5 Relationship Advice for Long Happy Life
Maintaining a happy and long-lasting relationship is one of the difficult things to do in life. It can change your life. It can give both joy and sorrow.
Without raising a single problem, your relationship won't be lost long. Everyone fought with their partner.
But in the end, you mostly remember how you are happy with your partner. Well if it's a normal relationship.
When you feel lonely your mind starts to wander off on its own and find your happiest memory with your partner.
It may be small things like teasing, smiling, or how they take care of you. Even if you try hard to think of sad memories with your partner your mind automatically reverts to happy memories.
Because you're lonely, you want some attention, some love. So your brain finds some happy memories and replays them in your mind to make you feel relieved. (But we don't feel relieved though)
After all, humans only rely on our memories. Whether it's sad or joy, it doesn't matter, it's a memory, the proof that we are still alive.
Be Kind to each other
No, it's not like I think you are not kind to your partner, I am saying be kind to each other until the very end.
In the beginning, you overflow with your love and affection but after a few years, you will become a different person.
You stop caring about your partner, but you don't notice that you are already changed.
You will realise when things go wrong that leads to a breakup. Because I do this when I was an immature person.
So be kind to each other, when you are with your partner just try to forget your worries and focus on them.
Make Sure you Meet Your Partner's Need
In a relationship, it's mostly like give and take policies. Well, this is real. Everyone has expectations from you.
And those expectations are satisfied by giving and taking. You both need to give something to each other and take something from each other.
It may be a worldly thing or things like care affection, jealousy, or possessiveness. Everybody has different expectations.
This mutual sharing increases your bond with your partner. Make sure you are not the only one who gives or who takes.
Say "Thank You" When you have the Opportunity
This may sound silly. "What's going to happen if I say Thank you?". Well, it may seem something simple but it's not.
When your partner offers you something, you should at least thank them to show that you appreciate their gesture.
Because we don't know how much effort your partner put into that. So saying 'Thank You' will make them feel like that effort was worth it.
When I was in my college days, my girlfriend (now she is my ex) make some delicious food for me. I thought it was just food right.
For making that food she had to wake up at morning 4 O clock. Two hours for food preparation and in one hour she had to get ready and had to take a bus for college at 7 O clock.
Normally her mom was the one to prepare food for her, but just because I asked her to bring food for me she had to do all this.
You know how much this lasts. For one month, I have no idea she is doing this for me. So if your partner offers something to you just say thank you it doesn't matter if you mean it or not just say it.
Listen to Each Other
Don't listen like a Google Assistant or Alexa. They won't talk back until you finish your sentence.
Both of you had to go through so much stuff. So listen actively to your partner's problems when they share with you.
Try to find a solution. Maybe your partner feels like someone stalking her. A problem like this cannot be shared with their family.
So their first choice is you, their partner and the second choice is their friends. Even if I say you can share it with your friends, the best option is the person they are in a relationship with.
So it's not just listening to your partner, first listen and help them as best as you can. Without a lot of words just show them how much you love in actions.
Make a Shared Goal Calendar
Most people have goals in their minds. You have a goal, and your partner has a goal. That's what keeps us active every day.
Create a calendar for finance, travel, learning dancing, hiking and something that you two want to do as a couple.
This helps you and your partner to spend more time together and create a deep bond with each other.
The main reason for a shared goal calendar is to spend time together happily, so choose something both of you are loved to do.
Planning big stuff (like babies 'Waah Waah' and twinkle twinkle houses) for the future can be fun and lift you from the boring daily life.
So take care of each other, I wish you have a long happy life with your partner.
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