There is no total happiness; Happiness of life is incomplete.

Happiness varies by person or rather is relative . what makes one happy can make the other sad and what works for you may not work for another person. Man's pursuit for happiness each day is something commendable but know that there is no complete happiness.

According to Sonja Lyubomirsky in her 2007 book The How of Happiness elaborates and describes Happiness as "the experience of joy, contentment, or positive well being, combined with a sense that one's life is good, meaningful and worthwhile.

It is the sensation of having the time of your life and wanting to make the most of it.The "hidden ingredient" that can help us be and perform at our best is happiness.Researchers researched about happy people and discovered that they are more successful.It is easier for happy people to accomplish goals.

Furthermore, according to Aristotle, happiness consists in achieving, through the course of a whole lifetime, all the goods- health, wealth, knowledge , friends, etc.,-- that lead to the perfection of human nature and to the enrichment if human life. This requires us to make choices, some of which may be very difficult.

Everybody wants to be happy. In our quest for happiness we should understand that happiness is not complete. It is not total. There is no total happiness in this life. If you have everything complete, everything you wished and dreamt of including physical and non- physical, come and oppose or debunk this write up.

Yes, Everyone desires to be happy, according to many, a happy person achieves more goals, not all goals but many that is why happiness is not total.

Let me draw down instances to our everyday life:

Couple A have children of both gender, peaceful home, loving and respective children but no money. They struggle to feed, they struggle to live, they also struggle to pay rent. Even though they are hard working, they are not happy that the family is financially unstable, they always admire Couple B. They are so happy for the life and beautiful family but not happy with their income. They feel that that their happiness will be complete if they are financially bouyant like Couple B...

Meanwhile, Couple B are so rich but with respectful children, disrespectful and abusive husband. The wife always wish to have a loving husband like couple A. She feels her joy will be complete when her husband turns a new leaf.

Furthermore Couple C has wealth, wayward children, a loving husband and a wife with flourishing beauty and banging shape. They feel that their happiness will be complete if their children turn a new leaf.

Surprisingly, Couple D have everything beautiful in this life but no children. Funny right, she thinks her joy will be complete if they are blessed with children...

Now, Couple A became wealthy but the husband changed negatively, she now has another new goal to keep the family whole as before. This can equally make her happier. Couple B's wife divorced her husband because of abusiveness, their new goal is to get this or that, life continues. As couple C and D have what they want, something comes up to be their new goal. Even if you have almost everything in life, maintaining those things from depreciating is a new goal you must achieve, if that slips away, it makes you unhappy .

This keeps happening all and over again till one dies. There is challenge at every stage of life which makes you pursue what will solve it and give you happiness.

So let's not stress or kill or loose our sanity in our quest for happiness. If you get it all , there is something that will work you up or try to steal your Joy.

Accept that everything comes at the right time, be happy for the things you have and be happy for the things you will have even when you don't have them. That is how people who are always happy are. You might think they have it all. Nooo! they don't but they have strategize the means of being happy All the time and that is gratefulness.

Many you see happy are grateful, grateful people achieve more and become more happy as the pursue other things.

I pity those who go as far as killing more successful happy people because of jealousy. I pity those part of beings that go diabolic just to bring down people. They don't have everything they might be striving for as much as you do but they are always grateful.

Happy people are contented.

Happy people achieve more.

Happy people do great things.

Happy people are healthy at heart.

Happy people wear the look that everything is moving so easily but may not be the case .

If you soil your hands just to be happy in life, it doesn't last, that kind of happiness comes with mixed feelings whereby the soul is not at peace but the body is happy.That kind of happiness is easily plucked out in a sudden manner.

in Man pursuit of happiness, know that there is no total happiness, the faster we know and assimilate that, the better for us because it will lesson heartbreaks, disappointments, sadness, frustrations and the others.

Thanks for reading.