Happy to Write or Write to be Happy?

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3 years ago

Is it a Job, a Charity, or a Hobby?

Over the last few days, this has been on my mind. When does a hobby become a job and vice versa? We have all heard of the cliché - if you love your job, you'll never have to work another day!

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Personally, that sounds ridiculous though I do admit that there's an element of truth to it. Why is it ridiculous and still has an element of truth?

There's always a threshold of how much you can accept or even enjoy something. I stay away from the word 'love' because I found that there are no less than four types of 'love' and as many as eight types that I know of. We can debate on the meaning of 'love your job' until the cow comes home and may not reach a consensus. In my opinion, love is too strong a word to be used on something like a job. Like, enjoy - yes. Love, no.

Here's my argument, if you love your job so much that it makes you feel you never have to work another day, then let me ask you this question - since you "love" it so much, would you do it for free? Okay, if that sounded a little extreme, how about this? Would you work this job the rest of your life without a raise? I guess not.

Despite that, I do believe there's an element of truth to that cliché. If you really think about it, I'm sure you'll agree that it is undeniably better to have a job you enjoy so much that it felt like you are not working at all. It's an event or activity that you look forward to every day. A much better option than dreading to go to work. Trust me, I've experienced that.

My Reflection

I'll do my best to break down my thought process. The thoughts that started this reflection and that started this article. Without further ado, let's start.

1. The trigger

This was the trigger that got me thinking about the above. Actually, two activities started this train of thought.

The first one was my recent taking up blockchain games and various exciting blockchain projects. Cyberspace has no lack of information and articles about play-to-earn, free-to-play, pay-to-earn, mining, farming, faucets, new blockchain projects, etc. Most if not all allude to the potential to generate a passive income.

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Whether a passive income is achievable or not, these games and projects do take up a big chunk of your life. Total immersion can easily take up 8 to 10 hours or your day.

Regardless, this has gotten me thinking - is this a job, or is this a hobby? This being a job is not that far-fetched. I've read there are individuals as well as families playing games and earning a livelihood for just doing that. The pandemic coupled with enabling technologies has presented a paradigm shift in how we look at jobs and how we interact.

2. The reality

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Yes, I admit. I enjoyed this routine. Spending time doing research, doing what I'm supposed to do in these games and projects to expand my "net worth" is truly very engaging. Some have communities that will go out of the way to help you.

It has been addictively alluring, so much so that I was thinking how nice it would be if this was my job. To be honest, though I enjoyed (read 'love') it so much, I wouldn't do it if the rewards were purely derived from satisfaction in playing and participating in these projects. If there were no financial rewards (though unrealized), I wouldn't be investing my time in them. At least not a big chunk of my life, anyway.

3. The Motivation

Along the same line of argument as the previous paragraph, I'd started writing on and off for about a year. It is a hit and miss in this endeavor. Truth be told, writing is not my strength. Hated it in school and this feeling hasn't changed much since then.

Words do not flow naturally for me. I'm a more contemplative person. More times than I can recall, ideas and thoughts flowed when I let my mind daydream but when it was time to sit down and put those thoughts into words, everything vanished into thin air. Poof! All gone. I'm stuck with the dreaded writer's block and believe me, it is a thick block. Words don't come easy to me. There was a song about that too. It's simply called - Words. Well, not exactly related to my point, but that's exactly my point. Lol.

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So, when I did hit the mental jackpot with an article and it trended, for a while at least, I was ecstatic. Could the next one be a blockbuster sequel? Unfortunately, it usually isn't and that's the case with my follow-up article. Lol. Such is life.

Guess what? This was the second activity that started the "if you love your job" thoughts. If writing was my job - do I love my job so much that I'll never have to work another day? It didn't take long for me to answer that. It's a big 'No'! Work is work and a job is a job no matter how much you love it. It's a transaction. You are selling your skill, knowledge, and time in return for a financial reward.

Remember I mentioned earlier in this article the word 'threshold'? I strongly believe that there's a threshold to everything, however good. One cannot escape from the law of diminishing return. The question to ask is what do you do when you reach this threshold. You will reach it. I did.

I have to take a closer look at why I write. Do I write to earn? Do I write to share? Do I write to get approval? Do I write to compile my ideas and/or thoughts? Or are they all of the above? A monkey tapping at the keyboard does not give a hoot about the above. But you and I, we are different - we think, therefore we are. What we think is important and sometimes what other think molds what we think.

My Final Thoughts (for now)

I have come to the conclusion that I write to improve myself. Over these past few months, I have noticed improvements in my writing. In spite of the occasional writer's block, it has become easier to write.

Sometimes, I'm happy to write. These are the times I'm inspired and where the ideas just flowed. Sometimes I write to be happy. These are the times where I disciplined myself to write. The encouragements received from my readers and fellow writers nudge me to be persistent and continue to write. It's strange to say this but writing has become an acquired love, if there's such a term.

To summarize, I'm happy to write but I don't derive my joy from writing. That's a topic for another article.

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For someone who does not derive joy from writing... to produce such lengthy articles, who could tell? well, as the saying goes, the more you write, the better you get. Hope that when words flow freer, you will get that occasional joy from writing.

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3 years ago

Wow. Had no idea how I could have missed replying to your comment. Thank you. I'm usually very quiet but sometimes once I get started, I can't stop. That's my problem. LOL.

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I have just reread this and tipped again as I love love it! I write to improve myself too, but I derive great joy from the input and output :-) I love following you on your writing journey too.

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Hi Samantha! It's always an encouragement for me to hear from you. Thank you for your kind words. I wonder if after another 6 months of writing there'll be any noticeable change in my writing style or if there's any improvement. I hope so. Will see.

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I have noticed improvement in my own writing in 3 months. I think it has so much to do with writing regularly, keeping the flow going, challenging ourselves and engaging with others and by doing so learning and growing all round :-) I have no doubt that as an already accomplished writer, you will still go on to improve all aspects of your writing if you continue to do the above :-)

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You are right. Take for example today. I was struggling in writing something but I did manage to write something that'll be useful for writers here and it's based on my own experience. It is a fun journey and I'm enjoying it very much. Meeting friendly writers along the way is just icing on the cake! Thanks for chatting. Do take care and stay safe.

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Do i love the job i have now enough to do it for free? - hell no! hahahah. I haven't in a long time really thought of any job I'd love to do for free EXCEPT paid travelling provided also that all expenses will be paid but obviously I am day dreaming.

As for writing I purposefully did not queue up anything related to writing during college apps before simply because the thought of doing something I've come to love doing and then putting a price on them will make it less from the heart eventually. Well, that was just my thoughts then.

Now, I'm here for the fun of writing and reading. and initially to snoop around and see what's going on and yes ofcourse the extra kaching that goes with it.. until.. seconding on what Eylz stated below.. enjoying even more because eventually it led me to people - awesome people .. who then writes kick ass articles as well and encourages you to go type away, too. Which makes it a yes and a yes to answer your title.

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Hi. Please accept my apologies for the late reply. Been trying to keep to date on my writing and add a couple more as spares. Somewhat caught up by now but would like to keep a few more for rainy days.

I aim to clear as many of my notifications as I can today and well, here I am. :)

I'm glad that your answer is Yes and Yes. :) You'll have lots of fun for sure. It's great being rewarded for writing and learning how to write. See you in your articles. Cheers!

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3 years ago

No apologies needed!! ;)

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Thank you. Actually, enjoying the process. Still manageable. :)

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Really great article. So pleased you commented on my recent article. I generally then go and have a read of anyone who has and often end up following them. You got my upvote, a small tip and a follow. BTW, you write really well. Very easy to read. You have a natural flow.

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Hi Samantha! Thank you for visiting and leaving very encouraging comments and then some. When it flows, it pours. But I do have a nagging fear that what if I run out of steam and passionate things to write about. I guess I shouldn't cross bridges not there yet. LOL.

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Now you give me something to think about....hmm for me.. at first it's because of bch but i learned that its not enough for me to keep on writing... Then it's my willingness to share... And now its because I'm enjoying it already you know why? Because i met new friends... To whom i can share what I'm writing... I may not be a good writer yet but i know I'll get there someday but for now, I'm thankful to friends like you who appreciate my writing even if its not the best article and I'm earning from it too. 😍

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Going through what I missed out in replies as much as I can today. I'm learning from you, my friend. :)

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Yes, encouragements from friends go a long way. Likewise, I'm blessed to have fellow writing friends like you who encourage me to write more. And what's interesting is that your writing topic will trigger memories and ideas for me to write. In fact, I'll working on an article because I'd read your Four Seasons...Life or Weather? article.

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