I will never forget the day which changed my whole life.This is story if my own life which changed in a couple of moments.
It was 7th of August 2020 when I called my friend and said"babe ! I have very important announcement but it can only be possible when we meet".
She replied"okay sweetie, ! Tomorrow we gonna meet and I have an announcement too ".then she replied with loving texts and emojis.
The very next day we had our confirmation of venue and we met.after half and hour I said " I think we are missing something ?".then she replied "yes ! We had announcements ".
On that day I was going to propose her for marriage because we had amazing understanding and we had 15 months of relationship and this was quite enough time to understand each other and I knew in these 15 months or you may say 14 months she had same feelings but from last month I had observed some changes And I even asked her but she would reply nothing is happening.
After my insist she was the first to make an announcement and her announcement changed my whole life.actually it was not announcement it was decisions and decisions change lives.
She said "look ! We are best friends and even we will be best friends but ".She stopped there fir a while and asked her to continue.she started again" a month ago I talked to my parents about you and they refused our marriage and they they gave me option to marry my cousin and I have accepted the marriage".
I was silent because I had no words to say then she started again " I had announcements which is I am going to marry my cousin on 14th of August and I am very happy you are the first to whom I am sharing my happiness because you are my best friend".she knew everything and my pain as well but she did and she said" you had announcement ? ".But I said "forget it let's celebrate your happiness !".The Ring in my pocket was insisting to propose her may be it was the last chance but I didn't because I knew she had her decision.
I made I lame excuse that I am going to do some important stuff.and then i went from there I am not angry on her but I have some words for whole society whether they are boys or girls that never ever attache someone emotionally and If you want that then try to have guts for that person to be your life partner because after 15 months you are saying my family is not accepting this 😢😢😢.
This was 8th of August which completely took my whole happiness from me and I have still that ring in my wallet which was going to be in her hand but unfortunately it wasn't possible.
This was my own story...
The Bible says “A good wife is from the Lord”. If you believe in God and it was decided that this young woman would not be your wife, then trust that God has decided this matter for you. Sometimes what we want and what God gives are two different things. Trust what God gives you. 💖