Pregnancies do not get less special.
When I pregnant for the 2nd time and I make a lot of jokes because I tell people what they expect to hear... "meh it's just another one, I do this all the time". But the truth is it is still just exciting, it might be "another" child but it is also a "different" child. It is still the land of the unknown. Every pregnancy I have had has been different, every labour has been different and every child has been different.
It saddens me that we get to a point of lesser excitement with women who choose to have bigger families. "She can't have a baby shower because she already had one before" is every baby not worth celebrating? That is like letting only one person per family have a birthday?
Imagine having a party and only welcoming one of your guests in and then ignoring the rest because "you've already welcomed one".
Pregnancy does not lose it's meaning because you have done it before, it gets way more exciting "who are you going to be" , "what will your personality be like", "where will you sit at the table?", "what will your favourite colour be?".
I don't care how many times you do it, having a baby once or 1000 times brings all of the same fears, excitement and love. And don't ever feel bad for celebrating each and every child you decide to welcome into the world ❤
These thoughts giving such awareness who is becoming a mother now or have plans to be pregnant, being a mother was a great blessing from God and making it a treasurable moment of your life was an amazing experience