Date: 8 August 2022 Monday
Post No. 5
Topic: Love & Friendship,Which is best.
🖋️ Writer: @Kawsarr
If you are asked which relationship is best. Love relationship is best or friendship is best? The answer of many people will be different. Some will say that love is great and some will not say that friendship is great. Many will draw many arguments behind this. Yes, that's normal.
Like if I were asked the same question, I would say either one and give a lot of reasoning behind it. Suppose someone asks me a question today and I answer it and present some arguments. Difference between love and friendship, similarities and lastly which one is bigger. Hope everyone will read the article carefully.
Definition of love
Love is something that feels different to one person than to anyone else and feels different to that person than everyone else. A different fondness for him is usually what we call love. Seeing someone else's loved one makes us jealous and not talking to him makes us feel uncomfortable. In a word, love is a feeling that affects a certain person and has full rights towards him. Love includes the right to love and to keep good. Here will assure your lover to be well and take care of her. This is what usually happens in our society. Love is usually between a boy and a girl.
Definition of friendship:-
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Friendship is something that is common between two minds or more than one mind. Friendship can be with a few people instead of with one person but the best friend is usually one that means the person who is closest and best in the circle of friends is the best friend. But they will be by each other's side. There is no extra emotion like love but there is no lack of tension. So friendship is the back and the other side of the coin. Just as there are no coins in a coin without two floors, there is no friendship if two minds are not united.
Similarities Between Friendship and Love
One of the similarities between friendship and love is that both of them have a passion for each other and both of them have love. A lover has different feelings towards his lover and soul towards her and on the other hand a friend has a different love for his friend and tension between them. In a relationship, both want each other's good and wish each other well and perform their duties accordingly. In this respect the two things are almost the same.
Contrast between love and friendship
The main difference between love and friendship is that love is between a particular person and friendship can be with several people. There is one person in love and many people in friendship. Of course, it is different for those who love two or three. Because their mind is so big, they can love two or three people together. And on the other hand friendship can be our trade like in school life college life we meet many people and be friends with many people but those who are friends are not your or my boyfriend or girlfriend they are just friends but among them there is a best friend with whom the person who loves Can be compared. Many times lovers put their lover in para. Again they want to keep each other under more rights. And on the other hand there is no problem in friendship. Rather, there is chatter and endless freedom in friendship. Because if we want to share something, we do it with friends and even if we want to have a good time somewhere, we spend it with friends.
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Love and friendship complement each other.
There are many cases among us that we fall in love with our girl or boy friend. This happens more when boy and girl are best friends for a long time. Because the understanding between them is good, they form new relationships. Again the relationship with our boyfriend or girlfriend is so intense that they become our friends. Looking at it another way, it can be seen that there is love in all relationships. There is no relationship without love, be it love or friendship. So it can be said that friendship and love complement each other.
Which relationship is best for me?
As I said earlier, each person may like each other. Some will say that love relationship is best and some will say that friendship relationship is better than love. Let's see which relationship is best.
A love relationship is formed through good understanding between two people. Two people have to have the same likes and dislikes and the same mind. If two people don't have the same mind and understanding, then the love relationship breaks down. And I have seen many love relationships where there is a lot of love and care between them during the relationship but after the relationship breakup, the two people are very distant. stinks That is, when their interests are exhausted, they cannot tolerate each other. This happens even if there is a divorce after marriage.
And on the other hand, there is always a tension in the relationship of friendship, even if there is a quarrel between them, they do not want to hear backbiting from others in the name of a friend. Because their friendship is very strong. Friendship does not break for small reasons. But love relationships break due to a little misunderstanding. I have seen such friends who even if there is animosity between them, if someone attacks one friend, the other friend will go to save him. Even if he is not there in good times, he will be there in bad times. But that is not the case with love. Of course, not all love is the same. Some love relationships are very strong.
So finally it can be said that friendship relationship is stronger and better than love relationship.
Many people get a new gf bf and forget the old friend. But at the end of the day, that friend stays by your side, not the GF or the BF. So we should be careful not to forget the old friend in a new love relationship.
In the end, I want all friendships to be victorious and all love relationships to be fulfilled.
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Thanks everyone for Reading ❤️
Personally, I would choose these two. Both friendship and loveship for me are important. I could remember during College days --when we have a debate about this topic. But at the end of the debate we both find ways to value friendship and the love with one another. I'd like to take a chance saying that this article has been very interesting.
Anyway, I'd like to invite you my friend, to take a look on my second article that I have published. Thank you. Have a good day. ^_^