Life revolves on how to be accepted by the society—on what to do, what to act. But then I asked myself, is there anything we can do to disdained being accepted through their standard instead be accepted by who we are?
Some envy girls that have a fair glass skin, long flawless legs, coca-cola bottle body or carrying luxurious belongings. Aching that someday, they too will experience those. they’re desiring to feel acceptance of the people giving them, not even realizing that slowly, they became a robot who only does what his master wants him to do—a robot which live because someone is controlling him. Is this the life you want?
Now, can we stop being insecure?
Of course, the answer is no. We can’t stop it but we can prevent it. Sounds easy? I bet it isn’t.
Humans cannot feel contentment in nature. We ache for more and more and more and more. There’s no way to quench the thirst we have not fulfil the our satisfaction level. Maybe we can be satisfied by one, but soon when we felt it, we will desire another. It’s just a cycle—once you achieved one, you will reach for the other.
If I can’t stop it, how can i prevent being insecure?
My answer will be accept who you are—embrace your flaws, embrace your life. Yes, it is pleasing to be seen as someone accepted by everybody but it is best when you see that there are people who are accepting you by not changing who you are. Perfection does exist when someone based it on the standard he made. And to tell you honestly, you can be perfect if you see yourself as perfect. If you want to change, do it for yourself because at the end of the day it is yourself that you have.
The decision is yours—either live your life as a human or live as machine.
yup, beig conteted of who you are. do not compare your self with them and you should understand that from the start no one is born similar nor perfect. you are unique in your own way and better from them in different way.