The curse of asking "Are you pregnant?"

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"The world is fair people are not" Do you agree or not? That world treats us equally but greedy people want to dominate our failures just to hide their imperfections. They destroy others to keep their secrets buried.

I guess you have those people now in your head. Sometimes your relatives, often you're perfect neighbors. Haha lol, they are the ones who made up the story for your life that is based on their real lives. In short the director of your life. Hahaha.

"You're getting fat, are you pregnant?" The most question that can offend women who gain weight because of hormonal imbalance. Even you tell them "No" they will still not believe and create a story on their own and spread it to others.

Just Now!

I hear the news that my tomboy neighbor is 2 months pregnant. Actually, I heard it from their mouth, from the tomboy and her live-in partner. I get confused about why they told me about it. I'm just passing earlier to the gate where they are both talking then they called my name. I'm not so close to them then suddenly they want to share it? For what? Then I remember maybe she feel guilty for asking me before if I was pregnant because I'm getting fat. She also asks our other neighbors opinion and they look at me and said I'm not but she keeps insisting on it. Then now she confesses it before others will know about it. She didn't hear anything offensive words from me cause I don't care. That is her life and I don't have the contribution to get involved.

Tomboy's live-in partner Lyn: Thought you already knew it Zy.

Me: Eh? Me? Will know? That you all know I don't want to go outside my cave. Hahaha

Tomboy: It happened one night only.

Lyn: Zy? Do you believe it was one time only?

Me: Hehe. I don't know. Maybe she is fertile at that time. Hehe. Take care of yourself Ate. Stop smoking and drinking it will affect your baby.

Lyn: Yes, I told her about it but she's hard-headed.

Tomboy: I don't have regrets, at least now I already have my own child. We're quits. (She said to Lyn that has already one child. I left because they started to exchange words)

I don't judge her because she is still a woman and that is part of life. We all gonna get there. But I don't know what's with her why she was ended having contact with someone she just met on the dating app. Maybe of curiosity? She falls to the guy or the woman feeling is gotten into her already. She cheated on Lyn. However, she accepted it because Lyn cheated first and she got a child.

I suddenly remember my classmate in college. She has beauty, brains, talents, and not so good attitude however men still like her and wanted to court her cause she also entertains them even she already has a boyfriend. We have this group of girls in our room who always do make-ups, selfies, talk to our guy classmates, and they are very noisy that irritates her every time she sees them.

"Looking from their action, for sure they will get pregnant immediately," She said it to our other classmate and she thought that friend was true to her but it wasn't. Our classmate told those girls and they fight and that brings them to detention office.

"You judge our action while you're doing it too! Come on don't act like a modest where you're actually a whore!" Said our trigger classmate to her. Since then, even after we graduate they didn't talk anymore. By the way, those noisy girls graduated with us and that one judgemental classmate didn't. She got pregnant when we were in our 2nd year in college.

Moral lesson:

Don't ask if you know it doesn't have importance to you. Be sensitive to others' feelings. If you don't want to get offended, don't do it to others.

Less talk less mistake.

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