence. You must

"Focus your mind truly on what you will gain not what you will lose".

Distinction

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Doing something new is hard, it takes a lot of processes and deep thoughts. Might be challenging but it will help you reach your full potential or your highest life.

You can gain full confidence from separation, from uniqueness, from quality, from difference.

An example is a smoker trying to quit smoking, quitting is not the problem but dealing with the processes of quitting.

"Do not be afraid of unleashing your full potential."

Outcome

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You wonder how the outcome will be, if you have truly given it your all or if your starting will have a good finish. Going through the difficult work fearful of what the outcome will be, well to cut it short "BE CONFIDENT IN YOURSELF"

"Confidence is a choice, you must re-strtegise and re-program your mind to be challenged in working that process of productivity to success. "

Last note

The secret to achieving anything you place your mind to do just takes one day of action and conviction. Be unstoppable.

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3 years ago

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This is a good message for everyone out there including me to stop being scared and be confident. Thank you for this article

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3 years ago

Thank you for going through

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3 years ago

Confidence is really one key for success. However, in my case I have a lot of insecurities that stops me from going. And that makes me frustrated. I do not have the confidence to continue.

But as I read your article, I was caught on this one, "Visualize your goal and dreams and see yourself doing it and also making a difference."

I've always dreaming myself what would I become after years and I realized that I should start working on it by now. Thank you so much for your article that it made me realized things.

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3 years ago

It is such a great feeling to write something and see the impact, I really do hope you achieve all that you set your mind to do and eventually we would all arrive at that desired destination. It all really starts with what we can do Now'. Thank you for reading and commenting.

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3 years ago

You are welcome. I really enjoyed reading it. You do the same.

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3 years ago

Confidence is a choice I agree with that, focussing more on the gains can somehow be tricky and has its downside although its good to have that confident mind. Good article and write up

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3 years ago

Thank you for reading...I hope you do find that confidence

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3 years ago

I have taken the confidence boost after reading your article, nice one boss

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That's nice to hear sir Gaftek, Thank you for reading and commenting

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3 years ago

Just as you said we should focus or the gain and not the loss. But even as we are doing this we should always remember that life cannot always be smooth. Hence, we should not overlooked the fact that we might be faced with challenges sometimes. But how confident we are is what will make us standout.

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3 years ago

Very true Queen...it cant always be smooth. Thank you

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