Since intimacy in several different dimensions is the bonding material which holds a marriage, it’s important that we look at these for potential compatibility.
Intellectual harmony or compatibility is another ingredient, but it doesn’t mean you have to have the same degrees, number of degrees, vocational interest, etc. You probably won’t see things the same or even think the same.
Your learning styles may be different in that one may enjoy learning through what they see and the other through what they hear. Being married provides an opportunity for each of you to grow intellectually and also discover to a greater degree your spiritual giftedness.
Some who marry are avid readers, and some are not. I may be the reader, but it isn’t my spouse's main source of learning. Sometimes this is affected by time availability as well as vocational pursuits and time of life.
Be open to being challenged by the other person’s knowledge, insights, and opinions, which creates growth in both of you. Respecting your mate’s abilities and differences is part of intellectual compatibility.
