You're not allowed to have a child!
"When you become a mom you'll understand things." A reminder we received from adults who already experienced motherhood. The excitement feeling is there when you're expecting a baby (well if it is not unwanted pregnancy) and we should be aware that having a child needs more effort, sacrifice, patience, and everything you think will be good for them.
May 3, 2021, I become a mom with 2 angels. They didn't come out in my womb but they are formed in my heart. I found Mimi and Nini in the Facebook group (Dog and Cat Adoption) and adopted them when they are 2 weeks old. They are not that cute before as they are now but I still choose them. It was challenging because I don't have any idea how to take care of them. I have a cat when I was 6 years old but I didn't take care of her very well because my grandpa hates cats. He always throw it in the pond and I can't do anything because he scolded and whipped me. So it means, this is is my first time taking care seriously of pets.
Mimi is sweet ever since but Nini is elusive. She doesn't want to be touched. I searched about it and read that maybe she feels stressed. So I let her be and played always with Mimi. They help me recover from my anxiety. If you're my avid reader you will always read how very stressed I am in my life and I write those burdens here.
One time I regret why I adopted them. I feel stressed about the expenses of their needs. They consume $30 every month and it was heavy for me because I still don't have a job and at that time we have a problem with our debts. They also ruin things and their hair is everywhere. I plan to give them to others but I get conscience looking at them.
"What if they will treat them bad?"
"What if they will just give them leftover food?"
"What if they will not give them milk? Which is favorite of Mimi? "
"What if they will not buy them litter sand and let them pee or poop in the dirt outside"
They are very spoiled to me that's why Nini is a brat.
Now they are a big girl and they experiencing the in heat feeling, I feel worried because they want to get mate. Gaaaad! They are not yet 1 year old and now want to give me a grandchild! No way! I will not allow them to have a child because they are still young and I don't have huge funds to sustain them and their child. Plus we're not living in our own house and my neighbors will sure report us because pets don't allow here and I'm just hiding them.
Earlier Nini is restless. She seems crying for help. She keeps her butt up. Maybe the in heat feeling hurts her that's why she keeps meowing. I did the remedy method for her, which is the acupressure that I learned on YouTube.
Watch here to understand more.
Since I don't have enough savings to bring them to the vet to capon them, the acupressure remedy helps, to make them calm.
I'm still thinking if I will let them have a child or not because there is also part of me, I want them to become a mother but I will be the one who will suffer huhu haha!
Reminder to those who plan to have a pet:
If you want to take care of a pet make sure you are ready for the responsibility. They have also feeling and hope you have a heart for them.
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You did really well in taking care of them and not abandoning them, they should be very grateful to you. Concerning the giving birth of a thing, I think you should sit them down and talk to them that if they get pregnant, they are going to be fully responsible for their child š¤£