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You will surely get a grand invite to it, 😊 that’s moment is much closer now.. thank you Mazekin
I don’t mean this to make you feel left out or be in a haste Jax… anytime you feel is the right moment, it’s your choice and no one should be a dictator of that… it’s better to be more prepared than to make a commitment and break it..
To me, age and love should not be taken for granted in marriage nor be considered irrelevant. The reason is that; underage individuals should not even dare marriage most especially those who physically are not mature likewise mentally. We are in the days where age 14 - 17years individual looks more mature in size (physically) than their normal age some even reason and talk like an adult. Such must be looked into before considering marriage. Also, the context of love in this generation has been misused. When someone tells you "I Love You" what first comes to your mind? That is the problem, many go into relationships to see if the love they claim they have can work. That is no love because genuine love always works. If it doesn't work it is not love. Love is not to gainsay others but to gain others to love by your input sacrificially. Love and age matter in the context of marriage because it tells on the marriage later in the future. Remember that it will also be passed unto the next generation (one's offspring) knowingly or unknowingly. Wishing all soon to be couples a blissful marriage in advance by 2022... Peace ✌️ #OkanlaDavid
Thank you David for an amazing contribution… the last few point I could relate with when it comes to passing it down to offsprings, no one wants to be old when their kids are just 20 years of age… I actually just gave you this topic cause you did more justice to it than I did. Thank you for you wish happy new year in advance..
Marriage is,a beautiful thing and every one is expected to get married one day. But sometimes I don't think marriage is for everyone. Some people are better off being alone.
It depends on what path one decides to take although I wouldn’t fully side being alone, it could be something that led into that mindset and when that feeling is wrong then it doesn’t feel right… when something is a cause of something it doesn’t fully represent the main desire of that person.. thanks Dear
I have also thought about marriage and its benefits at one point, and truly it's the best thing in the world but only if you marry the right person. Some persons are scared of marriage probably because they are afraid of commitment, but it's easier when you find the right person
Yeah, it turns back to be chaotic when we chose people based on marriage sake and not in terms of love and connection… I wouldn’t blame anyone fully in that area, because brother it’s not easy to find someone that has all the qualities and most times ladies will wait till they find that one… but at the same we must allow a space in our heart to find the right person.. thanks Kushyzee
There are still some that have preferences beyond 30 and the most important thing is all you’ve highlighted, based on the financial and emotional aspect as well as taking it seriously… it’s very important to plan before venturing into marriage, at least start from the basics. Thank you so much
They’re ages to get married for woman and I don’t think man can’t get married at any time if the man is still strong enough to work and have a good financial portfolio because most woman now a days doesn’t support man.
It equally goes for men too, you wouldn’t want to be old when the thought of marriage comes in… but at the same time we believe finance and money is everything, it goes beyond that… there must be complete understanding of what it entails.. this is a good write up
I love the statement you made “not everyone will be happy” I think sometimes we get scared to get too intimate with anyone that we limit our opportunities… so I believe there shouldn’t be draw backs and even shouldn’t be a huge barrier, immediately there’s a connection and you’ve studied each other for some time there’s no reason for delay… Everyone has their preferences though…
That’s right and I think this was one of the major reason for the topic… self development and self appreciation is key in everything, it feels so easy out there because we’ve taken the time to walk on ourselves… thank you Seq
Welcome dear,took a time and thought have you even seen any girl you like most from your x 😅. When you plan to get married then your girlfriend have not your or you saw every girl beautiful from her😅 and you mind starts some thoughts that would be "yes or not".you would see more beautiful girls. I have passed from these situations😁.
Really dear? You just put me in your marriage scam. I was happy and now I understand the prank.
I’m sorry 😅😅… I knew you would want to say congratulations on my newly found bride.. I won’t put it out there without a proper intention next time..
Thinking of marriage is a good thing. I believe that the best age to get married is 27yo to 33yo. Money is necessary, as well as employment (not just employment but well paying job)
Your preference is what I would suggest as well… money should be readily available, atleast there are responsibilities you and I should be able to cater for.. even asides money, maturity plays an important role too..
I think any age can be appropriate when the right people come together at the right time and decide to get married. Just because marriage involves serious responsibilities, the parties should be ready at the point of meeting the responsibilities. There is love, and I believe that anyone who keeps their expectations low will experience love.
Very true… we must realize that there will be responsibilities but that shouldn’t scare us to make a serious commitment.. From your perspective, marriage isn’t child’s play and when one decides to go into it there must me readiness towards that motive.. I appreciate your opinion so much.
I lean towards your response and I appreciate your contribution… I feel the same way and wouldn’t base my marriage based on age alone but how far we’ve built a connection… it has to do with complete readiness like you’ve said.. thank you dear
Hehe, not when I’m here 😔… I really do have a soft side for you dear.. all that’s aside why do you want to remain single or planning to?”
Thank you… thought I could treat the topic quite differently and as well making everyone surprised 😅.. I’m glad you stopped by
I’m sorry for keeping this amazing write up waiting… I need to learn about these things form you sir, a class will do… nothing we left out of this write up and I’m fully with you on every opinion… I can really add much coz you literally said the most important things, we must understand why marriage entails and not just jump into it because someone else did the same or we get talked into it.. thank you so much
Very well said Princess and after reading your write up, it explained further… understanding must be there and really it’s not about age although everyone has their preferences but it shouldn’t be an important factor to have a good marriage…
That’s true… if we are not fully prepared there’s no reason to be in one. If it would require building up together with the next person that shouldn’t be neglected…
That’s right Mayiee, it’s not a joking matter, we just be aware of every requirements before even thinking of a a commitment… thank you
Very well said Ay.. thank you
You have to love yourself first before someone can love you. I won't say marriage is smooth and love alone can't sustain it but its also a beautiful thing I have watched my parents come this far so it still encourages me about marriage. I am pretty sure she has her reasons for saying that but doesn't know about it yet
Everything with its season dear... when it’s the right moment you will find the perfect match… happy new year 💛
I love your decision and that’s a good one and you felt happy with the outcome… it’s an individual thing, when one feels it’s time then go for it.. Thank you Remona
Out of rush most people fall into the wrong set of partners… and meanwhile marriages end because of this.. I feel at the point of having a conviction, there’s no excuse given that can mend anything.. It should have been properly planned with the right mindset..
It’s still a good age and I agree with you.. you dad got married really early and that’s the first time I’m seeing that age for a man.. it was his decision and I’m sure that was the best moment.. I could come play basket ball with you
Isn't it just amazing how many people now these days don't even regard marriage. I'm totally with you on this one too. As for the age of getting married, to me personally, it's anywhere between I think 19 upwards as long as you're financially stable.
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